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VAN DER WAL: Ralph of Lucan

January 19, 2022 By Haskett Funeral Homes 75 Condolences

VAN DER WAL: Ralph of Lucan

Unexpectedly at his home on Tuesday, January 18, 2022 of Lucan, at the age of 59. Cherished husband of Freda (Reinink) van der Wal for over 38 years. Proud dad of Krista van der Wal, and Michele van der Wal (Jeffrey Grison). Beloved son of Grace (Vos) and the late Heiko van der Wal. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Alberta and William den Hartog, and William and Kathy van der Wal. Ralph will be fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews.

Ralph always enjoyed being in the great outdoors. He loved to fish, hunt, or head out with his buddies on a snowmobiling trip. He always liked to keep busy farming, or taking the four-wheeler back to the bush where he made maple syrup.

Visitation will be held at Providence United Reformed Church, 447 Second Street, STRATHROY on Friday from 2 – 4 and 7 – 9 PM, where the funeral service will be held on Saturday, January 22nd at 11 AM with Pastor Harry Zekveld officiating. Interment St. James Cemetery, Clandeboye.

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  1. peter dillon

    June 27, 2022 at 12:32 PM

    I have many fond memories of business dealings with Ralph over the years. He always approached serious issues with a sense of humour. Always a smile. I am saddened that he passed at the prime of his life, after a life of hard work. My thoughts and prayers to Freda and all of the family.

  2. Constance Hueston

    February 5, 2022 at 12:23 PM

    Dear Freda and family – I write this with a heavy heart. My sister, Heather Biduke, and I send our deepest condolences to you. Ralph helped us for many years on the farm and was a true friend and advisor. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

  3. George Graham

    January 28, 2022 at 4:10 PM

    I have just hear of the death of Ralph and would like to offer my sincere condolences on your loss.
    Ralph visited us once per year for our annual tank cleaning and we always looked forward to a great few days coping with the challenges of the weather and the equipment but always with a smile and a laugh. We will miss him.

  4. Alton O’Neil

    January 28, 2022 at 3:14 PM

    Freda and Family,
    Sending you my deepest condolences on the loss of Ralph. He will be greatly missed by his neighbours and customers.
    Alton O’Neil

  5. Rolf Westerveld

    January 26, 2022 at 2:28 PM

    Dear Freda and family,

    Very sad to hear about Ralph. Although we met just once nearly fifty years ago he was my ‘big’ nephew in Canada.

    Veel sterkte met het verwerken van dit grote verlies.

    Greetings from the Netherlands.

    Rolf Westerveld, Leeuwarden
    (Son of Wim Westerveld and Liesbeth ban der Wal)

  6. Nelson and Kathy Bilyea

    January 25, 2022 at 7:47 PM

    Freda and family,
    We were shocked when we heard of Ralph’s padding. Our sincere condolences to you Freda and your family.
    Nelson and Kathy Bilyea

  7. Caleb and Aya

    January 25, 2022 at 7:37 AM

    Our deepest condolences, we will be keeping you all in our prayers. I still remember having fun with Uncle Ralph when visiting as a kid. We were very sad to hear of his sudden passing.

  8. Wayne and Joan Watson

    January 24, 2022 at 3:25 PM

    Freda,

    Our sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Ralph will be extremely missed by everyone he met.

  9. Nick & Colleen Wiendels

    January 24, 2022 at 2:00 PM

    Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers at this time.

    Nick & Colleen Wiendels

  10. Ron & Karen Simpson and Ronald jr.

    January 24, 2022 at 12:08 PM

    So very sorry to hear of your loss , our sympathy to all of you , Ralph was a very nice man and loved his family dearly. So very sorry
    this note is from Ronald Simpson Jr. and his parents , Ronald used to work for Ralph some years back .

  11. Scott Pullan

    January 24, 2022 at 10:48 AM

    Ralph always treated others like they were his brother or sister. He was the most loving, gentle and compassionate man I knew. You will be missed Brother Wonderful.

  12. Alex and Donna Westman

    January 23, 2022 at 7:14 PM

    I enjoyed many great conversations with Ralph and the boys out at the sugar bush.

    Truly a tragic loss.

    Our sincere condolences to the family. He will be sadly missed.

  13. Jeff & Patty Reinink

    January 23, 2022 at 6:25 PM

    Sorry for your loss. I enjoyed talking to Uncle Ralph at our family get togethers. He always seemed happy when surrounded by family and created a cheerful atmosphere.

  14. Eric and Hazel Versteeg

    January 23, 2022 at 6:01 PM

    thinking and praying for you in this time of loss

  15. Shari Hill

    January 23, 2022 at 4:59 PM

    Sending my condolences to you and your family Freda

  16. Betty and Henry Van Beek

    January 23, 2022 at 1:20 PM

    We are so sorry for your loss sending prayers and hugs to all. Ralph’s huge smile and zest for life has created many beautiful memories, especially at the family reunions and the water balloons being tossed. We will miss you Ralph R.I.P.

  17. Sandra Hern

    January 23, 2022 at 1:18 PM

    To Ralph’s Family,

    I was saddened to read of the suddenly and untimely passing of Ralph. I enjoyed helping him with his advertising for his Van-Agri Business Services in the local farm newspaper I worked for several years ago. He was a friendly and hard working man who enjoyed his leisure activities and loved his family very much. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him. Please accept my condolences.

  18. Ron Harwood

    January 23, 2022 at 8:44 AM

    Freda and family.
    Our prayers are with you all at this time.
    Ralph was a very giving man. His quick smile and infectious laugh was passed to all. We can fill pages with tributes to Ralph, but will not. We all will miss him greatly.
    Ron and Sherri Harwood

  19. Lisa Currah

    January 22, 2022 at 7:37 PM

    Rick and I send condolences. While we havent seen you both for a while this news comes a a surprise. We have many fond memories from S.H.A.B.A.

  20. Richard and Janet de Ruiter

    January 22, 2022 at 2:41 PM

    Freda and family, our sincere condolences with Ralph’s passing. May God comfort you all during this time. We remember Ralph’s humor and laughter and his passion for life. May you all cherish the memories that you have of him always.

  21. Gary & Jane

    January 22, 2022 at 1:52 PM

    Freda & family
    Cherishing our good memories of Ralph. You are in our thoughts and thoughts & prayers.

  22. Jeff Gerretsen

    January 22, 2022 at 12:46 PM

    Dear Freda and family,

    We were saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Ralph. Our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May memories of Ralph give you strength in the days ahead.

    With sympathy,

    the Gerretsen family (Listowel)

  23. Sharlene Phillips

    January 22, 2022 at 11:05 AM

    Ralph was an amazing blessing to our whole family and especially to our 5 boys. From a very young age the three youngest became his “rubber boot gang” as he called them and the highlight of their lives was spending time with Ralph! Ralph was the very much loved uncle they never had, he was a wonderful employer to Allan and Peter, he was the author of many great adventures 😊, the creator of a fabulous swimming pond, their introduction to paintball and snowmobiling and a very dearly loved family friend. Ralph was incredibly kind and generous, a remarkable person who gave so much happiness to others. He was always there to lend a helping hand or a piece of equipment! We treasure the times we had with Ralph, all the great memories, all his kindnesses and his laughter and we miss him.

  24. Fred and Aileen Knip and family

    January 22, 2022 at 9:31 AM

    Freda, Krista and Michele
    Our condolences to your family in the passing of Ralph. Ralph will always be remembered for his big smile and larger than life personality!

  25. Fred and Tammy O’Neil

    January 21, 2022 at 7:09 PM

    We are sending our deepest condolences to your entire family. Ralph was a friend to everyone and will be missed.

  26. Garry and Jeanette wattel

    January 21, 2022 at 6:50 PM

    Our sincere condolence with the passing of Ralph
    We will keep your family in our prayers.

  27. Carol Sloetjes

    January 21, 2022 at 6:23 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers for the whole family at such a difficult time. May GOD Love and Peace be with you all.
    Dan and Carol Sloetjes

  28. RAY GERHOLD

    January 21, 2022 at 3:43 PM

    My condolences on Ralph’s sudden passing , I will miss our conversations when he stopped in to service his truck .
    He was always kind , thoughtful and positive .

  29. Andrea and Casey Pride

    January 21, 2022 at 1:53 PM

    To the Van Der Wal family,

    Our deepest condolences for the sudden loss of our dear friend Ralph. He touched the lives of so many people, bringing love and laughter everywhere he went. May God lift you up, strengthen you and surround you love and support during this difficult time.

    Sending love and a hug,
    Andrea and Casey Pride

  30. Marrinan family

    January 21, 2022 at 12:09 PM

    To all of Van derwal family…
    Sending our condolences.
    Ralph was a hard working, kind and generous man. He was so proud of his family and I’m sure he will be missed by many.

  31. R.O.S.E. a Land Care Association

    January 21, 2022 at 11:48 AM

    On Behalf of the ROSE Land Care Association, we are sending our condolences and sympathies to the family of Ralph Van Der Wal, on his sudden passing.

    Ralph’ s passion and support as a board member and community member have left a legacy and memory on the grounds of Sunnivue, and in the hearts of all that had the pleasure to interact with Ralph.

    It is with sadness that we learned Ralph has returned to his eternal home, and with fondness that we are celebrating the beautiful contributions of his life.

  32. Geert and Ina van der Wal

    January 21, 2022 at 11:37 AM

    Geert and Ina van der Wal
    Vlissingen Holland

    Our sincere condolences to Freda and children and family with the sudden passing of Ralph, we pray that the Lord God will strenght You and Your Family and that His presence will with you all now and in the days ahead.

  33. Nick & Dana Van Dyk

    January 21, 2022 at 9:24 AM

    Our sincere condolences to your family our thoughts are with you. Will miss our coffee meetings as Ralph like to call it, to shoot the s@#! along with his big laugh.

  34. JC and Judy Korten

    January 21, 2022 at 8:35 AM

    Our condolences to your family. May the Lord comfort you in your grief.

  35. Linda Klassen

    January 21, 2022 at 7:44 AM

    To all the VanDerWal family:
    We are so sorry to hear of Ralph’s passing.
    He was still so young. He will be missed by all.
    We are praying for God’s peace and love through this difficult time.
    Love Linda and Neil Klassen and family

  36. Ed Cosman

    January 21, 2022 at 4:48 AM

    My condolences to Freda, Krista, Michelle and the entire family. While I had not seen Ralph for a number of years, I remember his big smile and happy-go-lucky attitude. He will be missed but not forgotten.

  37. Evelyne Rollings and family

    January 20, 2022 at 10:11 PM

    Our condolences to your family during this sad time. Harvey had many great talks at the mail box with Ralph.

  38. Beatrice Gahongayire

    January 20, 2022 at 9:49 PM

    My deepest condolences to Freda and family for the loss of Ralph. My prayers to you during this grieving process.

  39. Deborah and Rich Hunter

    January 20, 2022 at 8:35 PM

    Rich and I offer our deepest condolences to Ralph’s family. He was a wonderful, kind, thoughtful man. Always willing to help anyone out. He will be missed.

  40. Kyle O'Brien

    January 20, 2022 at 5:08 PM

    I had the great privilege of spending direct and personal time with Ralph over the past 2 years. He and his brother Bill have hearts of gold, they took me under their wing and treated me like family from day one. My condolences go out to all family and friends whose lives were touched by this remarkable individual.

    With utmost love and respect,

    Kyle O’Brien

  41. Reg Barnes

    January 20, 2022 at 5:08 PM

    Ralph is a great example of a very good man.

    Our thoughts and prayers to your family.

  42. Sonke and Anne Claussen

    January 20, 2022 at 4:59 PM

    Freda and Family,

    our sincere condolences to Ralph’s passing. We will remember his smile and his positive attitude in finding a solution for every problem . He will be missed.

  43. Robert Weir

    January 20, 2022 at 3:07 PM

    Freda and family, our sincere condolences for a way too soon loss.
    Ralph was always a joy of life when we saw him especially at the reunions.

    He will be missed terribly but always remembered in our hearts and memories….

    ” If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I’d walk right up to heaven and bring you home again ”

    We love you Ralph….❤

    Cousin Rob and family

  44. pauline

    January 20, 2022 at 2:32 PM

    Freda and family I knew Ralph from growing up together i. the Klemmer work. An outstanding bold leader with a big heart of love. loved his radiant smile. He will be deeply missed here in earth yet a prayer warrior for us in heaven

  45. Cindy Nowak-Mitchell and Bill Mitchell

    January 20, 2022 at 1:49 PM

    Freda and family. We were greatly saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Ralph. Ralph was the first neighbour who we met when we moved here. We so enjoyed his giving spirit and positive energy. He has been so generous with his time and talents helping us get settled into our home. His presence will be missed in the neighbourhood. May God lift you up and support you during this difficult time.

  46. Nicholson Family

    January 20, 2022 at 12:21 PM

    Freda, Krista, Michele and Ralph’s Mom:
    Sending our heartfelt thoughts of sympathy to you at this time. Our years on Neil Rd were enriched by Ralph’s presence. Always a smile and a wave and often a German Shepherd bouncing along. He will be missed! May God bless you with strength and wisdom in the days ahead and His grace give you comfort and peace.
    Ryan, Jeanine and Carol. Port Alice BC

  47. Kimberly Zink

    January 20, 2022 at 12:21 PM

    Klemmer sends our love and appreciation to Ralph’s family and friends. There has been a great loss on the physical level however there is a huge celebration in heaven!
    As a true Compassionate Samurai Ralph made a difference in the lives of thousands directly and indirectly.
    We are grateful for the time we spent together!
    Blessings and comfort to all that love this man!!
    Klemmer- Kimberly and Krystal- the entire team at Klemmer!

  48. Sally Galloway

    January 20, 2022 at 11:35 AM

    My deepest condolences to the family and friends of dear Ralph Van der Wal whom I knew through his wonderful work with Klemmer which I know meant so much to him. He will be deeply missed.

  49. Jeff Lucas

    January 20, 2022 at 11:06 AM

    I only met Ralph a few times but he left a lasting impression on me the commitment he showed for his friends, colleagues and the organizations he volunteered for. My condolences to his family on their loss. Blessings on you.

  50. Maggie parr

    January 20, 2022 at 10:49 AM

    Wishing the family strength, with gods help, to cope with this unexpected loss.

  51. Hank and Cheryl Batterink

    January 20, 2022 at 10:43 AM

    Dear Freda and family, We were so saddened to hear of Ralph’s sudden death. For a few years he added his voice to the Crescendo male choir and we always enjoyed our chats with him and appreciated his love for the Lord and his enthusiastic singing. You are in our thoughts and prayers . May the god of all comfort surround you with his love and peace.

  52. Tom and Barb McInroy

    January 20, 2022 at 10:16 AM

    We were so very saddened to hear of Ralph’s sudden passing. …you will miss him very much. Our sincere condolences.

    Tom and Barb McInroy

  53. Bob and Pat Hodgins

    January 20, 2022 at 10:15 AM

    To Freda and your family
    We are truly sorry to hear of the sudden passing of Ralph. We’ve had many interesting chats on a variety of issues when we met, usually in the bush. He will be definitely missed in the neighborhood.

  54. Hans Nibourg

    January 20, 2022 at 9:53 AM

    Our sincere condolence to Freda and Family with the sudden passing of Ralph .
    He will be greatly missed by his Family , Friends and the the community

  55. Del and Bonnie Cressman

    January 20, 2022 at 9:21 AM

    My deepest condolences to Ralph’s family and community He was a young fellow when he moved to the lucan area and he always blamed or credited me for introducing him to the custom farming program..i was very saddened by his passing . From the Listowel area I will not forget his fun loving spirit and great smile and laugh…..Del Cressman

  56. Adele Mineau

    January 20, 2022 at 8:28 AM

    Freda and family, my deepest condolences for your family’s loss. I enjoyed working with Ralph and discussing his plans for the business. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

  57. Steve & Kim Bowman

    January 20, 2022 at 8:13 AM

    Dear Freda and family
    Our deepest condolences to you on the loss of Ralph.

  58. Mike Cregan

    January 20, 2022 at 8:06 AM

    Freda,
    I was truly saddened to learn of Ralph’s passing at such an early age. I will miss his Facebook posts and his bubbly personality – we always had a laugh (no matter what the situation) in his office or mine.
    He will be a huge loss to the community as well as his family & friends.
    My sincerest sympathy to you.

  59. Joris & Connie Masschelein

    January 20, 2022 at 8:03 AM

    Dear Freda and family, Our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    We always enjoyed his positive attitude.

    Joris & Connie Masschelein and family

  60. Terry Bushell

    January 20, 2022 at 8:01 AM

    So sorry to hear of Ralph’s passing . Though our relationship was based on business dealings our conversations carried into many other things. He always treated me with respect and kindness. He will be missed .

  61. Doug and connie trevithick

    January 20, 2022 at 7:43 AM

    Doug and connie trevithick

    Dear freda and family our sincere condolences. We have great memories of snowmobiling !

  62. Gord & Joanne Hardy

    January 20, 2022 at 7:36 AM

    To the Van Der Wal family:

    Sincere sympathy for your loss. Ralph was certainly well known in the community and will be missed.

  63. Martin, Esther, Christa, Lisanne de Ruiter-van der Wal

    January 20, 2022 at 7:26 AM

    Our condolences to the family, from the Netherlands.
    God be with you in this difficult periode!

    Martin, Esther, Christa and Lisanne de Ruiter

    Esther is the doughter of Jan van der Wal

  64. Dean

    January 20, 2022 at 7:12 AM

    My friend, in all the years knowing you, you were a spirit that was vibrant and fun. You will be missed my friend. It was a honor to know you and call you a friend.

    My heart goes out to your family and my condolences for the loss of such a great man.

  65. Joe Woods

    January 19, 2022 at 10:12 PM

    My condolences to the Ralph Vanderwahl family

  66. Hans and Corinne Rosch

    January 19, 2022 at 8:47 PM

    Our sincerest condolences to such untimely passing of Ralph. He was a man with a big heart and always ready to help wherever there was a need.

  67. Dirk & Erica Kiestra

    January 19, 2022 at 8:16 PM

    Dear Freda and family,
    We were so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of Ralph. He was a great person. Good to work with and a good mentor for the boys. He will be missed. Our condolences.

  68. Winnie Decloedt

    January 19, 2022 at 7:52 PM

    Grace, Freda, Betty, Bill and families. We are so so sorry with the loss of Ralph. He was still so young and so full of life, it is hard to except . You are all in our thoughts , and hope you can hold on to the many great memories that you have of him, as we will…Love Winnie and Gill

  69. Shirley MacGregor

    January 19, 2022 at 7:22 PM

    Our sincere condolences to your family.

    Lorne & Shirley MacGregor

  70. Bradley and Lee Ann Charlton

    January 19, 2022 at 4:54 PM

    Dear Freda and Family,
    We are so sorry to hear about Ralph. Ralph was an integral member of the community who did so many things for so many people. He harvested the hay from our land for our mutual neighbour. He introduced us to local ATV Trails and Bradley had a great time 4-wheeling with him. We really admired his dedication to the sport of 4-wheeling and his contributions to the community. He will be missed by many. Please accept our sincerest condolences.
    Bradley and Lee Ann Charlton

  71. Pete & Pat Van Geleuken

    January 19, 2022 at 4:16 PM

    Pete & I are sending our deepest condolences to your family. We are both so sad to hear of Ralph’s sudden passing.

  72. Derek O'Brien

    January 19, 2022 at 4:14 PM

    Bill and Family,

    I spoke to Ralph a few times on the phone with Bill, and it was so obvious he was a great guy with a heart of gold. I send Bill and the van der Wal family my deepest condolences.

    Derek O’Brien

  73. Karen Scarborough and Doug O'Neil

    January 19, 2022 at 4:02 PM

    It was a pleasure doing business with Ralph at the shop. Always upbeat and happy, he was quite a role model. The community will have many fond memories of Ralph.

  74. Doug and Carol Whiteford

    January 19, 2022 at 3:37 PM

    Dear Freda and girls, we are so very saddened to hear about Ralph, he was a great neighbour, 4 wheeler hunting buddy! Doug thoroughly enjoyed the time he spent with Ralph last winter and since! He was a bigger than life presence in our neighbourhood!!! He will be missed! Doug and Carol 😢

  75. Bob and Ria Middelkamp

    January 19, 2022 at 3:34 PM

    Freda and family, Our sincere condolence with the passing of Ralph. so sudden and so young. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the coming days and times to come.

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