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TOORNSTRA: Helena (Talma) of Exeter formerly of Hensall

August 13, 2015 By Haskett Funeral Homes 37 Condolences

TOORNSTRA: Helena (Talma) of Exeter formerly of Hensall

Peacefully at the Exeter Villa, with family by her side on Thursday, August 13, 2015, of Exeter, and formerly of Hensall, in her 84th year.  Beloved wife of Peter Toornstra for over 62 years.  Dear mother of Elsie and Gerald Willis of Hensall, Clarence and Betty Toornstra, and Sam and Shelly Toornstra all of Exeter.  Dear grandmother of Carisa and Brian, Michelle and Pat, Steven and Veronique; Ben and Lea, Leanna and Ben, Zach; Ashley and Tyler and Lucas.  Dear great-grandmother of Kinsley, Cory, Erica, Kate, Lauryn, Ryan, Brayden, and Kailyn.  Dear sister of Auke and Alie Talma of Brampton. Remembered by several nieces and nephews.  Predeceased by her parents Sijtze and Elske Talma, sisters Tina Kingma and Sandra VanderLinde, and brothers John, Clarence, and Sam Talma.

Friends may call at the Haskett Funeral Home, 370 William Street, Exeter (1 street west of Main), on Sunday 2-4 and 7-9 PM, where the funeral service will be held on Monday, August 17 at 11 AM with Mary Jane Bisset officiating.  Interment Exeter Cemetery.

Donations to the South Huron Hospital, the Exeter Villa, the Caven Presbyterian Church Memorial Fund, or the charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.

TOORNSTRA: Helena (Talma) of Exeter formerly of Hensall

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  1. Ellen Hodgins (Simpson)

    August 19, 2015 at 3:00 PM

    Sam, Shelley and family….so sorry for your loss.

  2. Donna Toth

    August 18, 2015 at 10:53 PM

    Dear Toornstra family,
    My condolences to you all on the passing of Helen. She will now be up in heaven watching over you all as she did here on earth. Cherish all the good times and memories. She was very proud of all her family. Hugs to you all

  3. Dianne Waun

    August 18, 2015 at 3:47 PM

    Your parents have been missed on Somerset Street and I was saddened to hear of your mother’s death. She was very proud
    of her family and your wonderful memories of her will be of
    great comfort now, I hope.
    Sincerely, Dianne

  4. Brenda and Ivan Hern

    August 18, 2015 at 5:31 AM

    Peter, Sam & Shelley and families.
    So sorry for your loss. Helen was a sweet lady much loved by her children and grandchildren. I admired her and Peter’s devotion to each other. Thinking of you all.

  5. Sandra Sweitzer

    August 17, 2015 at 11:31 PM

    Sandra Sweitzer says:
    Elsie,Gerald and family
    We are sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing and extend our sincere sympathy.

    Sandra Sweitzer, Ivan and Eva Grigg.

  6. Ken and Marg Caldwell

    August 17, 2015 at 9:37 PM

    Clarence and Betty and family: We wish to convey our sympathy in
    the loss of Clarence’s mother, Helena. Ken and I met up with you folks through our niece Catherine and Ron Beierling some years ago.

  7. Exeter Villa

    August 17, 2015 at 1:32 PM

    The residents and staff of the Exeter Villa send their heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

  8. Lorna Stuart

    August 17, 2015 at 11:59 AM

    Peter, Elsie and Gerald

    So sorry to hear of Helena’ s death.
    I have many wonderful memories in and out of church
    Very sorry I missed visitation and service.

    Sincerely.

    Lorna.

  9. Jeff, Kelly, Kennedy and Kassidy Warren

    August 17, 2015 at 11:57 AM

    Sam, Shelly, Ashley and Lucas
    We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you during this very difficult time. Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Love and hugs to you all.

  10. Ena de Haan

    August 17, 2015 at 11:50 AM

    Deepfelt sympathy to Peter Toornstra and his family. May you be comforted.

  11. Jim & betty deblock

    August 17, 2015 at 10:38 AM

    So sorry to hear of your mothers ‘ passing. Our thoughts are with you and family at this difficult time. May you find comfort in the special memories and photos in the days ahead.

  12. Kathy Kirk

    August 17, 2015 at 8:41 AM

    My sincere sympathy to all of you at this time of sorrow..

  13. Brian & Pat Hicks

    August 16, 2015 at 10:08 PM

    We were saddened to hear or the loss of your Mother. Please accept our sincere sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Brian & Pat

  14. Marion McCarter

    August 16, 2015 at 8:58 PM

    To the Toornstra families
    Thinking of you at this sad and difficult time. May you cherish her
    memories and hold them close to your heart and she will walk with
    you forever. Deepest Sympathy.
    Marion

  15. Pat & Bill Wheeler

    August 16, 2015 at 7:37 PM

    Dearest Peter and Family, We were so sad to hear of the passing of Helena, she was a wonderful lady and will be so missed by her family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers
    are with you in this time of sorrow. God Bless

  16. Helen Hodgins

    August 16, 2015 at 3:31 PM

    Sincerest condolences from myself, Lloyd and Lois McFalls. Helena was such a kind, generous lady. I know she will be greatly missed.

  17. Paul Glenda&Zack Waddell

    August 16, 2015 at 8:10 AM

    Our condolences to your family. thinking of you at this time

  18. Joyce Sovereign

    August 15, 2015 at 1:58 PM

    Sam,Shelley and family

    Sorry to read of your Mom,s death,sending sincere sympathy to your family at this time.

  19. Aldeen Skinner

    August 15, 2015 at 11:35 AM

    Sam and Shelley & family

    Please accept my sincerest sympathy of the passing of your Mom.

    Aldeen Skinner.

  20. Hank & Pat van der Linde

    August 15, 2015 at 11:30 AM

    Our sincerest condolences to you Peter and to the extended family on the passing of a wonderful and caring aunt. Her infectious humour will be missed.

  21. Cathy Batten

    August 14, 2015 at 9:52 PM

    My sincere condolences to you all at this very difficult time. May you all find comfort in the special memories & photos of Helena that each & everyone of you hold. Thinking of you all…xo

  22. Bob &Wanda Reynolds

    August 14, 2015 at 9:31 PM

    To the Toornstra Family

    Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow.

    Bob and Wanda Reynolds

  23. Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade

    August 14, 2015 at 6:52 PM

    Our condolences to all of the family members of Helen. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

  24. Mildred Northcott

    August 14, 2015 at 5:30 PM

    Sam, Shelley & family

    So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She was a great lady. Cherish the memories. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

  25. Maureen Wood

    August 14, 2015 at 4:16 PM

    Peter, Elsie,Gerald & the rest of the Toonstra Family

    My deepest Sympathy in your Loss of a Great Lady, Enjoyed many times we shared at PC W. Of Caven.Treasure your Memories
    Maureen

  26. Darlene Edwards and family

    August 14, 2015 at 2:54 PM

    So sorry for your loss Elsie and Gerald and family. Remember the good times and your mom, grandma will always be with you in your heart. Love is for always.

  27. Evelyn Steckle Vincnet

    August 14, 2015 at 12:06 PM

    Sincere sympathy to each of Helena. Se was always friendly and kind. Wishing each of you peace and comfort.

  28. Liz Campbell

    August 14, 2015 at 10:48 AM

    My deepest sympathy to you all. Helen was a very nice woman. Thinking of you all.

  29. Bill Heather, Karen Dickins

    August 14, 2015 at 10:40 AM

    Gerald ,Elsie,Sam and Shelly, so sorry to hear of your Mothers passing. Our thoughts are with you…Bill and Karen

  30. Maria van Der Linde

    August 14, 2015 at 10:35 AM

    So sorry to hear of the passing of Lena. She was a special lady with an incredible sense of humour.

  31. Karen & Bill Brintnell

    August 14, 2015 at 7:29 AM

    Sam & Shelly, Clarence & Betty & Families
    So sorry to hear of the sad loss of your Mom, Mother in law and Grandma. Thoughts are with you all at this time.
    Hugs, Karen, Bill, Zach & Caitlin.

  32. George & Joyce Vivian

    August 14, 2015 at 6:07 AM

    Sorry to read about your mother passing away. Treasure all your good memories.

  33. Joan Cleave

    August 13, 2015 at 10:15 PM

    Elsie, Gerald, Peter…and family’s…So saddened to hear of Helena’s passing – She was one “awesome Lady” in my books….will never attend Caven without looking for Her ( and Peter) 4 rows up.. to my left….my thoughts and prayers are with everyone of you at this sad time in your lives….Hugs to all

  34. Al and Vickie Harvey

    August 13, 2015 at 5:55 PM

    Zach and family

    So sorry for your loss

    Vickie and Al Harvey
    Exeter

  35. Dorothy and John Henderson

    August 13, 2015 at 5:44 PM

    We were so sorry to hear today of Helena’s death. Such a lot of wonderful (although short in years) memories we have of her. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  36. Ann Maxwell

    August 13, 2015 at 5:38 PM

    Peter and the Toornstra fanily
    So sorry to hear of Helenas’ passing. She was such a nice lady. Please accept my sympathy.
    Ann

  37. Alan & Mary

    August 13, 2015 at 5:29 PM

    Peter, Elsie,Gerald,Clarence,Betty,Sam,Shelley and families we are so sorry on the passing of Helen. May your days ahead be filled with many wonderful memories. Lots of love and hugs.

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