Silently, one by one, in the infinite meadows of heaven, blossom the lovely stars, the forget-me-nots of the angels. HWL
It is with heavy hearts that the family of Ruth Martha Jeffery announce her passing on Thursday, October 8, 2020 at the age of 91. A much loved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother will truly be missed. We know she will be reunited with the love of her life and best friend Harry (2011) with whom she shared 58 years of marriage. Ruth’s whole life revolved around her family. Cherished mother of Mary Margaret and Gary Thompson of Parkhill, Paul and Jan Jeffery of Hensall, Shawn and Marion Jeffery of Hensall, Mark and Sheila Jeffery of Hanover and Nancy Jane and George Finch of Exeter. Cherished grandmother of Roxanna and Lee, Brandon and Katy, Caroline and Scott, Kathleen and Adam, Genevieve and Waurner; Marshall and Stacey, Chelsey and Brennan, Todd and Sara, Tara and Marc; Jacob, Stacey, and Shannon and Janet; Kayti and Rob, Adam; Nathan and Becca, Tyler, Vanessa. Great-grandmother 22. Dear sister-in-law of Eileen and Doug Rivers. Ruth was predeceased by her parents Martha (Gaiser) and Jacob Ratz, her siblings Gordon and Helen Ratz, Alma and Gerald Godbolt, Gladys and Emerson Bawden, Reta and Ray Collett, and brother-in-law Bob and Bernice Jeffery. Missed by her nieces and nephews, and her first cousin and close friend Elsie (Tuckey) Hermann.
Ruth spoke fondly of her childhood home at Khiva Corners. Ruth’s mother would often remind her to stay in close touch with her family, which she did her entire life. The members of her Crediton Zion United Church Sunday School class remained life long friends. She trained as a hair stylist in London. Ruth and Harry settled on the Jeffery homestead in Usborne Township in 1953 where they farmed and raised their 5 children. She was an active member of the Exeter UCW. Ruth and Harry enjoyed the company of their wonderful circle of friends and neighbours throughout the years.
A private family funeral service will be held on Friday, October 16 at 1 PM with Rev. Paul Ross officiating. Although the service is private, the family invites you to join with them from the comfort of your own home. Stream the service live by visiting www.facebook.com/haskettfh. Cremation with a private family interment will be held at a later date. Haskett Funeral Home, EXETER entrusted with arrangements.
Donations to the Diabetes Canada, Heart and Stroke Foundation, Exeter United Church or the charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.
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Dennis & Shirley Cann
Dear Jeffery Family,
The Times-Advance with Ruth’s obituary just recently arrived in Manitoba. We were very sorry to read of her passing, From the many group pictures it is clear that you have many happy occasions to remember. Our deepest condolences.
Dennis and Shirley Cann
Brenda Hern
To all of Ruth’s Family – we are sorry for your loss. Ruth was a wonderful lady and will be sadly missed. We watched the service online and it was a lovely dedication to Ruth and her life- well said Mary Margaret and George. Thinking of you all – Ivan and Brenda
Sandra Sweitzer
Nancy Jane and George and Family
Jeffery Family
Sending my sincere sympathy on the passing of your mom
She always had a wonderful smile and I always enjoyed talking to her
The Ratz reunion was a chance for her and your dad and my parents to catch up on their past memories
Take care
Patti Down
Mary Margaret & Gary, Paul & Jan, Shawn & Marion, Mark & Sheila, Nancy Jane & George and your families,
My sympathy to all. I have wonderful memories of Ruth while growing up next door and the years since. She was always gracious and kind with warm words, an infectious laugh and twinkle in her eyes while speaking with you. May your memories bring comfort and smiles ahead.
Patti Down & John McAllister
Joanne R Rowcliffe
Dear Jeffery Family – Our sincere sympathies on the loss of this very fine woman, matriarch of your family. I have looked at the many photos here on the website and was struck by the birthdays and celebrations at the farm and elsewhere. Ruth was clearly not one to take a selfie!! Warm, compassionate and kind people like Ruth are always missed when they leave us. May Ruth rest in peace and rise in glory.
Joanne Rowcliffe and Bob Simpson
Paul Kristoferson and JoAnn Lovell-Kristoferson
Dear Paul, Jan and families,
Paul and I were heart sore to learn of Ruth’s passing. So many wonderful memories of Ruth and your family lie in our mind’s eye. She was a graciously kind and generous woman. We’ve shared a lot of stories and laughter over the years and that’s a wonderful legacy to leave for friends and family. Thinking of you with sympathy and prayer, Paul and JoAnn
Lorne & Pat Ballantyne
We are so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. Our sympathy to the Jeffery family.
Beth Cooper
To Ruth’s Family
My deepest sympathy for our loss.
Thinking of you at this sad time.
Beth Cooper
Don and Janis Richardson
Sending deepest sympathy to the Jeffery family . Ruth will be missed but hold on to your many cherished memories.
Don & Janis
Willemina Sennema
My condolences to you, Mary Margaret, and to your children with the death of your Mom. It’s never a good time to say good-bye to one’s parents or grandparents and my heart goes out to you all.
Roger, Belle, Wayne and Barbara Ratz
And now we remember the wonderful experiences and times that we have spent with Auntie Ruth and her whole family. We still live in the house that she was born in and we spent many an hour talking and reminising on changes that took place over the years, not only in her generation but also in her parents (my grandparents) generation. As the last of our aunts, we always relied on Aunt Ruth to remember family items that nobody else knew–( Mary Margaret continues in that role). The years fly by and as we gradually lost our parents and aunts and uncles (Aunt Ruth , you were the last) one realizes that 91 years passes in a flash. We are proud and happy to be friends and neighbours to the Jeffery clan and wish each of them well in their lifes trip , now without the love and guidance of their mother. As nieces and nephews, we remember well the life and times that we experienced with Uncle Harry and Aunt Ruth and look forward to many more with their legacy!
Joan & Gerry Morgan
Thinking of all Ruth’s family at this difficult time.
Bob and Martha Heywood
To the Jeffrey Family:
We join the many households who have had you in our hearts and thoughts over the last few days. A very special and gentle lady who was always a pleasure to talk to. A life well lived indeed.
Elsie Tuckey Hermann
Ruth was my first cousin as well as being my best friend for her and my entire life which is over ninety years. There were good times and bad times but Ruth was always there for me. We have spent many hours talking on the telephone. I will miss her very much. She was always the same. A true friend God Bless her wonderful family, she loved you all dearly. My Love and sympathy Elsie Tuckey Hermann.
Helen (Down) Denning
To all the Jeffery Families our sincere condolences. As a neighbour many years ago , I was sad to hear of Ruth’s passing. I remember her friendly smile and beautiful face very well. She came to our farm home at the time of my wedding in 1960 with Mary Margaret to see
my gifts s at my tea that my Mother Dorothy Down had prepared. Saw her many times over those years as our farm Clarence & Dorothy Down s was located right adjacent to Ruth & Harry’s.
She will be sadly missed but I’m sure she has left many wonderful memories for all her family to cherish .
Fondly remembered,
Helen ( Down) & Al Denning
Dianne Faubert and Daryl Tripp
Our heartfelt condolences for your loss.
She was a fine lady.
Don and Brenda Jones
Our sincere condolences to theJeffery family at this sad time. Cherish your many memories.
Don and Brend Jones
Sarah Morgan
To all the Jeffery families,
Please accept our deepest sympathies in the loss of your mother, Ruth. Our father,Al Morgan used to say he and Harry had been best friends since grade 1! He always thought Ruth and Harry were the finest couple you could ever meet. Its a lovely thought for Harry and Ruth to be reunited once again. I am so sorry for your loss,you will miss her terribly!,❤
Melonie Miller
To all the Jeffrey family..
Our condolences in the recent loss of your mom Ruth Jeffrey. She was a wonderful mom & grandma.
Ruth was a well liked & respected
Lady in our community. Harry would drive her to the store for her cat food.. I always got a hug from her & an update on the family .. she will be missed
Barry & Melonie
Mike and JoAnne Pickering
Deepest condolences to the Jeffery, Ratz families.
Mary and Jim MacGregor
To the family of Ruth Jeffery, heart felt condolences for the loss a wonderful lady. Everytime we saw her there a beautiful smile.
Mary & Jim MacGregor
Jean Mills
I extend my sincerest condolences to the family in the loss of your Mother. I worked with Ruth at our church and she always greeted me with such a warm, lovely smile.
George and Sue Wilson
Jeffery families, we are very sorry on your loss of a wonderful Mother and Grandmother. Ruth was a kind, gentle lady who had a beautiful smile. She spoke fondly of her family. Cherish your precious memories and hold them close to your heart. May you find peace and comfort from your faith, family and friends. Your Mother, there is no other. Hugs and prayers,George and Sue Wilson
Trixie Usselman
My heartfelt condolences to all of the Jeffery families as you mourn the loss of your mother. At 91, she ‘d had a long life, but it’s never long enough, is it, for her children. Thinking of you all.
Fred Godbolt
My condolences go out to the entire Jeffery clan. She was a wonderful great Aunt to me. As a little guy I spent a lot of time at the Jeffery farm with Grandma Alma visiting Aunt Ruth and Uncle Harry.
Fred
Gail and Danny Yascheshyn
Aunt Ruth will always have a special place in our hearts she was truly a beautiful woman.
I was so fortunate to have had a telephone conversation with her the day before she went into the hospital.
Our condolences to the family our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Gail and Danny
Jim and Elsie Moore
We are sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. Our sympathy to Nancy Jane, George and family, and the Jeffery family. We always looked forward to meeting Ruth. She was a pleasant and friendly lady, and we are privileged to have known her.
Robert Crawford
Our deepest sympathy to the family. Lots of memories of Ruth she always had warm and caring thoughts for everyone. Thinking of you at this sad time Bob&JEAN CRAWFORD.
Patti Stanley and Ross Alexander
Nancy Jane, George and Family:
I am deeply saddened to here of Ruth’s passing. Though I had only know Ruth for a short time, I always looked forward to our small chats. She was a kind and caring person .Judging from all the family portrait’s on the wall, I knew Ruth had a loving family.Hold her memories close to your hearts.
Ray & Landa Coletta
Dear Mary Margaret & family, as well as all the Jeffery siblings, their spouses and their families…Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom.
A couple things come to mind when I think of her. One- her infectious laugh. Nothing could outshine her when she was having a good time. And second was her ‘genuine’ kindness & love of people & family. Those two things always stood out for me. She was truly a bright light and I know you will all miss her.
Lots of hugs & love- Landa & Ray Coletta & family
Barbara, Ben, Paul & Lisa Lanthier
To All the Jeffery Family:
We want to say how very sorry we are for Aunt Ruth’s passing. She was always such a kind, considerate and caring woman. When my sister, Catherine and I would go up to the farm on our summer vacations she treated us like her own children and there was never a harsh word spoken. She was just the kindest person I knew. Both Aunt Ruth and Uncle Harry raised a beautiful family, my cousins, and they followed in their caring footsteps. I will always remember her laugh which made us all happy, too! She is now with Uncle Harry, but has left a beautiful legacy for her children and all their families to carry on with. Aunt Ruth we will miss you so much, but we know that we are all better people for having known you. They say that you are never really gone until the last person says your name for the last time. And so I know you will be with us for a very long time. Love Barb, Ben, Paul and Lisa Lanthier
Bonnie Ratz
Our deepest sympathy to all the Jeffery family. I have some wonderful memories of your Mom at family gatherings. She was a lovely lady, and will
be missed. Thinking of all of you at this difficult time.
Bonnie and Al
John Linda Wuerth
To all the Jeffery family you have our Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful lady and loved that great smile she had. Remember all the good times you had with her and she will always be in heart
Hugh McKay
I was sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. She truly was a kind and caring individual. Having personally experienced the warmth and generosity of Ruth and Harry’s hospitality, it easily explains why they were such a well loved couple and why so many people have such cherished memories having known them.
To the Jeffery family, my deepest sympathy.
Hugh
Scott, ori Jeffery & Family
Jeffery Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. 2020 has been a truly trying year. We wish we could be with your family at this mournful time. Please know that our thoughts, prayers and love are with you.
“What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Helen Keller
Susan Oke
So very sorry to hear about Ruth. You have my deepest sympathy. May all of your happy memories help you through this difficult time. Susan
Doug Jeffery
To our cousins and their families,
We were deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Aunt Ruth. She was a kind and loving lady. We will always cherish the wonderful memories. Rest in peace, forever in our hearts.
Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade
To all the Jeffery family and friends:
Sorry to learn of Ruth’s passing. She and Harry are reunited again.
May your memories bring you comfort in the future.
Marion McCarter
To the Jeffery families:
Thinking of you all at this sad and difficult time in your loss of a wonderful mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Hold her memories close to your hearts which now will become treasures to all of you. Deepest Sympathy.
Marion McCarter
Allan and Patty Case
Our sincere condolences to the family. Cherish the many great memories.
Allan and Patty Case
Christine Colfer (Mountenay)
Nancy, I am very sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Take care.
Christine Colfer (Mountenay)
Mary A Finch
My sympathy to the Jeffery Family
It has been a great pleasure to have know
such a wonderful Lady and also her family
Janice Frayne Morris
Mary Margaret and Family,
Sorry for your loss of your mother. May your memories help at this difficult time.
Richard Jennison
Sorry to hear of the passing of this lovely lady. We knew Ruth as a warm and kind person with a ready smile and gentle manner. What a compliment to such a well lived life , that she has such a loving family. Thinking of you all at this time.
Respectfully , Rich and Wendy
james briggs & family
our condolences to your family’s
Art Hunking
Am so sorry to read of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all you guys
Evelyn Vincent
To the Jeffrey family,
Sincere sympathy. May the many good memories help bring peace and comfort\
Shawn and Sadie Lee
Sincere condolences to everyone.
Judy Lovell
To the Jeffery Family
Our most sincere Condolences to all. Ruth was a lovely lady and always had a smile on her face.
Ruth will be missed by her family and friends. We have many good memories of being with the
Jeffery Family. Take care of each other.
Dave and Judy Lovell
Murray and Barb Parsons
So sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. You are in our thoughts and prayer’s at this difficult time. Murray and Barb Parsons
Bernice Thompson
To the Jeffery Family;
Sincere condolences to all of you in the loss of your Mother ,Grandmother and GreatGrandmother.I have some wonderful memories of your Mom when I was growing up as we lived across the road from her on the Morrison Line.She was a kind and gracious Lady.It was a privilege to have known her.
Keith & Dianne Ahrens
To all the Jeffery Families:
So sorry for your loss. Our heartfelt condolence to all the Family.
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
RIP Ruth
Keith & Dianne Ahrens
Rob and Rose Rathwell
Our deepest condolences to all the Jeffery Families. So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time .
Cathy Batten
To The Jeffery Family
My condolences to each and everyone of you in the passing of Ruth. Cherish the special memories that each and everyone of you hold .Thinking of you all at this sad time. Take care. Hugs❤
Cathy Batten
Bill Greenaway
My late wife, Anne Bawden, was so fond of her beloved Aunt Ruth. She and Uncle Harry were not only cherished relatives, but good friends. My deepest condolences to all of the extended Jeffery family.
Carolyn Gower
To All Of Ruth’s Family
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the passing of Ruth.
She was a lovely lady and will be sorely missed.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely
Carolyn Gower and Family
Marilyn Pritchard
Kate Farwell
My sincerest condolences on your family’s great loss.
George and Helen Pratt
Our deepest sympathy to all the family. We both thought the world of Ruth
We have great memories of bus trips with Ruth & Harry!
Jim and Marg Sweitzer
Sending hugs and deepest sympathy to all
Jim & Linda Dietrich
Sincere condolence to all the family, so sorry for your loss.
George and Lois Godbolt
Our family has lost a wonderful aunt, and great aunt in losing Aunt Ruth. Any time we visited her, she never failed to ask about all our family and she named them. From Lois and I, Fred, Matthew, Julie and their families we send our sincere condolences and hugs.
JOYCE BLACK
Sincere sympathy to all the Jeffery Family in the passing of your dear Mother, Ruth. She was such a beautiful woman and always had a smile for everyone. Ruth will be missed by her family, friends and neighbors. Thinking of you all in the days and months ahead. Take care of each other. Joyce, Shelly and Karl, Shari and John.
Marg Prout
To all the Jeffery family I send my sincere condolences. Ruth was such a lovely lady and I
did enjoy our neighbourly conversations. No matter how old we are, losing a dear Mom is
one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know. Friends and neighbours to comfort you, memories to strengthen you and love to bring you peace, I am wishing you all these things in your time of sorrow.
Irvin Armstrong
To Ruths family and Ilene and Doug Rivers, i’m sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. Ruth and I go back to our highschool days in the mid 40’s. My thoughts are with you all through this difficult time.
Wanda Reynolds
Jeffery Family
Sorry to hear about Ruth’s passing. Our thoughts are with at this time of sorrow. We have many good memories of Ruth & Harry.
Bob & Wanda Reynolds
belle weller
On an end table in our living room,. there is a large black and white photo of Aunt Ruth and her brother Gordon entering the Crediton church to marry Uncle Harry with her wonderful brilliant smile..This is what Uncle Harry was waiting for and now he has it all..Safe journeys..tears and hugs for all..Missed already..
Marjie & Tom Westerveld
To all of the families,,,,so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing,,,she was such a wonderful lady and a beautiful soul,,,,,I’ll miss our chats,,,,xo,,,,Marjie
Jackie
Mark and Sheila so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom may she fly with the Angels.
Sherry Gilfillan-Penhale
To Shawn, Marion and the Jeffery family
So sorry for the loss of your dear Mother, Mother in Law and Grandma
Ruth was a lovely lady
Sherry Penhale
Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons
To all the Jeffery Family:
We are saddened to hear of the loss of your Mom. Please accept our deepest condolences at this sad time. Thinking of all of you.
Kathy and George Lee
Mary Margaret & Gary, Paul & Jan, Shawn & Marion, Mark & Sheila, Nancy Jane & George and all of your Families, So very sorry to hear of your Mom, Grandmother and Great Grandmother`s passing. Ruth was a beautiful lady and l have such great memories, spending many weekends over the years at the Jeffery house growing up with Mary Margaret. Memories that I will always cherish. Ruth always treated me like part of the family, she was always so cheerful and I will never forget her laugh, it was so contagious, she was loved by everyone who knew her and will be missed by her family, neighbors and Friends. Our thoughts are with you all, during these very difficult days ahead….. Hugs to you all….. Kathy and George
Wendy Case
Our deepest sympathy to each of you at this sad time. Ruth was indeed a wonderful person. She will be missed. Love, Pete and Wendy and family xo
Lynda (Parsons) Conlin
deepest sympathy to all the Jeffery family, wonderful lady
Ken Bender
Nancy Jane, George and Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing, my thoughts and prayer’s go out to you and your family during this difficult time…
From Ken Bender (neighbor across the street)
Bev Branderhorst
Paul and Jan and fam
Shawn and Marion
Jeffrey family
My deepest condolences to you all. I’ve lived right across the street for just over a year. May your memories give you all so much comfort
Dan and Linda Crerar
Our heartfelt condolences to all the Jeffery family. Ruth was a very special lady and will be missed.
Dan and Linda
Marilyn Waldeck
To all of the Jeffery Families I was saddened to hear of your loss of Ruth. She was a lovely lady and I had the privilege of knowing her through my years of retail in Exeter. She was a pleasure to see, always with a smile, and I hope all the fond memories you all shared with her over the years make the coming months ahead a easier path to be on and will comfort you. Marilyn