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KERSLAKE: Joy (Seldon) of Elimville

October 14, 2019 By Haskett Funeral Homes 68 Condolences

KERSLAKE: Joy (Seldon) of Elimville

Peacefully at South Huron Hospital, Exeter on Sunday, October 13, 2019 of Elimville at the age of 71.  Beloved wife of Ed Kerslake.  Dear mother of Sarah and Jamie Tomlinson of Exeter and the late Natalie Webster (2016).  Loving grandmother of Darian Tomlinson, Isabelle Willert, Aubrey Webster, and Amelia Webster.  Fondly remembered by the Kerslake family. 

A Celebration of Joy’s life will be held at the South Huron Recreation Centre, 94 Victoria Street, East, Exeter on Saturday, October 19th from 1-4 PM with Words of Remembrance held at 2 PM. Please dress casually. Cremation has taken place. Haskett Funeral Home, Exeter (519-235-1220) entrusted with arrangements. 

In lieu of flowers donations to the Parkinson’s Foundation, Crohn’s and Colitis Canada, or a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family. 

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  1. Doug and Patty

    October 20, 2019 at 9:05 AM

    Ed and family.

    We are so sorry to hear about your loss.

    Hold on to all of your great memories and Joy will always be with you.

    Doug and Patty Webber

  2. Shaun and Michelle Simpson

    October 20, 2019 at 4:36 AM

    Sorry to hear about your loss. She was a great, kind lady!

  3. John & Arlene Berendsen

    October 19, 2019 at 4:59 PM

    Sending our most sincere condolences to your family in this time of loss…
    All the love and good times shared are everything

  4. Bob & Sharon Pavkeje & family

    October 19, 2019 at 9:47 AM

    Sending love and prayers to your family today as you say farewell to Joy.

  5. Sherry (Kerslake) Wiebe

    October 18, 2019 at 11:56 PM

    To Ed & Sarah,

    So many great memories growing up with Joy, Natalie and you both as part of my life. I am so sorry for your loss and send you hugs, love & energy in this difficult time.

    Joy was a wonderful lady and I know that she will be dearly missed by her friends and family.

  6. Clare & Brenda (Parsons) Martene & Family

    October 17, 2019 at 4:59 PM

    Dear Ed, Sarah & Jamie, Darian, Isabelle, Aubrey, Amelia and Kerslake & Seldon Families . . .

    It is with saddened hearts that we are sending our sincerest sympathy to all of you on the loss of your dear and caring Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Joy. She was a dedicated, kind, sincere, proud, hard-working, remarkable lady who will be missed dearly by all her loved ones. Saying goodbye is always heartbreaking especially when it is a lady so beautiful both inside and out and taken way to young. It is so difficult to understand why these things happen to such good people. May the loving memories you have of her live on – in your hearts forever and help you through the difficult days ahead. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; Love leaves a memory no one can steal.” You have so many family, friends, neighbours & community grieving along side you and supporting all of you with their thoughts & prayers.

    I had the pleasure of working with Joy many years ago. I will forever remember Joy for her loving & friendly manner, her beautiful smile, and the friendly chit-chats we shared. I especially admired her for the LOVE she had for her family, friends & neighbours.

    Joy is now resting peacefully in the arms of the angels & may her journey to the next life be as wonderful as she was on Earth. She will be your angel in spirit – watching over all of you . May God keep you in his loving arms as you grieve and celebrate Joy’s life.

    Rest in Peace Joy. ❤️

  7. Susan Oke

    October 17, 2019 at 4:32 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about Joy. You have my deepest sympathy. May all of your happy memories help you through this difficult time. Susan

  8. Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons

    October 17, 2019 at 4:15 PM

    To the Kerslake and Seldon Families:

    We are so sorry to hear about Joy’s passing. We will be thinking of you during this sad time.

    Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons

  9. Marg & Jim Williamson

    October 17, 2019 at 2:11 PM

    Our sincere condolences to Ed, Sarah, Jamie and family. May beautiful memories help you through the difficult months and years ahead.

  10. Laura Stire

    October 17, 2019 at 2:03 PM

    Ed and Family
    Our deepest condolences on the loss of Joy.

    Glenn and Laura Stire

  11. Linda & Jerry Traquair

    October 17, 2019 at 9:19 AM

    We are so very sorry for your loss.

  12. Penny Venton

    October 17, 2019 at 8:21 AM

    To Joy’s family

    It was a privilege to come to know Joy Kerslake …. a splendid and capable mother and grandmother.
    A great role model for our hectic times! My thoughts are with those in the family that I came to know, especially her beautiful and accomplished daughter, Natalie … and grandaughter, Isabelle … both wonderful testaments of Joy’s loving and supportive nature!

  13. Marg Prout

    October 17, 2019 at 8:06 AM

    Ed and family…
    My condolences to you and your family at this time. Joy was a soft and quiet spoken lady and at same time very elegant and gracious in her style.

  14. Rick & Marilyn Vandenbussche

    October 17, 2019 at 7:57 AM

    Ed, Sarah & family: our deepest sympathy on Joy’s passing. May she rest in peace. Thoughts and prayers are with you all as you remember all the happy times shared with family and friends.

  15. Joanne Baumann (Kerslake)

    October 17, 2019 at 12:05 AM

    A big hug coming from BC, from one of the gang’s kids, Ed and Sarah. The pictures bring back a lot of fond memories of all the good times. I’m comforted knowing your surrounded by loving and supportive friends and family. Thinking of you, Joanne (David and Lexi)

  16. Diane McCarter

    October 16, 2019 at 9:41 PM

    Ed, Sarah and familes,
    Thoughts are with you at this sad and difficult time.
    Dave Stephen & Diane McCarter

  17. Yvonne Elliott

    October 16, 2019 at 9:09 PM

    To Ed and all your Family
    So sorry to hear of the loss of Joy. What a beautiful lady inside and out.
    Our sincere condolences at this sad time.
    John & Yvonne Elliott

  18. Jim & Betty Deblock

    October 16, 2019 at 4:54 PM

    Ed and family,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time.
    Our deepest condolences .

    Jim and Betty Deblock

  19. Jim & Verla Russell

    October 16, 2019 at 3:00 PM

    Ed and Family:
    Our deepest sympathy to you on the passing of Joy.
    Our prayers and thoughts are with you with at this difficult, sad time.

  20. Tom Hartai

    October 16, 2019 at 2:46 PM

    Dear Sarah ,Ed and families
    On behalf of my family…Please accept all of our deepest condolences .

    Tom &Nancy Hartai

  21. Wes & Christine Hodgson

    October 16, 2019 at 9:31 AM

    Ed & Family
    So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all at this sad and difficult time.

  22. Barb Dietrich

    October 16, 2019 at 9:06 AM

    To all of Joy’s family,

    Our sincere condolences on Joy’s passing. May memories of happy times together be a comfort to you always.

    Milt & Barb Dietrich

  23. T & B Blue

    October 16, 2019 at 7:57 AM

    Dear Sarah, Jamie and Darian & Kerslake Family, Our deepest Sympathies to you all at the loss of your Mother and Grandmother & Wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Trevor & Brenda

  24. Mark&JudyCronyn

    October 16, 2019 at 7:13 AM

    Ed & Family
    So sorry for your loss. Thinking of all of you at this time.
    Mark & Judy Cronyn

  25. Allen and Marjorie Oke

    October 15, 2019 at 10:49 PM

    We are so sorry to hear of Joy’s passing. Our sincere condolences.

  26. Sylvester and Geraldine Grimminck

    October 15, 2019 at 9:37 PM

    Ed and family. Condolences to you and your family for the loss of Joy. Cherish all the great times and memories.

  27. Sandra & Larry Hern

    October 15, 2019 at 9:29 PM

    Dear Ed, Sarah and family,

    We were so sorry to read of the loss of your dear wife , Mom and Grandma. Please accept our sincere condolences at this very sad time. It has certainly been a very tough year for the Kerslake family.

  28. Karen Brock

    October 15, 2019 at 8:47 PM

    Ed & Family

    So very sorry for your loss of Joy. My thoughts are with you all at this most difficult and sad time.

  29. Donna, Kevin and Matthew Adair

    October 15, 2019 at 8:29 PM

    Seldon & Kerslake family,
    Becky I am so sorry to hear the news of your Aunt Joy, she always took time to talk to me anytime I saw her. Either at yours and Jason’s place or at Huron Tractor picking up parts for Ed.
    She will be missed by many, hold onto the memories.
    Love, Donna Adair nee Carter and my husband Kevin and son Matthew

  30. Karen McLellan

    October 15, 2019 at 8:04 PM

    Sarah, Jamie, Darian and the Kerslake family,
    So very sorry to hear of Joy’s passing. I am thinking of you with very heart felt sympathy.

  31. Louise Young

    October 15, 2019 at 7:54 PM

    Dear Ed, Sarah and family.

    Our deepest condolences to you all in the loss of Joy, such a lovely person, taken much too soon. Our thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.

    Bob and Louise Young

  32. Don & Debbie Rathwell & Family

    October 15, 2019 at 7:45 PM

    Sending our heartfelt sympathies to the entire family..
    Cherish the wonderful memories you all have & keep them close to your hearts.

  33. Pamela Reid

    October 15, 2019 at 6:22 PM

    Sarah and family,thinking of you all at this difficult time
    Love The Reid Family

  34. Stan & Joan Francis

    October 15, 2019 at 5:48 PM

    Ed & family
    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time

  35. Brand

    October 15, 2019 at 4:46 PM

    Our deepest condolences Ron and Pam Brand

  36. Mike and Darlene Stewart

    October 15, 2019 at 4:03 PM

    Ed and Family,
    So sorry to hear this heartbreaking news…..thinking of you all and sending hugs.

    Mike and Darlene

  37. Jim & Linda Dietrich

    October 15, 2019 at 2:10 PM

    Ed & Family.
    We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  38. DIANNE FINKBEINER

    October 15, 2019 at 1:30 PM

    Ed , Sarah & family
    Shirley, Joyce, Joan , Donna & Lori & families

    Another kind and caring person is gone. My condolences to each and everyone. Someone taken still not old
    Sorry I cannot make the Celebration of Life as I will be away

    A Silent Tear – Author Unknown
    Just close your eyes and you will see
    All the memories that you have of me
    Just sit and relax and you will find
    I’m really still there inside your mind
    Don’t cry for me now I’m gone
    For I am in the land of song
    There is no pain, there is no fear
    So dry away that silent tear
    Don’t think of me in the dark and cold
    For here I am, no longer with you
    I’m in that place that’s filled with love
    Known to you all, as “up above

    God Bless your Families

  39. Anne Gallant

    October 15, 2019 at 1:18 PM

    Deepest heartfelt condolences to Ed, Sarah and families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    Anne Gallant and Bruce Delbridge

  40. Penny Watson

    October 15, 2019 at 12:04 PM

    Heartfelt Sympathy to you all. Remembering all the good times we had together at Village Vines. Our thoughts are with you all.

    Penny and Jerome Watson

  41. Joanne Bengough

    October 15, 2019 at 11:47 AM

    My deepest sympathies to you Ed and family.
    Joy was a wonderful lady and friend.
    Thinking of you all at this time.
    Sending prayers
    Joanne Bengough

  42. Don & Edith Lewis & family

    October 15, 2019 at 10:53 AM

    Ed, family and Kerslake families

    So sorry that Joy has passed . You are All in our thoughts at this sad and difficult time.
    Cherish her memories and she will always be close to your hearts.
    Condolence to you All.

  43. Mary & John Elder

    October 15, 2019 at 9:51 AM

    Ed & family, So sorry for your loss. May great memories help you through the difficult days. Mary & John

  44. Jim and Patty Knox

    October 15, 2019 at 9:51 AM

    Jim and Patty
    Sarah Jamie and Darian
    So sorry to hear about the passing of your mom
    Thinking of you at this difficult time.

  45. Jim and Marilyn Skinner

    October 15, 2019 at 9:33 AM

    Ed and families,

    So sorry for your loss!

  46. MARY ELLEN FINLAYSON

    October 15, 2019 at 9:25 AM

    Ed, Sarah, Jamie and Darian,
    Isabelle, Aubrey and Amelia,

    You have all suffered way to much over the past couple of years………….our hearts are with you all. She deeply loved each and every one of you……….

    Mark, Mary Ellen, Jack and Sam

  47. Ray and Judy Mills

    October 15, 2019 at 8:52 AM

    Ed and family;
    Our very deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  48. Cy & Eleanor Blommaert

    October 15, 2019 at 8:47 AM

    Ed Sarah Jamie &Family
    So sorry to hear Joy has passed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
    Joy was a very dedicated Wife, Mother, and Grandma … she will be missed.
    Cy & Eleanor

  49. Barry &Melonie Miller

    October 15, 2019 at 8:25 AM

    Ed , Sarah & family
    Shirley, Joyce, Joan , Donna & Lori & families
    Our sincere sympathy in your loss of Joy.
    She was a nice lady who was always interested in her family & grandkids …
    She would have loved being in a large family like the Kerslakes ..
    Barry & Melonie Miller

  50. Sherrie Broderick/Larry Ballantyne

    October 15, 2019 at 7:07 AM

    Dear Kerslake and Seldon Family,
    Yet another soul taken from us far too soon. Our deepest condolences to all her loved ones.

  51. George and Sue Wilson

    October 14, 2019 at 11:03 PM

    Ed, Sarah, Jamie and grandchildren, our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your wife, Mother, and grandmother is sent. Joy was a lovely woman. Cherish your precious memories and hold them close to your heart. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson

  52. Lisa Blue

    October 14, 2019 at 10:26 PM

    Sarah, Jamie and Darian, I’m so sorry for your loss. Cherish those wonderful memories of her.
    Take care of each other during this difficult time. ❤️

  53. Gary & Geraldine Parsons

    October 14, 2019 at 10:06 PM

    Ed , Sarah and families, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Joy will be greatly missed and be forever in our hearts.

  54. Jaden Dietrich

    October 14, 2019 at 9:44 PM

    Dear Isabelle,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my sympathy your way.

    -Jaden Dietrich

  55. Scott and Dar Bell

    October 14, 2019 at 9:04 PM

    Heartfelt Sympathies to the entire Family. Joy’s grandchildren are especially in our hearts. Hold tight to the memories. Hugs to all.
    Scott & Dar Bell.

  56. Debra Tilley

    October 14, 2019 at 8:23 PM

    Sarah, Darian, Jamie and Ed: thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Cherish all your memories, she is no longer in pain, but still with you always, never gone and never forgotten. My deepest sympathy for your loss of a Mom, Grandmother, and wife.
    Debra

  57. Beth Webber

    October 14, 2019 at 8:14 PM

    I’m so sorry for your loss Sarah and the rest of the family.

  58. Oral and Laurie Knox

    October 14, 2019 at 7:46 PM

    Sarah, Jamie, Darian and the Kerslake family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

  59. Marjie Westerveld

    October 14, 2019 at 7:33 PM

    Sarah and the Kerslake family,,,so sorry to hear of Joy s passing,,,,

  60. Brenda and Dave Palsa

    October 14, 2019 at 7:22 PM

    Lori and family- our deepest condolences on the loss of Joy- she fought a long battle over the years -always a lovely gracious lady

  61. Terry and Colleen

    October 14, 2019 at 6:52 PM

    Ed and Family,
    Joy was one of the best. Sad to hear of her passing. Condolences.

    Terry and Colleen Lang

  62. Terry and Colleen

    October 14, 2019 at 6:49 PM

    Ed and Family,
    Joy was one of the best. Sad to hear of her passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
    Terry and Colleen Lang

  63. Jack Triebner

    October 14, 2019 at 5:18 PM

    To the KERSLAKE Family please accept our Condolence and sorry for your loss .

    From BETTY AND JACK .

  64. Ellen Hodgins

    October 14, 2019 at 4:01 PM

    Ed and family…
    So sorry for your loss. ????

  65. Ralph & Denise Batten

    October 14, 2019 at 3:41 PM

    Ed and family. Our deepest condolences on the loss Joy. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

    Ralph and Denise

  66. Donna Keenan

    October 14, 2019 at 2:50 PM

    I will remember Joy fondly.

    My sincere condolences to her family and friends.

  67. Irene M. Tomlinson

    October 14, 2019 at 2:45 PM

    My thoughts are with you at this time Sarah , Jamie and Darian . At this time remember all the good times and the values that she taught you through her life .Joy will always be in your hearts and never forgotten . From Irene M. Tomlinson Iam thinking of you all at this time.

  68. Evelyn Vincent

    October 14, 2019 at 2:43 PM

    To Joy’s family,
    So sorry to hear of Joy’s passing. She was a loving, kind lady with a heart of gold. Praying for peace and comfort in your lives.

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