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PATTERSON: Robert “Bob” formerly of Lucan

October 22, 2020 By Haskett Funeral Homes 60 Condolences

PATTERSON: Robert “Bob” formerly of Lucan

Passed away peacefully at Hilltop Manor, Cambridge on Thursday, October 22, 2020 formerly of Lucan at the age of 91.  Beloved husband of the late Helen Patterson (2018).  Dear father of Linda, Les and Sandra Patterson.  Loving grandfather of Jacob and Sarah, Johnathon; Brody and Elizabeth. Dear brother-in-law of Harold and Betty Frayne, Marlene and Ross Mathers. Predeceased by his brothers George, Harry and Don Patterson and sisters-in-law and brother-in-law Darlene and Russell Lee and Wynne Patterson.   Bob will be fondly remembered for being the smiling neighbour on Main Street in Lucan along with his stories and jokes at a party.

Visitation will be held at the Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street, Lucan on Monday, October 26th at 10 AM, where the funeral service will be held at 11 AM with Rev Ken Whiting officiating. All visitors must RSVP below prior to attending the visitation or funeral service. While there is a limited number of attendees due to current restrictions, all are invited to join via the livestream by visiting facebook.com/haskettfh. Interment St. James Cemetery, Clandeboye.

Donations to Craigwiel Gardens (Building a new Craigholme) would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Christine Giesen

    October 27, 2020 at 9:58 PM

    My condolences to the family and friends, during your very difficult time. My heart and prayers are with you.

  2. Norma Khan

    October 27, 2020 at 4:53 PM

    Marlene and Ross
    My condolences on the passing of Bob. My thoughts are with you.

    Norma Khan

  3. Lori (Allison)Coneybeare

    October 27, 2020 at 3:55 PM

    So very sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. Both Helen and Bob were great friends to my mom and dad. Our deepest condolences to the family. Cherish all those great memories you have.

  4. Paul Manders

    October 27, 2020 at 7:57 AM

    Sorry to hear about the passing of my old boss at the gas station in Lucan. He was such a nice man and always had time for a story or joke.

  5. Bob and Anne Pincombe and Family

    October 26, 2020 at 8:26 PM

    Dear Patterson Family and Harold and Betty Frayne,

    Sending sincere condolences and thinking of you at this sad time.

    Hugs.

  6. George and Sue Wilson

    October 26, 2020 at 6:39 PM

    Marlene and Ross, sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson

  7. Gary and Kathy simpson

    October 26, 2020 at 2:49 PM

    We offer our condolences to Bob’s family. The Frayne family is and was very special to us for many years. Thinking of everyone on this sad day.

  8. Jean Deluce

    October 26, 2020 at 1:08 PM

    Just passed St. James Cemetary & saw all the cars & hoped it would not be someone I knew. Sure enough it was , & can remember going to Bob & Helen’s yard sales that they had when they lived on main St. They were a lovely couple & will be missed very much! It makes me sad to know that they are both. gone now but know that they are happy in heaven together!

  9. Janet Roth

    October 26, 2020 at 10:39 AM

    Linda, it was a privilege to get to know your dad, and see his love for his wife and kids and grandkids. I’m praying for you, and hoping that the wonderful memories you have will comfort you in the midst of your sorrow. Our condolences to you, Les, Sandra and all of the grandkids.

  10. Ferlin Sovereign

    October 26, 2020 at 9:01 AM

    So sorry to hear about our old neighbour Bob , he was a kind gentle man with a great smile and laugh , he will be missed but now he is with his bride .
    Our condolences to Linda and Les and their families.
    Ferlin and Julie

  11. Grace Rollings

    October 25, 2020 at 8:46 PM

    Clarke & Grace Rollings
    Linda, Les and families.
    We send our sincere condolences on the passing of Bob. We always enjoyed a chat with Bob at the Lucan United Church functions.
    Clarke & Grace Rollings

  12. Jim Scott

    October 25, 2020 at 3:20 PM

    My condolences to all family members and friends. R.I.P. Bob.

  13. Dan & Judy Alce

    October 25, 2020 at 11:54 AM

    We were sorry to hear about Bob. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you at this sad time.

  14. Leroy and April Bryan

    October 25, 2020 at 8:34 AM

    Our sincere condolences to all the family. We never got to know Bob well, but he leaves behind a legacy of kindness, helpfulness and good will. He will be sadly missed.

  15. Sherry & Tom Bodkin

    October 25, 2020 at 12:03 AM

    Linda and Les and families:
    I am sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing on one hand and on the other hand, I am sure he is happy to be dancing with your mom and their other friends for a Dance Night like the old days. Your parents were life-long friends of our parents, going on holidays together, dancing together, shopping trips, and socializing with their friends and their church.
    No doubt you will all miss him, his friendly smile and his stories, take comfort that he is with your Mom, he has gone home to her and he has left you with so
    many wonderful memories and so much love.
    Sherry (Froats) Bodkin

  16. Tom/Noella Triebner

    October 24, 2020 at 8:25 PM

    Our sincere sympathy to all of Bobs family and Ross and Marlene. on the passing of Bob. He is now with Helen, the love of his life. . Cherish all those special memories. Tom/Noella Triebner

  17. John Humphrey

    October 24, 2020 at 8:01 PM

    Sending my condolences to my Patterson cousins. Remembering many visits to Park Hill when the Humphrey and Pattersons would gather for family events. Uncle Bob was a treasure trove of family information. In later years, I and my Dad Richard would travel up to the Port Huron campground where Bob and Helen would be our hosts under the awning of their RV. Aunt Helen would have a wonderful selection of all the fixings for Sandwiches, potatoe salad, pickles and desert. Then, again afterwards reminiscent memories. Rest well Uncle Bob.

  18. Teri Lynne Rummell

    October 24, 2020 at 6:20 PM

    Will always remember his smile, my condolences to Linda and Les and families,your .

  19. Brent

    October 24, 2020 at 6:03 PM

    My Sympathy
    To Linda and Les and Family
    I have many fond memories of Bob and Helen with my Parents on Saturday night dances and Couples Club yard sale with was always at the Patterson’s .

    Brent Froats

  20. Bob & Edith Hodgins

    October 24, 2020 at 5:56 PM

    Our Sympathy to Bobs Family and Marlene and Ross.

  21. Janet Arnold

    October 24, 2020 at 5:48 PM

    Linda, Les, Sandra and families,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Keep your memories close.

    Janet, Hank, Jessica & Hannah Arnold

  22. Cliff and Elsie mcdonald

    October 24, 2020 at 5:33 PM

    Ross and Marlene, Linda, and families sorry to hear about Bobs passing,

  23. Vicki and Cindi O'Neil and Bev Hogg

    October 24, 2020 at 5:22 PM

    I’m sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. My sister and mom and myself spent many hours of fun and laughter while Helen and Bob lived at the apartment building on Beech Street in Lucan where my mom lives. Bob always had funny stories to tell us. The love he and Helen shared was wonderful. He missed her so much when she got sick and passed. RIP Bob and thanks for some wonderful memories

  24. Josh Marsden

    October 24, 2020 at 5:04 PM

    Sorry to hear of Mr. Patterson’s passing.
    He was a kind man and wonderful man, and I will always remember him from Main St. Lucan.

  25. Bob & Angie Frayne

    October 24, 2020 at 3:36 PM

    Linda, Les and families:

    Our condolences on the passing of Uncle Bob. He will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

  26. Anne Langendyk

    October 24, 2020 at 3:26 PM

    Condolences to all family and friends.
    He was such a gentle soul!

  27. Aldeen Skinner

    October 24, 2020 at 2:48 PM

    My sincere sympathy to all of Bobs family on the loss of their Father.Many happy memories of camping trips,all kinds of card games and of course Bob and Sam telling stories.Memories are so Precious.

  28. Liz Jenkin

    October 24, 2020 at 2:09 PM

    Mr. Patterson was the first to welcome me to Lucan United Church. If he saw me on the street he asked how I was doing and if things where going well since our move. We never really knew each other but my day was brighter if I met him on the street, at church or at any community function because he always had a smile and a “Hello” for me. I’m sure this isn’t the only story like this but just wanted to share and offer my sympathy

  29. Marilyn Dewan

    October 24, 2020 at 10:26 AM

    Linda, Les &Sandra, Marlene & Ross & the Frayne family
    Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of Bob. We had a few good times with Helen & Bob with Marlene & Ross. He was always a lovely gentleman. Joe & Marilyn Dewan

  30. Dave & Sharen newman

    October 24, 2020 at 9:48 AM

    Sorry to hear about Bob , Helen& Bob where great people. Our Deepest sympathy, to the family.

  31. Dianne Skinner

    October 23, 2020 at 10:25 PM

    To Linda ,Les , Sandra and Marlene & Ross:
    I am sorry for the loss of your father and brother in law Bob
    Him and I alway joked about his toque to keep his head warm.

  32. Sheila Butchart

    October 23, 2020 at 10:07 PM

    Remember your parents well, Rest In Peace Bob. Prayers to the family

  33. Lynn Shainline

    October 23, 2020 at 10:02 PM

    It was my pleasure to be one of Bobs’ caregivers while he resided at Craigwiel Apts.
    I enjoyed our walks outside and listened to many of his stories of the past.
    He was quite a gentleman.
    May you rest in peace Bob.
    Lynn S., PSW

  34. Wendy Dann

    October 23, 2020 at 8:37 PM

    Condolences on the loss of Bob to all the family members. He was a very kind gentleman who wouldn’t hesitate to give you a hand. Always had a smile and a story to tell you. He is now with Helen, the love of his life. He will be missed by many.

  35. Marlene Marshall

    October 23, 2020 at 8:35 PM

    My sincere sympathy to Bob’s family. May your memories of Bob and Helen give you comfort.

  36. Tom Hearn

    October 23, 2020 at 8:19 PM

    I was sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. He was always ready with a friendly wave or a kind word. He will be missed.

  37. Ken Bellamy

    October 23, 2020 at 4:18 PM

    I think of Bob often and I miss our daily talks. We would sit for a time each evening and discuss our day. I was very sad to hear about his passing.

  38. Rick Harrington

    October 23, 2020 at 3:26 PM

    He was a good man and an even better Papa to his grandkids. He will be missed.
    My sincere condolences

  39. Betty & Harold Frayne

    October 23, 2020 at 2:47 PM

    To Les and Linda and families, you have our deepest sympathy in the passing of your father.. Our thoughts and prayers are with you on Monday. Love Aunt Betty and Uncle Harold❤️

  40. Barb Coughlin

    October 23, 2020 at 2:28 PM

    Dear Les and Linda
    Your dad was certainly a big help to my mother ( Marj Park ). He was her neighbour on Langford Dr and then later on at the apartment building. He was always willing to help. And all those garage sales for the Lucan United church. He was a great organizer!
    Barb Coughlin

  41. Craig & Emilie Cordell

    October 23, 2020 at 1:32 PM

    I will miss talking to my friend Uncle Bob on the phone. Hearing his jokes and stories about growing up with my Grandpa Don. Searching for frogs. Riding motorcycles. The time they threw one of “mother’s pancakes” through the window. With all our love and admiration for the Patterson family, Emilie and I send good energy from Calgary.

  42. Willie & Bill Yule

    October 23, 2020 at 1:24 PM

    Our condolences to Linda, Les and families on the loss of Bob. I am sure he has reunited with the love of his live Helen.
    Sympathy to Ross and Marlene.

  43. Joyce Sovereign

    October 23, 2020 at 11:47 AM

    Dear Linda,Les,Sandra and families
    I am happy for Bob ,this part of his journey is over ,and he has joined the love of his life Helen, again now .What a wonderful long life he lived,worked hard,and deserves his rest now .My prayers and sincere sympathy to each one of you,in these sad days ,it’s always hard to part with our parents .See you all on Mon.🙏🏻❤️

  44. Irvine R Armstrong

    October 23, 2020 at 11:27 AM

    To Linda Les And Sandra and family. I am very sorry to her of one of our best friends death. Helen and Bob Lois and I have travelled. Miles to gather in our Motor homes along with 2 Holland American Cruse Tours, a2 week trip to Portugal, many dinner party and card games. Since the death of Lois , Bob and I kept track by phone as we couldn’t get to visit. I know you will miss Bob but all the best to you. Irv

  45. Marion Barr

    October 23, 2020 at 10:59 AM

    Linda,Leslie and family
    I was so sorry to hear Bob had passed away. We spent many Saturday nights at dances with Bob and Helen. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
    Marion Barr.

  46. Margaret Watt

    October 23, 2020 at 9:55 AM

    Sincere Sympathy to Bob’s Family. Bob was a man that the Lucan United Church and the community could always depend on. He was always willing to lend a hand no matter what had to be done . Treasure your memories
    Margaret Watt

  47. Karen Peters

    October 23, 2020 at 9:21 AM

    Dear Linda and Les, so sorry for your loss of a great father. Have many fond memories of your dad and mom at Lucan United, they were always so kind and friendly. May all your fond memories give you strength today and always.

  48. Margaret Brintnell

    October 23, 2020 at 9:15 AM

    My sympathy to Ross & Marlene.

    Margaret Brintnell

  49. Leanne and Mike Thompson and Family

    October 23, 2020 at 8:44 AM

    Linda, Les and Family

    We were sorry to hear of Bob’s passing, he lived a good long life. We have so many fond memories growing up to which we will cherish. Know that we are thinking of you all at this time.

  50. Lynda (Parsons) Conlin

    October 23, 2020 at 8:11 AM

    deepest sympathy to all the Patterson family and Ross and Marlene…hold tight the wonderful memories

  51. Kim Newman

    October 23, 2020 at 6:49 AM

    Linda & Les

    The years have passed so quickly. I have fond childhood memories of your dad, spending nights at your place and the odd camping trip. Your father was a kind and gentle soul. His smile was infectious, his presents here on earth will be missed. May the memories you’ve shared give you peace at the sad time.

  52. Betty McIntyre

    October 22, 2020 at 10:03 PM

    Dear Linda and Les and families – It was a privilege to know Bob and Helen and to see how well liked they were. You will have a lot of good memories to look back on. Be brave.

  53. Ellen Hodgins (Simpson)

    October 22, 2020 at 8:38 PM

    So sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. My thoughts are with his and Helen’s family.

  54. Nancy Vandergulik

    October 22, 2020 at 7:47 PM

    My condolences Linda, Les and Family, you are in my thoughts at this sad time of the passing of your Dad . Always a smile and ready for a conversation when I ran into him and a very kind man.

  55. Phyllis Brady

    October 22, 2020 at 6:18 PM

    Sincere sympathy Linda, Les and families
    My memories of Bob are ALL positive – he was pleasant , hard working, generous, good humoured, friendly. He and Helen worked tirelessly for Lucan United Church at every event. I remember the yard sales and their hours of work. Bob was a kind gentleman who will be well remembered by all who knew him.

  56. Bev Anderson

    October 22, 2020 at 5:44 PM

    Linda, Les and families:

    Please accept our condolences on the passing of your father and grandfather.
    It was an honor to have had such a good neighbor for so many years.
    Scott and Bev Anderson and family

  57. Audrey Harloff

    October 22, 2020 at 5:36 PM

    Linda, Les and families—
    At this time of sorrow, my thoughts are with you.
    Your Dad will always be remembered as such a kind and gentle gentleman.
    Sincerely and in friendship, Audrey Harloff

  58. Sandra (McLellan) & Larry Hern

    October 22, 2020 at 5:31 PM

    Dear Les and Linda and all of Bob’s Family,

    Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Bob. He was a great family friend for many years! He has now joined his dear wife Helen and all their friends that have gone on before. I am sure they had a wonderful welcoming party on the other side. I always loved Bob’s wit and his hearty laughs. May all your good memories eventually replace the sadness and loss you are feeling today.

  59. Alex and Donna Westman

    October 22, 2020 at 5:17 PM

    So sad to hear of Bob’s passing . He was such a wonderful man. He and Helen are together again .
    Our sincere condolences to Les , Linday and the whole Patterson family.

  60. Marg Prout

    October 22, 2020 at 5:00 PM

    My sympathy to Ross and Marlene. To all the family of Bob, I also extend my
    Deepest sympathy.

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