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PATTERSON: John Robert of Grand Bend

February 5, 2017 By Haskett Funeral Homes 36 Condolences

PATTERSON: John Robert of Grand Bend

We are devastated to share that our husband and father, John Patterson, passed away on Feb. 1, 2017 in Cape Coral, Florida.  John is survived by his wife, Judy McDonald, daughter Michelle Patterson-MacCuaig, (Alex), and sons John (Krystal), Matt (Britt), grandchildren Isla and Lachlan, sister Barbara Lace, and nieces Janice Lace, Pamela Roel, and Marsha Lace, grandnieces Julia and Olivia, grandnephews John and Bennett.  John was predeceased by his parents, Archie and Dorothy Patterson. John loved his life. He couldn’t believe how lucky he was to be living his dream, life on the water in Grand Bend, life on the water in Florida.  He believed he had the best family, the best friends and almost enough toys.  John’s gift to the world was to make life fun.  We have lost him far too soon.

Cremation has taken place. A celebration of life will be take place in the summer.  In lieu of flowers please make a donation to the charity of your choice.  Thanks to Haskett Funeral Homes for their support. 

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  1. Cindy Honcoop

    May 26, 2017 at 7:29 PM

    Judy, I just learned of John’s passing from Bruce C. My sincerest condolences. It has been many years since your retirement but I think of you often. May you have strength to go on and let time heal your deep wounds.

  2. Brian & Irene Hall

    February 11, 2017 at 5:55 PM

    Dear Judy
    It’s hard to even sum up the impact John has had on the community and our Rotary Club. He was always involved as a leader and willing participant in every project. His enthusiasm will be greatly missed. We will personally miss his friendship, his humour and his smile.
    Our condolences to your family on this terrible loss.

  3. Jane Girodat

    February 11, 2017 at 10:24 AM

    Judy and Family:
    Sincere condolences
    The loss of a husband and father is deep and personal

  4. Paul Revell

    February 10, 2017 at 5:13 AM

    Sorry to here about John. Remember hanging out on 15th street .
    Very funny guy but so was uncle Archie. THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.

    Cousin–Paul Revell. (Kingston)

  5. Peter and Teresa Phillips

    February 9, 2017 at 7:41 AM

    The news is shocking to say the least. John was a great pal and a terrific Rotarian. We will all miss him tremendously. Judy and family, our thoughts and sympathy are with you.

  6. Alison Phillips and Mike and Ann Shaw

    February 8, 2017 at 8:44 PM

    Judy and Family,
    We are all so saddened by the news of John’s passing, our memories of him are off a warm, kind and loving family man. John and Judy were neighbours to my parents Mike and Ann Shaw on Barclay Place, my son Alex spent many wonderful times At your home with your boys Matt and Johnnie .Our love and prayers go out to you all, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love Alison and Alex, Mike and Ann Shaw.

  7. michael arts

    February 8, 2017 at 12:29 PM

    Dear Judy and family,

    We are all very sorry to hear about your loss. May fond memories of John bring you comfort during this most difficult time.

    Sincerely,
    Mike Arts and Staff

  8. Max Morden

    February 8, 2017 at 11:16 AM

    Dear Judy, I’m so deeply sorry to hear about John. He was always so warm and gracious, and I enjoyed his company very much. As a Rotarian John was very generous in his praise and encouragement to others. Everyone respected him for his ideas and values. He was a very proud family man, and spoke highly of you and the boys. he was much loved in the community, and will be dearly missed.

  9. Doug & Sharon Coleman

    February 8, 2017 at 6:59 AM

    Judy and Family,

    Our sincerest condolences on the loss of John. John was a great guy who had a great smile and was always up for some fun. He will be missed!

    Doug and Sharon Coleman and the Girls

  10. Ron & Mardelle Hunt

    February 7, 2017 at 9:27 PM

    Judy and Family,
    What terrible news! John will be missed by the Rotary club and the Grand Bend community. It was a real pleasure working with him on club matters over the past few years.
    We extend our most sincere condolences to you and your family.
    Ron & Mardelle Hunt

  11. Janet Chris Brown

    February 7, 2017 at 8:50 PM

    Dear Judy and Family
    So sorry for your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayer.

  12. Steph Mathers

    February 7, 2017 at 5:50 PM

    Judy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will always have fond memories of John and the trip to St .Lucia with our families. He always seemed such a wonderful, happy, friendly and kind person. My sincerest condolences during this difficult time.

  13. Bernie and Debby Schillemore

    February 7, 2017 at 5:29 PM

    Judy,
    We were shocked and saddened to hear of John’s passing. I remember the first time we met you and John at the Riverbend thinking these folks are going to be a great fit in Grand Bend.

    We will always remember John’s sense of humor and story telling. We can’t remember not laughing and having fun while in his company.

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

    Regards

    Bernie and Debby Sckillemore

  14. Frank Allister

    February 7, 2017 at 1:26 PM

    Dear Judy and Family

    So sorry to hear of Johns passing…Our thoughts are with you…

    Carol and Frank Allister

  15. Paul Ciufo

    February 7, 2017 at 11:39 AM

    Dear Judy,

    So sorry to hear about John. Sincere condolences to your and your family. He was such a funny, smart, super positive, and uplifting person. He will be greatly missed.

    Paul

  16. John and Terri Kennedy

    February 7, 2017 at 10:57 AM

    Dear Judy
    Please accept our condolences! John was a good friend and we always looked forward to meeting him on the water. He will be sadly missed
    John and Terri Kennedy

  17. Marina McGlenen

    February 7, 2017 at 7:08 AM

    Judy
    My deepest sympathies to you and your family on John’s passing. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers .

    Marina McGlenen

  18. Patti CowanLeslie

    February 6, 2017 at 7:22 PM

    Dear Judy and family
    A tremendous shock to hear of John’s passing. A tremendous shock to you!
    Sending you our deepest condolences.
    Patti L and Mike Eagleson

  19. Cecily and David Boyle

    February 6, 2017 at 4:47 PM

    Dear Judy
    We were simply stunned to read of John’s passing this morning. Yes, we could see that he truly did love his life by the water here in the Bend and are so happy that he had been able to achieve this dream.

    We are sending you our sincere condolences now with many comforting ((((HUGS)))) as well, Cecily and David

  20. Joe and Mary Meaden

    February 6, 2017 at 2:35 PM

    Dear Judy and Family,
    Mary and I are very saddened and shocked by the sudden news of John’s death. We have very positive memories of John from time spent at company dinners. We can well imagine the devastation of this loss and hope that time will ease the burden that you all share at this time. Our very sincere condolences.

  21. John Farrell

    February 6, 2017 at 1:33 PM

    Judy and family, my condolences regarding the untimely passing of John. Such a great guy,he had time for everyone,a special person and friend.

  22. Rigmor Glen

    February 6, 2017 at 12:54 PM

    Judy,
    Gary and I and the family send our sincere condolences on your loss. May the memories of all the fun and family times that you shared help you through the difficult days ahead. Our thoughts are with you.
    Rigmor, Gary, Neil, Kyle and Karen

  23. Peter,Lynda,Sarah Dean

    February 6, 2017 at 12:46 PM

    Very sad news. Our prayers to you Judy and your family.

  24. Josy and Gordon Britton

    February 6, 2017 at 12:30 PM

    Dear Judy and Family,
    This is a terrible shock. Through Rotary I got to know John. I watched and admired his commitment to serving our community through Rotary. John was always so positive and engaging. He made plans, took action and lead others to follow him in making our lives better. I will miss him.

    I offer this prayer for the continued journey of his soul.

    “O my God! O Thou forgiver of sins, bestower of gifts, dispeller of afflictions!

    Verily, I beseech thee to forgive the sins of such as have abandoned the physical garment and have ascended to the spiritual world.

    O my Lord! Purify them from trespasses, dispel their sorrows, and change their darkness into light. Cause them to enter the garden of happiness, cleanse them with the most pure water, and grant them to behold Thy splendors on the loftiest mount.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá

    Our sincere love and condolences,
    Josy and Gord Britton

  25. George Piva

    February 6, 2017 at 11:43 AM

    Judy,
    To you and your family, my deepest condolences on your loss.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you,

  26. Sandy & Denny Alsop

    February 6, 2017 at 10:52 AM

    Dear Judy,
    Denny and I send our condolences to you and your family. John was a great friend and we have many happy memories. So sad to lose someone so full of
    joy!
    Sandy and Denny Alsop

  27. Mary Margaret Prowse

    February 6, 2017 at 10:22 AM

    Judy and family:
    My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with John’s sudden passing. Treasure the wonderful memories you have. It makes the difficult journey a little easier.
    Sincerely
    Mary Margaret Prowse

  28. Shirley Andraza

    February 6, 2017 at 9:44 AM

    Dear Judy and family,
    Your right, John did love life and life loved him. He will be missed.
    Wrap around hugs Judy,
    Shirley

  29. The Kennedy's

    February 6, 2017 at 9:28 AM

    Please accept our sincerest condolences in the passing of your husband John.
    He will missed by many people

    Love and good thoughts always
    Beverley and Bob Kennedy

  30. Carol Gledhill

    February 6, 2017 at 9:16 AM

    Please accept our Deepest Sympathies Judy and family.
    Al & Carol Gledhill

  31. George Shaw

    February 6, 2017 at 9:09 AM

    Terrible shock! John was a great gentleman with a wonderful sense of humor, – a tremendous loss.

    Our sincere sympathy to Judy and the family.

  32. Karen & Gilles Leblanc

    February 6, 2017 at 9:07 AM

    We are in disbelief still. Your tribute to John is perfect, such a wonderful fun and thoughtful friend, we will miss him beyond words. Our deepest heartfelt condolences to Judy and family. Hugs to all.

  33. Keith & Pat Heipel

    February 6, 2017 at 7:47 AM

    We are saddened to hear of John’s passing Judy. You & family have our
    heartfelt sympathy.

  34. Bruce Shaw

    February 5, 2017 at 10:46 PM

    This is unbelieveable! We are dumbfounded by the news. Our sincerest sympathies go to all of you. He was a wonderful human being with a terrific sense of humour. It was our privilege to know him and you, Judy. We will miss him deeply. Boys, we share your grief.

  35. Arthur and Anne Lake .. Rotary Secretary

    February 5, 2017 at 10:05 PM

    We have just heard of John’s passing and are in a state of shock and disbelief. May we wish you courage and strength at this most difficult time.

  36. doug & karen courtney

    February 5, 2017 at 3:10 PM

    Judy & Family,It is with great sorrow we hear of John,s passing. Our sincere condolences to all.

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