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VAN DEN AKKER: Arlene (Williamson) of Egmondville

July 4, 2024 By Haskett Funeral Home 123 Condolences

VAN DEN AKKER: Arlene (Williamson) of Egmondville

Passed away peacefully at Stratford General Hospital, with her family by her side on Wednesday, July 3, 2024 at the age of 80. Loving wife of Ben van den Akker for 55 years. Cherished mother of Amy van den Akker and Bill Springer, and Brent van den Akker and Jen Loft. Adored grandma of Logan, Avery, and Hunter. Dear sister and sister-in-law of June Williamson and Phil Neilsen, Diane Williamson, and Tony and Nancy van den Akker. Fondly remembered by her nieces and nephews, Amanda and Matt Coughlin, Michael and Nicole Boneschansker, Melissa Fussell, Michele and Dave Fisher, and Holly Sache, also by her many great–nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her brother Keith Williamson, parents Jim and Erma (Gray) Williamson, and parents-in-law Bessel Sr. and Aartje “Anna” (de Groot) van den Akker.

Ben and Arlene met shortly after high school and married in 1969. Living together in London, Forest, Oil Springs and finally settling in Seaforth/Egmondville. Arlene graduated Stratford Teachers College in 1963 and started teaching in 1964. She later earned her Bachelors of Arts in 1985 at University of Western Ontario. Arlene taught in Kitchener, Oxford County, and later Seaforth and enjoyed each moment spent with the students. She greatly enjoyed Music and was a member of the Harmony Highlights. Arlene also had a love for photography, birds, going for a walk with friends but most importantly family. She will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home 87 Goderich Street North, Seaforth on Friday, July 5th from 6 – 8 PM.

Arlene’s Funeral Service will be held at Community of Christ Church 226 Forman Ave, Stratford on Saturday, July 6th at 11 AM with visitation starting at 10 AM. Interment at Brussels Cemetery.

Donations to Alzheimer’s Society – Huron Perth, Heart & Stroke Foundation or the Community of Christ Church in Arlene’s memory would be appreciated by the family.

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Condolence Messages

  1. Ron Ritchie

    July 13, 2024 at 8:44 AM

    I feel honoured to have had the privilege of teaching for a few years at SPS with Arlene. She left a positive influence upon anyone she encountered, students and staff alike.

  2. Tracy (Bosman) McLennan

    July 10, 2024 at 2:27 PM

    Dear Ben, Amy, Brent and family,
    I just read about Arlene’s passing and wanted to convey my condolences. Mrs. van den Akker was a wonderful teacher and I always enjoyed seeing/talking to her when I was a student at SPS. Years later, I had the opportunity to sing with her in the Harmony Hi-Lites. She was a lovely and kind person. May the many wonderful memories you have of her help bring you some comfort.
    Kind regards,
    Tracy (Bosman) McLennan

  3. Marlene Ingram

    July 10, 2024 at 9:25 AM

    So sorry for your loss Ben and family .

  4. Helen McNaughton

    July 9, 2024 at 3:23 PM

    Ben, Amy and Brent and extended family. My sympathy to all. Arlene was an inspiration to many students who passed through her classroom over the years. May your memories carry you through this sad time.

  5. Mary Longstaff

    July 9, 2024 at 2:20 PM

    Dear Ben and family. Our sincere condolences to your family from the Longstaff family. We wish you peace and comfort. Arlene always had a sweet smile and nod whenever you met her on her walks with her friend. May all your memories be kept close in your hearts to know what a wonderful wife and Mom you had. Mary Longstaff and family

  6. Morgan & Michelle Murray

    July 8, 2024 at 3:59 PM

    Our sympathy to Ben, Amy,Brent and family
    Many fond memories of Arlene at SPS. Everytime we crossed paths over the years, she would always take a few minutes to stop and say hello
    Hugs to all of you

  7. Dorothy Drake

    July 8, 2024 at 3:25 PM

    She was a fondly remembered teacher of mine at Seaforth Public School, so many years ago. I remember her smile, her kindness, and gentle words. I have read many of the other comments left here, and clearly she touched many lives in a positive way.

  8. Shelley Webber, Ray Horne and Family

    July 8, 2024 at 2:52 PM

    Ben and Family,
    We are saddened to hear of Arlenes passing. We hold you all in our thoughts and prayers.

  9. Jenn Telfer

    July 8, 2024 at 2:24 PM

    Dear Ben & family

    I’m sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. My deepest condolences to your family as you grieve her loss. I remember her beautiful smile and kind soul.

    Take care
    Jenn & Matt Telfer

  10. Kathy & Greg O’Reilly

    July 8, 2024 at 1:59 PM

    So sorry for your loss Ben & family. It was always a pleasure meeting Arlene when out for a walk. She will sure be missed in the neighborhood too! Cherish your many fond memories
    Sincerely, Kathy & Greg O’Reilly

  11. Sarah Shapton

    July 8, 2024 at 12:24 PM

    Ben, and Family,

    We’re sorry to hear of Arelene’s passing. Our condolences, may you cherish your memories.

    David and Sarah Shapton

  12. Janet Bettles

    July 8, 2024 at 10:59 AM

    Ben I was so sad to hear of Arlene’s passing. She was she such a wonderful lady and I know you will miss her a lot. I always enjoyed our chats at HDC gatherings. Brad and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family.

    Janet and Brad Bettles

  13. Marissa (Scott) Berdan

    July 8, 2024 at 10:24 AM

    Arlene was a lovely person through and through. My sincere condolences to her family at this sad time.

  14. Walt Vermunt

    July 8, 2024 at 10:09 AM

    Ben and Families, our sincere condolences on losing Arlene. May your memories give you comfort going forward.

    Walt and Brenda Vermunt

  15. Maureen and Merv Agar

    July 8, 2024 at 9:56 AM

    Dear Ben, Amy, Brent and families,
    Our thoughts our with you at this sad time. We will always remember her sweet smile when ever we met. Your loving memories will help you all hold her close.

  16. Tim Beard

    July 8, 2024 at 8:52 AM

    Ben and family

    So very sorry to hear of Arlene’s death. She was always a happy, kind and gracious woman.

    Susan and Tim Beard

  17. George Kruse

    July 8, 2024 at 8:29 AM

    Sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. Cherish the memories Ben. Our condolences to your family. George and Kim Kruse.

  18. Dawne & Merv Erb

    July 8, 2024 at 7:46 AM

    Ben & Family
    We were saddened to hear of Arlene’s passing.
    May all your memories bring you much comfort.
    Although words seem to say so little
    I hope they help in some small way
    To ease the loss you’re experiencing today.
    Hold fast to your memoirs ,
    To all of the cherished moments of the past,
    To the blessing and the laughter,
    The joys and the celebrations,
    The sorrow and the tears.
    They all add up to a treasure of fond yesterdays
    That you shared and spent together,
    Dawne & Merv Erb

  19. Pauline Gruhl

    July 7, 2024 at 6:36 PM

    Ben, Brent and family

    Our sincere condolences to all of you on the loss of Arlene.

    We have so many memories from back in the Listowel Junior B days.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

    Len and Pauline Gruhl and family

  20. Hilrita Arts

    July 7, 2024 at 6:29 PM

    Sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing.
    May your memories heal your hurt
    and give you strength through the coming days.
    Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
    Many memories at Dutch family gatherings.

    HILRITA ARTS ( HOEKSTRA)

  21. Brian & Christie Little

    July 7, 2024 at 4:41 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and family,

    Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort. Arlene was a wonderful woman who touched the lives of many.

    Brian & Christie Little

  22. Gerry, Kathy & Derek

    July 7, 2024 at 2:01 PM

    Sending comforting hugs!
    May every thought of Arlene bring a smile to your faces; just like the beautiful smile that always graced her face.
    Gerry, Kathy and Derek Cooper

  23. Jim and Ruth Carter

    July 7, 2024 at 1:40 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families, our deepest sympathies on the loss of Arlene.

  24. Janet and Jim Papple

    July 7, 2024 at 12:16 PM

    So sorry Ben. Didn’t know until now. Arlene was a wonderful person. We will all miss her.

  25. Don & Elaine Shropshall

    July 7, 2024 at 11:43 AM

    Ben, Brett, Amy and families our deepest sympathy go out to you all during these difficult times. Arlene was thoughtful, kind and always greeted you with a smile. All those hockey games she attended and never anything negative. Very positive and encouraging at all times. Treasure those memories. Don & Elaine

  26. Steve Thompson

    July 7, 2024 at 12:40 AM

    Thinking of all of you today and sending our sincere condolences and love. We will always remember Arlene’s warm and loving spirit. We have good memories of family times we shared with her and all of you.
    Love,
    Steve and Marian

  27. Janet Klaver

    July 6, 2024 at 11:48 PM

    So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing.
    Condolences to Ben and family.

  28. Wanda Dietz

    July 6, 2024 at 10:41 PM

    Ben, Amy & Brent and families – my Sincere Sympathy to all of you with the loss of Arlene. She will be missed.

  29. Harold and Ruth Klages.

    July 6, 2024 at 9:59 PM

    Dear Ben and Family.
    Please accept our sympathy. Arlene was a good friend and room mate, a teaching partner and a beautiful bridesmaid in our wedding. We will always remember Arlene as we named our second daughter Arlene.
    Treasure all of your wonderful memories.
    Sincerely, Ruth and Harold Klages.

  30. Cathi Hill

    July 6, 2024 at 6:37 PM

    Our sincere condolences to Ben and family.
    Lyle and Cathi Hill

  31. Rick & Carolyn Powell

    July 6, 2024 at 6:23 PM

    You all have our sympathy & condolences in the passing of Arlene. What a lovely lady & patient teacher she was.
    Sincerely, Rick & Carolyn Powell & family

  32. Sharon Elliott

    July 6, 2024 at 6:13 PM

    Our sincere condolences on Arlene’s passing.
    My parents ( Andy & Verna MacNichol )had a farm beside the Williamson’s. I remember having play-dates with Arlene. We would
    have “ little” tea parties. Sometimes her brother Keith would join us.
    Lots of great memories.
    Bob & Sharon (McNichol) Elliott

  33. Tammy & Pete Martene

    July 6, 2024 at 5:47 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families
    Our heartfelt condolences to you. Arlene was a beautiful person who touched many lives, and a favourite teacher to many. She always had a smile and I enjoyed our chats at the Rec Centre. Sending you much love during this difficult time, hugs to everyone
    Tammy and Pete Martene

  34. Carolyn Griffin

    July 6, 2024 at 5:46 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families.
    So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. She will live on in your memories so hold them close. We’re away so unable to attend the funeral but we’ll keep you in our thought and prayers.

  35. Brandi Wilson

    July 6, 2024 at 4:29 PM

    Ben, Amy Brent and family,
    Our deepest sympathy to you on Arlene’s passing, she was such a wonderful lady. I was lucky enough to be one of her students and have never forgotten the warmth she brought to the classroom at Seaforth Public School.
    Brandi (Williamson) Wilson and family.

  36. Becky Durand

    July 6, 2024 at 3:43 PM

    Brent & family,
    We were so saddened to hear of your mom’s passing. We have such fond memories of her at the arena cheering H & the boys on. Sincere condolences from our family to yours. Big hugs!
    ❤️The Durands

  37. Gary Phillips

    July 6, 2024 at 12:58 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers to you Ben and families

  38. John Walls & Family

    July 6, 2024 at 12:47 PM

    To the van den AKKER family;
    Thinking of you at this difficult time.

  39. Helen Lyons

    July 6, 2024 at 12:05 PM

    My heartfelt sympathy Ben to you and your family on the loss of your dear wife, mother and grandmother. I didn’t know your wife but remember seeing her with you at many HDC functions over the years. Cherish your memories made through the years to help you through this sad time in your lives.
    Sincerely,
    Helen Lyons

  40. William Price

    July 6, 2024 at 10:28 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families, We are so very saddened to hear of Arlene’s passing. We will remember Arlene as the beautiful lady, with the beautiful smile for all she met. May your cherished family memories keep Arlene ever close to your hearts. Our Deepest Sympathy to all at this difficult time. Sincerely Bill and Gail Price

  41. Doug/Gail Schroeder

    July 6, 2024 at 9:43 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and family- so sorry to hear about Arlene. Our deepest sympathies. She will be missed.-Doug/Gail Schroeder

  42. Bob and Carol Johnston

    July 6, 2024 at 9:14 AM

    Ben and family
    So very sorry to read about Arlene. Many memories of visiting with her at various H D C functions throughout our working years. She was such a kind, sweet gal and will be greatly missed by her family and many friends.
    Thinking of you all at this difficult time in your lives.
    Carol and Bob

  43. Gerry and Barb Williamson

    July 6, 2024 at 8:07 AM

    Barb and I are indeed sorry to hear of your loss. Our sympathy goes out to all of you during these difficult times.
    Arlene was a great neighbour, friend and relative and we’re sorry we’re unable to attend.

  44. Larry & Helen Cook

    July 6, 2024 at 8:01 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent, and Families,
    Please accept our condolences on the passing of Arlene. Always enjoyed the connections over the years.
    Larry and Helen

  45. Catherine and Dale Wick

    July 5, 2024 at 10:42 PM

    Your Mom had the most beautiful smile and I enjoyed bantering with her and your Dad wherever I saw them in town or at the pool.
    Condolences go out to Ben, Amy and Brent. You’ll always have your memories.

  46. Ken Papple

    July 5, 2024 at 9:42 PM

    Ben and family, my sincere sympathy in your loss of Arlene. May these wonderful tributes give you strength and courage to face the days ahead .Do treasure the many heart felt memories.

  47. Robyn & Jason Dietz

    July 5, 2024 at 9:27 PM

    Ben, Amy and Brent and family,
    We are so sorry for your loss. We both enjoyed our visits with Arlene as our paths would cross at her grandkids sporting events. Truly a kind and gentle soul. Our deepest sympathies

  48. Brad and Jayne Walsh, Kristen and Evelyn

    July 5, 2024 at 9:14 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and Families

    Our sincerest sympathies to you all. Arlene was a gem; so kind and friendly. We see in your eyes and your smiles, the happiness she brought to your family. She has left the world a better place and we are better because we knew her.

  49. Kevin and Linda Sholdice

    July 5, 2024 at 8:37 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and Families. Please accept our sincere sympathies in the loss of Arlene from your lives. Cherish your memories.

  50. Murray Armstrong

    July 5, 2024 at 8:08 PM

    Our condolences to Ben and Families

  51. Allan Carter

    July 5, 2024 at 7:42 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent…
    Sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. Please accept our heart felt sympathies. Her forever smile will be remembered by many. Cherish your memories.
    Allan & Karen

  52. Terry and Jill Johnston

    July 5, 2024 at 7:24 PM

    Dear Ben, Amy, Brent and families,
    Arlene was a wonderful teacher and a great colleague during our many years together at Seaforth Public School. She was a kind and gentle friend to all of us who knew the pleasure of her company. She made our world a better place. We share your sadness in her loss.
    With Love, Jill and Terry Johnston

  53. Betty Wright & Sam Kleihauer

    July 5, 2024 at 7:14 PM

    Sending you all lots of love and peaceful prayers. Arlene was always special to me even though I haven’t seen her much in the past few years. RIP Arlene.💖

  54. Glenna Houston

    July 5, 2024 at 7:00 PM

    So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. My condolences to all the family. Lived around the corner from Arlene and her family. Treasure all your special memories.

  55. George Wood

    July 5, 2024 at 6:41 PM

    Ben and family. So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing keep your memories close. Jeanett and George Wood

  56. Nancy Denham

    July 5, 2024 at 6:08 PM

    Ben, Amy and Brent,
    my thoughts are with you at this time. I am remembering so many good days with Arlene, and our cameras. She was a joy to be with, her smile and sparkling eyes lit up the room. I will always treasure those memories.

  57. Joyce Doig

    July 5, 2024 at 5:23 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and Families:
    You are in my thoughts and prayers. Amy, I have so many wonderful memories of when you worked for us at the Golf Course and I knew your Mom as a very beautiful friend to my sister Gwen. The village will miss her gentle engaging smile. Sending warm hugs to all. Joyce Doig

  58. Grace Wiggins

    July 5, 2024 at 4:58 PM

    Dear Ben, Brent , Amy and families. Sending our deepest heart felt condolences. Will miss Arlene’s beautiful smile. Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
    Grace and Wayne Wiggins.

  59. Brian and Jackie Hymers

    July 5, 2024 at 4:32 PM

    Brian and I send our deepest sympathy to Arlene’s family and friends. It was hockey that brought us together in Listowel many years ago. We have had the chance to reconnect the last few years in the Seaforth area at many different events.
    May your fond memories of your wife, mom, grandmother, sister and aunt warm you and comfort you.

  60. Gary and DianneBennett

    July 5, 2024 at 4:29 PM

    With our deepest sympathy, on Arlene’s passing. Thinking of you and family at this sad time.

  61. Jack and Mary Helen McLachlan

    July 5, 2024 at 4:15 PM

    Ben and family,

    Thinking of all of you in the loss of a
    loving wife, mother and grandmother. Have known Arlene since we were neighbours on the 17th and we would often chat about the “ old times”. We will remember Arlene for her infectious smile and gentle personality.
    With caring thoughts of sympathy,
    Jack and Mary Helen

  62. Brad Moore and Carrie McLlwain

    July 5, 2024 at 3:50 PM

    Ben and family, we are very sorry for your loss. I have the fondest memories of my grade 4 teacher, the kind and patient Mrs. van den Akker, at SPS.

    Brad Moore and Carrie McLlwain

  63. Larry and Donna Shapton

    July 5, 2024 at 3:02 PM

    Dear Ben and Family… We were so saddened to hear of Arlene’s passing and want to extend our deepest sympathies to all of you. She will be missed by so many and so will her beautiful smile. May God give you peace in the weeks and months to come…. Very Fondly, Larry & Donna Shapton and family.

  64. Anne and Lyle Kling Furry

    July 5, 2024 at 2:05 PM

    So sorry Benny and family Arlene was such a caring person she will be missed our deepest sympathy.
    Anne and Lyle

  65. Gerald and Janet Weido

    July 5, 2024 at 2:00 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families,

    Our deepest sympathy to all of you all. We always enjoyed our conversations with Arlene over the years at HDC functions and more recently when we were in the neighborhood.

  66. Tom and Carla Smith

    July 5, 2024 at 1:03 PM

    Ben, Amy,Brent and family
    Our deepest condolences for the loss of Arlene. I wish you strength and healing in the memories you have shared.
    Hugs
    Tom and Carla Smith

  67. Brad and Gayle Speiran

    July 5, 2024 at 12:48 PM

    Ben and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

  68. Joy Ross

    July 5, 2024 at 12:46 PM

    My sincere sympathy to Ben, Amy, Brent and families, Arlene was a wonderful lady, always had a smile and a chat, my thoughts and prayers are with you, R,I,P Arlene, you will be missed, Joy Ross.

  69. Marilyn & Mike Thomas

    July 5, 2024 at 12:38 PM

    Our condolences Ben, Amy and Brent. We remember Arlene for her positivity and kindness. She was a good friend and will be missed.

  70. Bill Wallace

    July 5, 2024 at 12:18 PM

    My sincere condolences to Ben and family.
    Bill Wallace

  71. Gerry and Cheryl McLaughlin

    July 5, 2024 at 12:17 PM

    Ben, Amy , Brent and family:
    Our deepest sympathies to everyone. Arlene was a wonderful woman and will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayer to you at this difficult time.

  72. Catherine Shantz

    July 5, 2024 at 11:59 AM

    I wish to extend my sincere condolences to you Ben and family- Remembering the great times we had in the years of singing with all the gals in Seaforth Harmony Hi Lites -May you be surrounded with the peace and courage of Christ in your days ahead.

  73. Pam and Ron Brand

    July 5, 2024 at 11:51 AM

    Our sympathies to Ben and the Van Den Akker family. Arlene was a beautiful lady.

  74. Cathy Hugill

    July 5, 2024 at 11:44 AM

    Dear Ben and family: I enjoyed getting to know both of you through RTO. Arlene and I have had many great conversations by phone and in person over the years. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your wonderful memories bring you peace.

  75. Bonnie Barraclough

    July 5, 2024 at 11:24 AM

    Ben and family
    So sorry to hear about Arlene. She was always very friendly and caring. Remember the good times. My condolences.

  76. Joanne Schroeder

    July 5, 2024 at 11:21 AM

    Our deepest sympathies to Ben, Amy, Brent and families. May your memories with your mom bring you peace, comfort and strength. Thinking of you all.

    Steve and Joanne Schroeder

  77. Gerda Vanden Hoven

    July 5, 2024 at 11:12 AM

    Sincere sympathy to Ben and his family. May the happy memories help you through these difficult days. Cor and Gerda Vanden Hoven

  78. Ellen Murphy

    July 5, 2024 at 10:59 AM

    Ben and family,sorry to hear of Arlene,s passing. Will miss seeing her in her flower beds. Our sympathy to all of you at this time. Gary,Ellen.

  79. Joan Roberton

    July 5, 2024 at 10:50 AM

    Ben & family:
    Sincere condolences to the family. Arlene will be missed by all.

  80. Thomas Papple

    July 5, 2024 at 10:44 AM

    Ben ,Amy, Brent and family
    We were shocked and saddened to hear of Arlene’s passing.
    Keep the memories close to your hearts and she will never be far away
    Deepest sympathy
    Tom Dawn and family

  81. Edith and Laurence Taylor

    July 5, 2024 at 10:22 AM

    To Ben, Amy and Brent and families
    Arlene was such a kind helpful lady, We go back along way with our teaching days,We leaned on each other for so many things .Always a fun time together ,going to sure miss my friend.
    Sincerely ,
    Edith and Laurence Taylor

  82. DEBRA MARSHALL

    July 5, 2024 at 10:10 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families so sorry for your loss . Arlene will always be with you. Her memories will bring you sunshine.

  83. Norma Khan

    July 5, 2024 at 10:08 AM

    Ben and Family;
    Arlene’s wonderful smile and gracious way will be missed by so many. My condolences.
    Norma Khan

  84. Judy Damjanov

    July 5, 2024 at 9:44 AM

    Ben and family, my sincere condolences on your loss you will be in my prayers. Arlene will be missed by many, may she rest in peace now.

    Judy Damjanov (swimmer)

  85. Lloyd and Carol Moore

    July 5, 2024 at 9:39 AM

    Our deepest sympathy to Arlene’s family. We have a lot of good memories from our singing time with Harmony HiLites. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

  86. Ron & Theresa Murray

    July 5, 2024 at 9:28 AM

    To Ben & family, Thinking of you at this difficult time, Arlene always greeted you with a smile! Our deepest sympathy! Ron & Theresa Murray.

  87. Mary Lou Erb

    July 5, 2024 at 9:24 AM

    My sympathy to Arlene’s family , I knew Arlene while singing in Seaforth Harmony Hi- Lites choir, she was such a pleasant person to be around ,always a smile on her face
    My deepest sympathy
    Mary Lou Erb

  88. Kathy Smith

    July 5, 2024 at 9:21 AM

    Ben,Amy,Brent and Family .
    Our Sympathy to you in the passing of a beloved Wife,Mother.and Grandma you are in our thoughts and Prayers.R.I.P.Arlene
    With Sympathy Mark and Kathy.

  89. Trudy Groothuis (Broome)

    July 5, 2024 at 9:19 AM

    My sincerest condolences on the loss ofvyour wife and mother. Arlene was a kind and gentle soul.

  90. Sue and Jim Cox

    July 5, 2024 at 9:12 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and families.
    We are so sorry for your loss. Arlene was such a friendly lady with a kind smile. May your memories help heal you.

  91. Janet Patterson

    July 5, 2024 at 9:07 AM

    Dear Ben & Family
    So sorry for your loss . Thinking of all of You, at this difficult time.
    Sincere Sympathy ,
    Keith & Janet Patterson

  92. Bob & Donna Gibbings

    July 5, 2024 at 8:56 AM

    Dear Ben & Family….so sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing…memories of her go back to public school….cherish the memories you have made…
    our deepest sympathy

  93. Bill and Grace Campbell

    July 5, 2024 at 8:41 AM

    Ben and Family

    Please accept our sincere sympathy at this sad time. Cherish the special memories you have. Arlene was a special lady.

    Bill and Grace Campbell

  94. Helen Crocker

    July 5, 2024 at 8:37 AM

    Our deepest sympathy on the loss of a dear sweet lady. Every time we saw her she had a lovely smile on her face. She will truly be missed.

  95. Carolanne Doig

    July 5, 2024 at 8:35 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and all,
    My sincerest sympathy at this time. Arlene was a great teacher and her students will remember her with fondness. Her singing talents were an asset to the Harmony Highlights for many years, providing enjoyment to all. I am sorry for your loss.

  96. Lida Machan

    July 5, 2024 at 8:14 AM

    Our deepest condolences to Ben, Amy and Brent on Arlenes passing. May your memories help you all through this difficult time. Hugs to all of you.

  97. John Munro

    July 5, 2024 at 8:12 AM

    Sorry to hear of Arlene passing away. Sending are prayers and condolences to Ben and families. John Munro & Rose

  98. Dick Burgess

    July 5, 2024 at 8:11 AM

    Ben, June, Amy, Brent and families, My deepest sympathies on the loss of Arlene – wife, sister, mother. I have fond memories of Ben and Arlene going back to 1964, when I recall seeing my student, Ben dancing with Arlene at a dance I was chaperoning at Seaforth District High School. I thought then as I have for many years since, “What a lovely couple!” Dick Burgess

  99. Gordon & Irma Pryce

    July 5, 2024 at 7:51 AM

    Ben, Amy and Brent;
    Sincerest sympathy to all your family. Arlene always had a smile for everyone she met.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Gordon & irma

  100. Richard and Mary Verberne

    July 5, 2024 at 7:51 AM

    Sorry for your loss. Deepest sympathy.

  101. Reiny Freiter

    July 5, 2024 at 7:30 AM

    Ben,Amy ,Brent and Families.
    So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Deepest sympathies.
    Reiny and Lynda

  102. Piet and Rose

    July 5, 2024 at 7:03 AM

    We always enjoyed the bright smile Arlene shared with so many . She was a wonderful wife, mother and example to the community of Egmondville. Peace to her wonderful family.

    Piet and Rose Loomans
    Whitby, Ont.

  103. Jane and Len Muegge

    July 5, 2024 at 6:47 AM

    Sending heartfelt condolences to you – Ben, Amy, Brent and all your families. Arlene was a lovely, caring lady.
    You’re in our thoughts and prayers.
    Jane and Len Muegge

  104. Ralph and Dianne Wood

    July 5, 2024 at 1:03 AM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and your families ❤️
    We extend our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. Everything happened so quickly.
    Arlene always greeted you with her beautiful smile. Glad we shared many Mondays together doing water aerobics at the Vanastra pool. Ben I hope you continue to join us. Ralph and Dianne Wood

  105. Connie & Mike Marion

    July 4, 2024 at 10:49 PM

    Ben, Amy & Brent, So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs

  106. Brian & Helen Oldfield

    July 4, 2024 at 10:11 PM

    Dear Ben and family, sending our sincere condolences at this sad and difficult time.

  107. Angie Dunn

    July 4, 2024 at 10:03 PM

    Ben, Amy, and Brent,
    So shocked to hear about Arlene’s passing. She was always such a genuine, delightful lady. Thinking about all of you during this difficult time.

  108. Lois McLlwain

    July 4, 2024 at 9:26 PM

    Dear Ben, Amy, Brent & Family
    Our deepest sympathy to you all. Arlene certainly was a beautiful person inside and out. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
    Ken & Lois

  109. Keith & Gloria Wilbee

    July 4, 2024 at 8:56 PM

    Our sympathies to Ben, Amy and Brent and families. Arlene was a gentle kind soul. Ben was always by her side. Many memories of time spent with them both over the years.

  110. Ray and Linda mcnichol

    July 4, 2024 at 8:53 PM

    To the family of Arlene we send our condolences….sincerely Ray and Linda

  111. Gwen and John Patterson

    July 4, 2024 at 8:44 PM

    Dear Ben, Amy, Brent, June and families;
    Sending you our sincere sympathies at this very difficult time. Remembering such a wonderful friend for over 60 years: high school, summer jobs at the ‘Bend’, Teachers College, teaching career, hockey, families, and retirement. Will miss her beautiful smile, her calm and caring demeanor, and her gentle soul. We are all so blessed to have had her in our lives. Cherish all these memories, and hold them in your hearts.
    With love,
    Gwen and John

  112. Suzan Heimpel

    July 4, 2024 at 7:40 PM

    Ben, Amy and Brent. Our deepest sympathies to you all on the loss of such a lovely woman. She was part of our family for many years and we will miss her smiling face, especially at the hockey games.

  113. Jackie Bennewies

    July 4, 2024 at 7:36 PM

    Sorry for your loss Amy,Brent.
    I’ll cherish the memories from public school.
    May she be our guardian angel.
    Rest in peace Arlene.

  114. Paula Blagrave

    July 4, 2024 at 7:35 PM

    Dear Ben, Amy and Brent and all of Arlene’s family. We send our sincerest sympathies on the passing of a loving and gentle lady with the most wonderful smile. May all your memories help you with your loss.
    Sending sympathies to June too as she mourns the loss of her dear sister. From the Blagrave family

  115. Janice Morris

    July 4, 2024 at 7:11 PM

    To Ben and Family,
    Our sympathy to you all.
    May your memories help at this time.
    Janice and Bill Morris

  116. Paul & Joanne Matthews

    July 4, 2024 at 6:57 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Arlene s
    Smile will surly be missed.

  117. Marilyn Taylor

    July 4, 2024 at 6:49 PM

    Ben and Family
    So sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. May happy memories help you through this difficult time!

  118. Jim McNichol

    July 4, 2024 at 6:46 PM

    We are so sorry to hear of Arlene’s passing. Our boys had her as a teacher and they sure liked her. Just a great and caring teacher. She will be missed by all. Jim &Danica

  119. Jacquie Mohr

    July 4, 2024 at 5:50 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and family, my deepest sympathies. She was a wonderful woman. Jacquie

  120. Susanna H

    July 4, 2024 at 4:59 PM

    My condolences to you and your family. May God shower you and your family with peace and comfort as you mourn for your loved one . Holding you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

  121. Judy kelly

    July 4, 2024 at 4:19 PM

    Dear Ben, Brent and Hunter
    We are truly sorry for the loss of a loving wife, mother and grand mother.
    Her and I had many conversations at the hockey games. She was such a lovely lady. It always warmed my heart went Hunter after every game gave his gramma a hug. They were true loyal fans of The Navy Vets. Hold all your wonderful memories close to your heart to get you thru the difficult days ahead.
    Judy and Paul Kelly, Sara, andrew and Lukas #89 Pickard

  122. Heather McMillan

    July 4, 2024 at 4:07 PM

    Ben, Amy, Brent and family,
    Sending you all our heartfelt sympathies during this hard time. Arlene was a wonderful woman, and will be missed by so many. Treasure all your memories.
    Sincerely,
    Bill & Heather McMillan

  123. Diane

    July 4, 2024 at 3:58 PM

    Our sympathies to you Ben, Amy and Brent and families Will miss her smile, laughter and her kindness. I hope you find healing in all the beautiful memories you shared. Hugs
    Diane and family

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