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TURNER: Barbara “Jean” (Lavender) of London B.A., B.Ed

December 20, 2020 By Haskett Funeral Home 26 Condolences

TURNER: Barbara “Jean” (Lavender) of London B.A., B.Ed

Passed peacefully at L.H.S.C – University Hospital with her family by her side on December 19, 2020 at the age of 83. Dear mother of Tracey and Rob Riley of London. Adored grandmother of Shawn and Whitney; Jason; and Brian and Carley all of London. Great-grandmother of Tyler, Blake, Ethan, and Carter. Dear sister and sister-in-law of Tom and Mabel Lavender of Chemainus, BC. Predeceased by her daughter Tammy (1989), granddaughter Jennifer (1985), parents Thomas and Greta Lavender and brothers Jack and Bill Lavender.

A private family funeral service will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, EXETER on Wednesday, December 23rd at 12PM. Due to Provincial COVID-19 restrictions, each person attending must RSVP for the service. Please click “Register Now” below to register. Interment Exeter Cemetery. Though the service is private, the family invites you to join with them from the comfort of your home. Stream the service live or at your convenience by visiting http://www.facebook.com/haskettfh. Haskett Funeral Home, Exeter entrusted with arrangements.

Donations to Children’s Health Foundation – London, Heart and Stroke Foundation or the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Bob and Helen Coates

    December 29, 2020 at 9:31 PM

    Bob and Helen Coates
    Our condolences to Tracey and Rob and Tom and Mabel for your loss of a dear mother, grandmother, great grandmother and sister. She was a wonderful teacher who cared about her students and gave 200% to help them. She w as a wonderful support for our oldest daughter Judy whom she taught so well in her special classes. We shall always be grateful to Jean. Jean was always there to assist me when came as an occasional teacher. Many warm memories!

  2. Jay Campbell

    December 27, 2020 at 6:08 PM

    Jean Turner was a guiding light to our son Tim at Exeter Public School. She was a constant worker to assure he achieved to his potential. Tim now has several post graduate degrees. In later years Jean became a donor to our Camp Sylvan where we assisted teachers to educate their students in appreciating and understanding their natural environment. During the past few years she has continued to donate to the camp. Each year I would meet with her at her apartment home to receive the donation. Of course we would chat and have many recollections. I am sure I will not be the only one who will miss her sprightly spirit.

  3. George and Sue Wilson

    December 26, 2020 at 2:37 PM

    Tracey, Rob and family, we send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mother and Grandmother. Jean had a big heart, and a no nonsense personality. She was a wonderful teacher. Cherish your precious memories. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson

  4. Graham Tait

    December 24, 2020 at 7:08 AM

    Tracey and family,
    I am so sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing.See played a big role in my education as a child.
    Graham Tait

  5. Jean Hodgert

    December 23, 2020 at 4:51 PM

    My sympathy to Jean’s family. Many memories of happy, fun-filled times; especially our trip to Scotland, and a visit with Joy and Bobby.
    Jean Hodgert

  6. Doug and Noreen and family

    December 23, 2020 at 2:36 PM

    Heart felt condolences on the passing of Jean. Sending hugs and much love

  7. Carol-Anne Chambers

    December 23, 2020 at 1:07 PM

    Tracey,
    Your words at your mom’s memorial service were beautiful. I wish I could have been there in person. I will greatly miss the annual Turner Tattler and my telephone chats with your mom. She was a very special lady. May your family’s memories and love give you all strength and comfort during this time.
    Carol-Anne & Family

  8. julie Sullivan

    December 22, 2020 at 5:32 PM

    Brian and Riley family..so sorry to hear about grandma Jean..we are so glad we got to meet her at the baby reveal..she definitely had a feisty side to her…really glad she got to meet her great grandson Carter..our thoughts are with you all
    the Sullivans

  9. Gladys (Lavender) Lahey and Family

    December 22, 2020 at 5:12 PM

    Tracey, Rob and Family,
    We are very sorry that your Mother has passed. May the memories of her love and support throughout your lives help you to feel her guiding spirit and bring comfort to you and your family. I will certainly miss her.

  10. Barb Dietrich

    December 22, 2020 at 4:54 PM

    Tracey,
    I was so sorry to hear of your mom‘s passing. She played such a big role in my life in so many ways! She was a wonderful mentor in helping me get started into my teaching career! And as you know, we shared many a giggle and laughter over the years together! I had not seen her in a number of years but she will always hold a special place in my heart! Love to all!

  11. Bill & Pat Noakes

    December 22, 2020 at 3:01 PM

    Tracey,Rob and families
    Our condolences to Tracey and Ro b and Tom and Mabel on Jeans passing.
    Jean was a super lady indeed. We have been lifelong friends of the Lavender family and Bill spent many years in the Buttrum Hunt Club with Jeans dad
    Tom Sr. Many pleasant memories
    Bill and Pat

  12. Audrey Dakin

    December 22, 2020 at 9:04 AM

    Tracey & Family; so sorry to read of your Mom’s passing. She was a vibrant woman and a great teacher. My mother, Grace Adkins, considered her a friend and spent many times on school trips together. She had a great positive presence and I’m sure she’ll be missed.
    Audrey (Adkins) Dakin

  13. Russ & Rose Funston

    December 21, 2020 at 8:32 PM

    Our thoughts are with you and your family
    Sorry for your loss
    Russ and Rose Funston

  14. Lori Flynn/Colin Cottrell

    December 21, 2020 at 5:11 PM

    Tracey and family

    So sorry for the loss of your mom. I have fond memories as a young girl spending New Years day together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time.

  15. Margaret Watt

    December 21, 2020 at 11:33 AM

    Tracey, Rob and family
    Sincere Sympathy to you at this sad time. Thinking of you
    Margaret Watt

  16. June Lavender

    December 21, 2020 at 11:20 AM

    Dear Tracey, Rob and family. Sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. She adored you and your boys Tracey. I often think of the wonderful times Bill and I had with your Mom at the farm while she helped us build the rose garden and lots of other jobs as well. She was compassionate, super intelligent and fun to be with. Great memories will live on.

  17. Bill Fraser

    December 21, 2020 at 10:33 AM

    I first met Jean at St. Martin-in-the-Fields where she was a very active member. Leading a campaign promoting ‘Good Deeds”, Sunday school superintendent, initiating an after-school homework program for children needing help were only three of many activities. It was a joy to visit her when she could not regularly attend where she shared her many experiences as a teacher and wise advice garnered from her life. A beautiful lady! My condolences. Bill Fraser.

  18. Jack and Lynda (Parsons) Conlin

    December 21, 2020 at 8:46 AM

    Tracey, R ob and families….so sorry for the loss of your Mother …… our deepest sympathy to all…hold on tight to all your wonderful memories…God Bless

  19. Linda & Jerry Traquair & family

    December 21, 2020 at 6:29 AM

    Dear Tracey, Rob and family,
    Your Mom was the best! One day, early in the school year 1988-1989, she told me if I heard that Craig was in the office daily, not to worry. He started school 3 months post traumatic brain injury ( 8 on the GCS). On his 1st day, he clung to the door frame and refused to enter…. one sister peeled his fingers away from the door and the other carried him in. Mrs. Turner arranged for Craig to report every morning to her office (travelling through and becoming acquainted with the big school). He sat on her lap and coloured pictures. <3 Another time, she told me that if we had touched base with Dr. George Hinton, we had touched base with the best pediatric neurologist in the world. Bless her heart. We were just one family. I am sure that she touched many lives in her positive fashion. Jean was a wonderful woman, educator and human being. We are so very sorry for your loss.

  20. Larry & Joan Morley

    December 20, 2020 at 8:13 PM

    Tracey & Rob

    Sorry for your loss, let your memories hug you tight.
    A Mother holds her children’s hands for a short while,
    but their hearts forever !

    Love and hugs
    Buck and Joan

  21. Mildred Northcott

    December 20, 2020 at 7:36 PM

    Dear Joyce,
    I am so sorry to read of Jean’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Cherish the memories that you have had over the years.
    Mildred Northcott

  22. Tina Riley-Ankers

    December 20, 2020 at 7:26 PM

    Aunt Tracey , Uncle Rob and family
    So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom aka grandma Jean) . She was a great woman and always treated me like one of her grandchildren. She was a no nonsense woman with the biggest heart and if she thought you needed a good swift kick in the butt she would give you one and she would hug you at the same time. She was one of a kind and will be missed. Sending prayers and thinking of you guys. May she wear her wings proudly cause she earned them

    Floyd , Brad, Tina and family

  23. Kenn Tuckey

    December 20, 2020 at 5:46 PM

    Tracy and Rob:
    My condolences to you both.
    I have considered Jean a long time special friend since our High School days at SHDHS. Distances have kept us apart but we still managed to see each other once in a while. She enjoyed bringing me up to date on her family doings.
    We last spoke when she got home from the hospital and she warned me what was ahead for her.
    Kenn Tuckey

  24. Alvin/Marilyn Taylor

    December 20, 2020 at 4:00 PM

    Tracey and Family
    So sorry to hear of Mom’s passing. I spent many years teaching with her at Huron Centennial.
    May happy memories help you through this difficult time.

  25. Kathy Stephenson

    December 20, 2020 at 3:29 PM

    Tracey and family,
    I am so sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. She holds a special place in my heart. Always questioning our motives and results of our choices …lol… I was fortunate to have you as a friend and your Mom, a very wise woman, looking out for us. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories you have.
    Kathy (Sangster) Stephenson

  26. Lori Becker

    December 20, 2020 at 2:57 PM

    Tracey, Rob and families. So sorry for the loss of your Mom. Thinking of you

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