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KIRK: Shirley (Willis) (Thomson) of Exeter

September 3, 2024 By Haskett Funeral Homes 64 Condolences

KIRK: Shirley (Willis) (Thomson) of Exeter

Passed away peacefully at Blue Water Rest Home, Zurich on Monday, September 2, 2024 at the age of 92. Proud mom of Gerald and Elsie Willis, Doreen and Rick Gaiser, Bob and Judy Willis, and Mary and Dave Snider and step-mother of Kathy Kirk. Adored grandma of Carisa (Brian), Michelle (Pat), Steve (Veronique); Dave, Mark (Heidi); Jodi (Kris), Jenny (Derreck); Chad (Pam), and Jason and great-grandma of 17 great-grandchildren. Predeceased by her parents Leslie and Mildred Thomson, 1st husband Elmer Willis (1976), her 2nd husband Gord Kirk (1989), sisters, Joan Ferris, and Margaret Whiting, and son-in-law Alan Monteith. Fondly remembered by the Kirk, Thomson, and Willis families.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Friday evening from 7 – 9 PM, where Shirley’s funeral service will be held on Saturday, September 7th at 10 AM. Private family interment Exeter Cemetery.

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Donations to South Huron Hospital Foundation, West Huron Care Centre (Blue Water Rest Home), or a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Martin and Cheryl Gelinas

    September 9, 2024 at 7:37 PM

    Dear Mary, Dave and all of Shirley’s family,

    We are very sorry for the loss of your Mother. Please accept our deepest condolences at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Martin and Cheryl Gelinas

  2. Cliff and Elsie McDonald

    September 7, 2024 at 4:15 PM

    Gerald and Elsie and families
    Sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing

    Cliff and Elsie McDonald

  3. Marion McCarter

    September 7, 2024 at 1:07 PM

    To Shirley’s families:
    Thinking of all in your loss of such a wonderful lady. May her memories become treasures you will forever carry in your hearts keeping her close as you journey forward. Deepest Sympathy.
    Marion

  4. Wibbina Toonk

    September 7, 2024 at 12:50 PM

    To all of Shirley’s family…..my condolences to you all as you morn the loss of a mother, grandmother and great grandmother. May you find comfort in the days ahead. She lived a long life…Cherish the memories!

  5. Tracy Aylward

    September 7, 2024 at 11:18 AM

    Gerald, Elsie, Doreen, Rick, Bob, Judy, Mary, Dave and families: I was so disappointed that I could not attend the visitation last night with Mom and Dad. I was able to see the service today and it was so lovely and fitting for Shirley. She was one of a kind and we share in your grief. The friendship shared with our families over the years are a testament to how friends can be as close as family. Shirley had the gift for making every person feel special and connected even when time had passed. I have so many vivid memories of the great times at the Main street house and experiencing the highlights of many of the memories the grandchildren shared today. Shirley had a huge heart and I will always remember that twinkle in her eye as she smiled. It was such an honor to be a part of her life all these years. Love to you all and know we are sending you strength as you send her off. Love Tracy and Darrin Aylward and family.

  6. Bob and Helen Coates

    September 6, 2024 at 9:42 PM

    Our condolences for the loss of a lovely lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May memories comfort you.

  7. Jerry & Linda Traquair

    September 6, 2024 at 8:40 PM

    Sincere condolences to the immediate and extended Thompson, Willis and Kirk families and to all who knew and loved Shirley.

  8. Cathy Batten

    September 6, 2024 at 4:52 PM

    To All of Shirley’s Family

    My condolences to each of you at this difficult time. I will always treasure the good times at her Main st. home & out on the front porch. Cherish the special memories that each of you have of her. The beautiful pictures you have shared with treasure the good times. Thinking of you all, take care.

    Cathy

  9. Dave Broom

    September 6, 2024 at 4:08 PM

    My condolences to the Willis/Kirk families.

    Shirley was a wonderful, pleasant and kind soul!

    God Bless!

  10. Mark & Barbara Hanley

    September 6, 2024 at 2:55 PM

    May the wonderful memories you shared with your Mom and Grandma, give you the peace and comfort to get through the sad days ahead. She is at peace knowing the love you shared with her.

  11. Jerry & Joanne Smith

    September 6, 2024 at 11:10 AM

    Gerald Elsie & Families. Our Sincerest Condolences for your loss. Hold onto the Memorys

  12. Christa Ihrig

    September 6, 2024 at 10:31 AM

    To Shirley’s Family

    Sending heartfelt Condolences
    My thought and prayers are with you all .

    Christa Ihrig ♥️

  13. Doris Richardson

    September 6, 2024 at 10:29 AM

    Willis & Kirk families:

    Thinking of you with caring thoughts.

    Doris Richardson

  14. Aubrey & Wendy Bedard

    September 5, 2024 at 6:25 PM

    You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May Shirley now rest in peace.

  15. Rose Brittain

    September 5, 2024 at 2:26 PM

    Condolences and prayers for the family good memories are forever RIP Shirley 🙏💕

  16. jack triebner

    September 5, 2024 at 2:22 PM

    Our Condolence go out to the family’s of Shirley Kirk
    From Betty Blue And myself Here In Exeter .

  17. Clare & Brenda (Parsons) Martene & Family

    September 5, 2024 at 11:37 AM

    Dear: Gerald (Elsie), Doreen (Rick), Bob (Judy), Mary (Dave), Kathy & Grandchildren / Great- Children, Kirk, Thomson, & Willis Families . . .

    “A mother’s Love is always with her children. Losing a mother is one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know. But her goodness, her caring and her wisdom live on- like a Legacy of Love that will forever be with you. May that Love surround you now and bring you peace. “

    “Wherever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories.”

    We extend our sincerest sympathies to all of you during this immensely sad time . . . your family has experienced a huge loss with Shirley’s passing. May the wonderful memories you all have made together as a family help you through this difficult time.

    Shirley was such a beautiful lady both inside & out. She touched the lives of so many, leaving a profound impact on all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her life’s journey leaves a legacy of love, friendship, joy, kindness, generosity, caring, laughter, & cherished memories that will forever be treasured by those who were fortunate enough to have her in their lives. May you find strength & comfort in the love of family & in the warm embrace of friends. ❤️ Though Shirley may be gone from your sight, her spirit will continue to live on . . . may she forever Rest in Heavenly Peace ❤️

    ❤️ “Don’t cry because I’m gone; Smile brightly because I lived.” ❤️

    Our thoughts & prayers are with you all as you gather to mourn & celebrate the incredible life of your beloved Mom – praying that your loving memories replace your tears with smiles of happy times together . . . may you find strength in each other now & in the difficult days ahead. God Bless You❤️🙏🏻❤️

    💞Clare & Brenda (Parsons) Martene & Family💞

  18. Mike Higgins

    September 5, 2024 at 11:36 AM

    Kathy and family, sorry for your loss

  19. Marilyn Dewan

    September 5, 2024 at 11:09 AM

    To Shirley’s Family
    My sincere sympathy to all the family. We missed her when was unable to come to our cousins lunches. We always had a great visit. Rest in peace!
    Marilyn Dewan

  20. Chris and Debbie leenders

    September 5, 2024 at 9:07 AM

    Bob and Judy and family so sorry for your loss.

  21. Donna (Heywood) Regier

    September 4, 2024 at 10:55 PM

    My deepest sympathy to Shirley’s entire family.
    She was a lovely lady, who will be missed by all who knew her.

  22. Chuck and Judy Mallette

    September 4, 2024 at 9:58 PM

    We offer our sincere and heartfelt condolences to the family on the passing of their beloved matriarch. It’s always a difficult time but I’m sure there are many good and happy memories to sustain you. With sympathy to the family, Chuck and Judy

  23. George and Sue Wilson

    September 4, 2024 at 9:24 PM

    Shirley’s entire family, heartfelt condolences on your Mom/Grandma’s passing. Shirley was a friendly lady. Cherish your precious memories. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs.

  24. Lu Keelan

    September 4, 2024 at 9:00 PM

    Bob, Judy and all of Shirley’s family, my condolences on her passing. I will always remember our little chats when I delivered to her for Guardian. Such a sweet lady. Take Care.

  25. Mark and Jo-Ann Johnston

    September 4, 2024 at 7:57 PM

    Mary and Dave , Chad, Pam, Madison and Cheyenne and Jason along with all of your mom’s family. Your mom was such a beautiful loving woman who really made me feel welcome. I’m so glad she was able to attend your wedding. I’m sure those are more memories to add to your already cherished ones. She is at peace now and resting.

  26. Tom & Noella Triebner

    September 4, 2024 at 6:58 PM

    Sincere condolence to all the family on the passing of Shirley , a wonderful lady and dear friend. Thinking of you all during this difficult time. . Cherish all those special memories in the days ahead.

  27. Ron and Karen Simpson

    September 4, 2024 at 6:54 PM

    Dear Kathy Kirk , sorry to hear of your Moms passing , you have our sincere condolences

  28. Russell and Verona Snider

    September 4, 2024 at 6:39 PM

    Condolences to the family. Our prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

  29. Murray Armstrong

    September 4, 2024 at 4:14 PM

    Our sympathy to the Willis Family, Bob and Judy and Family

    Lori and Murray

  30. Linda Webber

    September 4, 2024 at 3:04 PM

    To Shirley’s family:
    l have know about Shirley for eons. She was always so happy and friendly. May she rest in peace.

  31. Peggy Restemayer

    September 4, 2024 at 2:53 PM

    Bob,Judy & family,
    Sorry to read that your Mother passed away.
    Sending my sincere sympathy.
    Peggy Restemayer

  32. Dale & Christie Allen

    September 4, 2024 at 2:51 PM

    Sending our heartfelt condolences during this very difficult time.

  33. Jerry & Rose Vanbruaene

    September 4, 2024 at 2:30 PM

    Bob, Judy and the Willis family,

    Our deepest condolences on the loss of your dear mother and grandmother. May she rest in peace.

    Jerry & Rose

  34. Bernice Boogemans

    September 4, 2024 at 12:43 PM

    Bob, Judy and family. So sorry to hear your Mom has passed away. Our sincere sympathy to all.
    Bob and Bernice Boogemans

  35. Doug and Judy Dalrymple

    September 4, 2024 at 12:35 PM

    To Shirley’s family our sincere condolences and or thoughts are with all of you at this time.

  36. Norah Purser

    September 4, 2024 at 12:32 PM

    Just simply a lovely human being, my sympathies to her family. ❤️

  37. Jim Oesch

    September 4, 2024 at 10:52 AM

    Sending condolences to Shirley’s families
    Cherish your memories

  38. Joan Cleave

    September 4, 2024 at 10:21 AM

    Gerald, Elsie, Kathy, and all of your extended Families:
    My sincere condolences to all on the loss of such a wonderful Lady.
    She will be missed but never forgotten.
    Joan.

  39. Don & Charlene Oesch

    September 4, 2024 at 9:33 AM

    Gerald, Elsie and families. Our sincere condolences in the loss of your mother.

    Sincerely
    Don & Charlene

  40. Lloyd and Carol Moore

    September 4, 2024 at 9:27 AM

    Our deepest sympathy Gerald and Elsie and your family. Thinking of you during this difficult time but cherish all the great memories of your mom.

  41. Wanda Reynolds

    September 4, 2024 at 8:22 AM

    To Shirley Family

    My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

    Wanda Reynolds

  42. Linda Zirk

    September 3, 2024 at 10:59 PM

    Bob .Judy. and family so sorry for your loss Lou and Linda Zirk

  43. Donna Perry

    September 3, 2024 at 10:17 PM

    To Shirley’s whole family so sorry for your loss. I am sure you will all have a lot of wonderful memories to help you through this sad time.
    With Deepest Sympathy Donna Perry

  44. Isa Rabbets

    September 3, 2024 at 8:37 PM

    We will miss Shirley she was a great friend. & a generus & caring lady.. Our Prayers & Deepest Sympathy to all the family. We are thinking of you all at this time. Bev & Isa

  45. Janet Buchanan

    September 3, 2024 at 8:29 PM

    Condolences to all the family. I had the pleasure of boarding a room from Gord and Shirley in the early 80’s. I thought the world of Shirley, a very caring and wonderful lady whose life was her family.

  46. Jerry and Alice MacLean

    September 3, 2024 at 8:21 PM

    To all who loved and cared about Shirley, we offer our sincere condolences.
    Shirley was a long time member at MacLeans, and was a dedicated employee, never complaining,nor never shirking at any task at hand.Shirley was from the old school and believed everyone should be treated fairly.we missed her when she retired.
    She lived a long life, and now May she rest in peace.

  47. Ralph & Denise Batten

    September 3, 2024 at 8:07 PM

    Our deepest condolences to the Willis and Kirk families on the passing of Shirley. She will be missed by many.

  48. Melonie Miller

    September 3, 2024 at 7:19 PM

    Dear Shirley’s family…
    Our condolences on the loss of your mom and grandma. I worked with Shirley a long time ago thru Jennie Rowe. She was always such a pleasure to work with .. 🌺🌺🌺

  49. George and Elaine Ducharme

    September 3, 2024 at 7:14 PM

    Our sincere condolences on the loss of your Mother Bob, Judy, and the families. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

    George & Elaine Ducharme

  50. Linda Marsden

    September 3, 2024 at 6:30 PM

    My deepest sympathy to Shirley’s family. It was a pleasure to work along side her at the hospital auxiliary and the rummage sales. She was a beautiful and fun lady.

  51. Gabbie and Margaret Mol

    September 3, 2024 at 5:41 PM

    Our sincere condolences Left great memories

  52. Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade

    September 3, 2024 at 5:39 PM

    To Gerald, Doreen, Bob, Mary, Kathy and families.
    Our condolences to all. Shirley worked for my parents years ago and was a valuable employee. Francistown has lost another loyal resident.

  53. Peter mcFalls

    September 3, 2024 at 5:18 PM

    Please accept my condolences for the loss to the Kirk and Willis family. Shirley will be missed by anyone that knew her.

  54. Maureen Wood (Skip )

    September 3, 2024 at 4:47 PM

    Gerald & Elsie & The rest of Shirley’s Family
    My Sincere Condolences on your Loss of a Great Mom, Shirley was always so Friendly & a Pleasure to visit with, Thinking of each of you.

  55. Evelyn Vincent

    September 3, 2024 at 4:36 PM

    To Shirley’s family
    Sincere sympathy. Shirley was such a lovely lady and was always a pleasure to talk with. May the good memories help bring peace and comfort

  56. Karen & Randy Stanlake

    September 3, 2024 at 4:07 PM

    So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. Randy has many fond memories of the “north end families” in Exeter. She is at peace and not suffering. She will sorely missed by all who loved her. Take comfort in the stories being told in the coming days.
    Hugs to all.

  57. Marilyn and Allan Riley

    September 3, 2024 at 3:38 PM

    Our condolences to all the family

  58. Blue Water Rest Home

    September 3, 2024 at 3:33 PM

    Sending condolences on behalf of the Residents, Staff and Board at Blue Water Rest Home. You are in our thoughts during this difficult time.

  59. Roger and Jan Dougall

    September 3, 2024 at 3:10 PM

    Bob, Judy and Family:
    So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. She was a lovely and friendly woman. I always enjoyed chatting with her.
    Roger and Jan Dougall

  60. Julianne Varley

    September 3, 2024 at 2:59 PM

    Dear family of Shirley,
    My heart sank as ones does when we hear of the passing of a great lady. It was always a pleasure to work alongside Shirley for many years. She was such a hard dedicated worker. I always enjoyed her friendly visits as we met on the street, grocery store or anywhere else around town after she retired.
    My thoughts are with you all during this tough time.
    Take care,
    Julianne Varley

  61. Ron Steeper

    September 3, 2024 at 2:39 PM

    We’re so sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing.
    She was a wonderful Lady, so strong, tenacious and caring. Her support and influence was very influential for my parents in the early years of their marriage, so much so they all developed a lifelong friendship.
    For us as the kids Shirley was always curious about what we were up to and had wise warm words of support we always looked forward to.
    My condolences to the large and wonderful family she leaves behind. I’m sure will all miss her dearly and I’m sorry for your loss.

  62. Jeremy Becker

    September 3, 2024 at 1:59 PM

    Sincere condolences to the Family

  63. Darlene Porter

    September 3, 2024 at 1:37 PM

    Condolences to the family of Shirley may the memories be a blessing as a truly lovely person .

  64. Karen Dickins

    September 3, 2024 at 12:36 PM

    To all of Shirley’s family my deepest condolences, what a great lady, a wonderful neighbour and an excellent card partner. May she rest in Peace and may you all cherish your wonderful memories.

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