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HODGERT: Kathleen “Kay” (May) of Exeter

January 24, 2024 By Haskett Funeral Homes 63 Condolences

HODGERT: Kathleen “Kay” (May) of Exeter

Passed away peacefully at Queensway Long Term Care Home on Tuesday, January 23, 2024 at the age of 92. Beloved wife of the late Ross Hodgert (2023) for 68 years. Cherished mother of Diane Ellis of Waterloo, and Alan and Michele Hodgert of RR 1 Woodham. Proud grandma of Christine Jakobsen; Alana Hodgert, Andrew and Britt Hodgert and Amanda Hodgert and great-grandma of Evelyn; Axton and Hayden. Dear sister-in-law of Ombra May of London, and Jean Hodgert of Exeter. Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her parents Hedley and Alice May, her siblings and their spouses; Douglas and Marjorie, Murray May, and Marian Tinney and her in-laws Reg Hodgert, and Marion and Arnold Cann.

Kay was a dedicated member of the Eastern Star. For many years, she enjoyed her outings on the curling rink with her friends. She was a faithful member of the Thames Road United Church and was a part of the UCW. Kay was known far and wide for her chocolate angel food cake, especially at family picnics.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 456 Main Street South, EXETER on Sunday from 3 – 6 PM, where Kay’s funeral service will be held on Monday, January 29th at 11 AM with Rev. Louise von Massow officiating. Interment Exeter Cemetery.

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Donations to Jessica’s House or a charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Chuck and Val Ford

    January 30, 2024 at 7:42 PM

    Diane, Alan, Michele and families,
    Our condolences on the passing of Kay. May your wonderful memories help you through this difficult time.

  2. John & Arlene Berendsen

    January 30, 2024 at 6:00 PM

    Sorry to hear of your loss…Thinking of you all…Arlene & John Berendsen

  3. George and Sue (Insley)Wilson

    January 30, 2024 at 9:07 AM

    Diane, Alan, Michele and families, heartfelt condolences. Kay was a friendly, kind woman. She cared about everyone she met. Cherish your precious memories and hold them close to your heart.Your parents are together again. Love and prayers.

  4. Joan Mitchell

    January 29, 2024 at 7:24 PM

    Thoughts and prayers for comfort and that peace beyond understanding to each of you.
    From Bill Allen and Joan Mitchell (nee Allen) . I can see Kay’s friendly and kind smile still.

  5. Tinney Family

    January 29, 2024 at 10:17 AM

    Diane, Alan, Michele and families, we are sorry to for your loss.

    Aunt Kay was a wonderful lady who lived a wonderful life that she generously shared with her family and friends.

    Love,
    Darren, Nathalie, Ben and Meg

  6. John & Sharon McNeilly

    January 29, 2024 at 10:08 AM

    Sending sincere condolences on the passing of your Mother & Grandma. We first met your parents when John coached Al’s hockey team, then curling and eventually neighbours. They were such a nice couple, always interested in what the girls were doing. Sorry we were unable to attend the visitation, we were at the Ontario Curling playdowns, something your parents would have been most interested in. Thinking of all of you as you prepare to say goodbye to your mom.

  7. Fred & Ann Zwaan

    January 28, 2024 at 2:30 PM

    My sincere condolences to Alan, Michelle and family with the passing of your mother and grandmother.
    She was a pleasant lady who always had time for a friendly conversation which always cheered me up, as well as my mother when she was still with us.
    May God comfort you during this sad time. Fred & Ann Zwaan

  8. Dorothy Stephen

    January 28, 2024 at 2:29 PM

    My sympathy to Kathleen’s family.
    May God ease your sorrow on the passing of another dear family member.
    Take comfort in the fact that Ross and Kathleen are together again, and with the Lord.
    Dorothy Stephen

  9. Travis & Jill Robinson

    January 28, 2024 at 2:25 PM

    Our deepest sympathies to you all.

  10. Patty and Jim Carter

    January 28, 2024 at 9:08 AM

    Alan and Michelle and family very sorry for your loss

  11. Alma Ballantyne

    January 27, 2024 at 4:54 PM

    To the Hodgert family,
    So sorry for your loss. My sincerest sympathies.

    Alma

  12. Pete and Elaine Kosi

    January 27, 2024 at 4:36 PM

    Sending the whole family our sincere condolences on your loss. She was a great neighbour to my parents in Exeter.

  13. Gary and Kathy simpson

    January 27, 2024 at 9:28 AM

    Allan, Michelle and family.

    So sorry to read of Kay’s passing. Kay and Ross were a wonderful couple and cared for one another for a lot of years. It was my pleasure to visit with them for a time.

  14. Faye and Larry Skinner

    January 27, 2024 at 7:54 AM

    We send our condolences to the entire Hodgert family. Cherish the memories of a life well lived.

  15. Ken and Margaret Caldwell

    January 26, 2024 at 5:15 PM

    To all family members of Kay’s – Having gotten to know Kay when joining with Exeter Chapter of the OES, we all felt that Kay gave us an added welcome and kept up that spirit for these many years. She was always a good humoured lady which we all came to enjoy during her years with us. Rest in peace, Kay. Margaret

  16. Larry Ballantyne/Sherrie Broderick

    January 26, 2024 at 4:08 PM

    To the Family,
    Sending sincere condolences for your loss.

  17. Nancy Price

    January 26, 2024 at 2:11 PM

    My sincere sympathies to you all at a sad time.
    Nancy Price (Hern)…..

  18. Donna Webster

    January 26, 2024 at 2:11 PM

    Kay was a local member of the OES in Exeter. She held the position of secretary for many years. The books were in good hands.
    May all your the good memories of Kay be of comfort to you in the coming days.
    Donna

  19. Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons

    January 26, 2024 at 1:31 PM

    Diane, Al, Michele & entire Hodgert family

    Sincere condolences on the passing of Kay. May you find comfort in your memories.

  20. Bob and Joyce McDonald

    January 26, 2024 at 11:15 AM

    Diane, Al, Michelle and families,

    Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your, Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother. May all your memories comfort each of you in the days and months ahead.

    Bob and Joyce McDonald

  21. James Weston

    January 26, 2024 at 9:26 AM

    Diane, Alan and Michele and families – Sincere sympathy in the loss of Kay. She and Ross were an amazing couple and will be together again.

    Helen and Jim Weston

  22. Kay Tripp

    January 25, 2024 at 7:30 PM

    I offer my condolences to the Hodgert Families…Kay Tripp

  23. Shirley Hewtt

    January 25, 2024 at 6:53 PM

    A Friend to remember on this sad day . Kay you were always friendly and made us Aussies welcome and when you and Ross came to Australia for Cann/Hewitt wedding we all had a great time. It is so sad that we have to say farewell but I know you will always be remembered by your family and friends.. Farewell Kay…………Sympathy to all who mourn this day…Shirley Hewitt & Family

  24. Marilyn, Brian & Victoria Stewart

    January 25, 2024 at 6:40 PM

    Andrew, Britt and the Hodgert family so very sad to learn of the passing of your grandmother. Thinking of you all as you go through this time of mourning.

  25. Sandra & Larry Hern

    January 25, 2024 at 5:21 PM

    We extend our sympathy to all of Kay’s family on her passing. She was a faithful member of the Order of the Eastern Star, and I enjoyed sitting with her when she was able to attend the meetings, in spite of her loss of sight. May all your good memories spent together give you comfort and peace in knowing that she is now again with your dear Dad, Ross.

  26. Darren Boyle

    January 25, 2024 at 4:47 PM

    Our most kind condolences to the entire Hodgert family.
    So many great memories and time spent chatting with her over the years as a neighbour and family friend.
    She will leave a big hole in a lot of hearts.
    Darren, Denise, Kayleigh & Sean Boyle

  27. Karen Brock

    January 25, 2024 at 4:19 PM

    My sincere condolences to you all for the passing of Kay. I enjoyed many visits with her through the years. May fond memories of her help you through this most difficult time.

  28. Joyce Black

    January 25, 2024 at 2:47 PM

    Thinking of all the Hodgert family and sending sincere sympathy in the passing of your Mother/Grandmother. May your memories bring you comfort at this sad time.

  29. Powe family

    January 25, 2024 at 2:43 PM

    Our deepest sympathy to all the Hodgert family. We will remember Kay’s warm smile and visits with Ross and Elmer.
    Condolences from the Powe family. Alan, Elaine and Bruce, Marie and Ron and families

  30. Craig & Andrea Alexander

    January 25, 2024 at 12:38 PM

    Al, Michele & entire Hodgert family

    Sincere condolences on the passing of Kay. May you find comfort in your memories and knowing that she has been reunited with Ross.

    Craig & Andrea Alexander

  31. Anne & Ted Kernick

    January 25, 2024 at 11:35 AM

    We send our sincere sympathy to all of Kay’s family. Hopefully your memories are a comfort to you at this sad time.

  32. Jim Chapman

    January 25, 2024 at 11:32 AM

    Diane, Alan and Families ;
    I was so sorry to hear of the loss of Kay !!
    My deepest sympathy to all of you !
    Many good memories of curling with and against Kay and Ross !

  33. Brenda Miller-Sanford

    January 25, 2024 at 10:28 AM

    My sincere condolences to Alan and Michele and family.

  34. Brian and Janet Wedlake

    January 25, 2024 at 8:45 AM

    Our condolences to the Hodgert family. As a neighbour of Ross and Kay there are many fond memories growing up next door on the farm.

  35. Marjie Westerveld

    January 25, 2024 at 8:44 AM

    So sorry to hear of Kay’s passing…my condolences to all of the family

  36. The Tinney Family

    January 25, 2024 at 8:40 AM

    Aunt Kay & Uncle Ross – one of the greatest love stories of all time.

    Thinking of you all.

    Rene, Harlen, Cole & Trent.

  37. Carolyn Gower

    January 25, 2024 at 8:15 AM

    Our deepest sympathy to all of the Hodgert family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.

    Dan, Carolyn, Blake, Hannah and Kane Gower

  38. Hayden

    January 25, 2024 at 7:19 AM

    So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
    Hayden & Sadie Cann

  39. John & Carol Coleman

    January 25, 2024 at 7:19 AM

    Dear Alan, Michele and family,
    Sending out our heartfelt condolences to each of you. Kay’s spirit is now reunited with Ross, so hopefully that brings a smile at this sorrowful time. We have many fond memories of when we belonged to the Exeter Curling Club. Your parents were awesome competitors and would tease us about missed shots, all in good fun!

  40. Dianne Faubert&Daryl Tripp

    January 25, 2024 at 7:08 AM

    To all the family. Our hearts are with you. We are thinking of you. Deepest condolences.

  41. Susan Moore

    January 25, 2024 at 6:50 AM

    Diane and Alan and family: I have many memories of growing up down the road from Kay and Ross! Thinking of you all!

  42. judy lovell

    January 25, 2024 at 6:19 AM

    Hodgert Family
    Our sincere sympathy to the Hodget family. Your parents were so proud of their family, especially the Grandchildren. They were so kind and caring to each other. My Mom had many good years, visiting with them over a cup of coffee at McDonalds. Hoping all the cherished memories with help you all through this difficult time.
    Judy Lovell
    Ethel Desjardine

  43. Betty &Jim Deblock

    January 25, 2024 at 4:46 AM

    Our deepest sympathies to all the family members. We were fortunate to have known them both , especially through curling. They are together again.

  44. Ron-Karen Simpson

    January 24, 2024 at 9:47 PM

    Dear Alan and Michelle and family, very sorry to her of the passing of your Mom and kids Grandma, you have our deepest of sympathy

  45. Elaine Corbett

    January 24, 2024 at 9:44 PM

    My deepest condolences to Kay’s family. Cherish your memories to help you through the days ahead!

  46. Marg Prout

    January 24, 2024 at 7:08 PM

    Condolences to all Kay’s family. As Kay grew up next to the
    Prout farm she was always interested in what & just how everyone
    was doing. May she now rest in peace. ❤️‍🩹

  47. Dave Keys

    January 24, 2024 at 5:57 PM

    Al, Michelle and family
    So sorry to hear of Kay’s family. Our condolences goes out to the entire family.
    Dave, Shelly and Rachelle Keys

  48. Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade

    January 24, 2024 at 5:56 PM

    To all of Kay’s family and friends
    Sorry to learn of her passing, she is reunited with Ross.
    Kay was a familiar person around the Exeter Curling Club and she was there to support Ross and Al, when she could no longer curl.
    May your memories bring comfort to you in the future.
    Our condolences

  49. MaryJane Taylor

    January 24, 2024 at 5:23 PM

    To the Hodgert and May Families
    My Sincere Sympathy in your loss of Kay…..
    She was such a nice lady with a lovely smile even though
    she had lost her sight…she would recognize your voice.
    May your fond memories comfort you at this sad time…..

  50. Jeff Borland

    January 24, 2024 at 5:04 PM

    Diane, Alan &Family
    Sending our condolence in the loss of a good friend and neighbor for many years.

    The Borland’s

  51. Ken and Kim Pinder

    January 24, 2024 at 4:27 PM

    Alan and Michele
    We are sorry for the loss of your mom Kay. Our sincere condolences to you all. Keep her memories close to your heart.

  52. Earl and Julia Martene

    January 24, 2024 at 3:32 PM

    Alan, Michele and the Hodgert Family
    Our condolences on your mother and grandmother’s passing. No matter how long our parents live, it is never long enough. Our thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
    Earl and Julia Martene

  53. Beth Cooper

    January 24, 2024 at 2:55 PM

    My sincere sympathy to all of Kay’s family.
    My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

  54. Marion McCarter

    January 24, 2024 at 2:16 PM

    Sincere sympathy to the Hodgert and May families as you mourn the loss of Kay. She has left you enormous memories which will now become treasures you will hold in your hearts forever.

  55. Linda & Jerry Traquair

    January 24, 2024 at 1:55 PM

    Sincere condolences to all who knew and loved Kay.

  56. Dave Prout

    January 24, 2024 at 1:46 PM

    Alan and all the Hodgert family

    Condolences on the passing of Kathleen she always knew me by the sound of my voice when I would see her and Ross around town, a life well lived

    Dave

  57. Linda Dietrich

    January 24, 2024 at 12:42 PM

    Alan, Michelle & Family,
    So sorry for your loss, our deepest sympathy.

  58. Tom and Carol Arthur

    January 24, 2024 at 11:31 AM

    Our sincere sympathy to the Hodgert and May families. Our thoughts are with all of you.

  59. Margaret Brintnell

    January 24, 2024 at 11:21 AM

    Alan, Diane & All of your families.
    Sorry to read about your Mom & Grandmother & Great Grandmother. Your Mom & Dad were so proud of everyone of you & loved to talk about the twins. So caring & kind to each other & so many years together. Wonderful Couple & Parents. Mom will be with Dad once again.
    My Sympathy – Margaret Brintnell

  60. Wanda Reynolds

    January 24, 2024 at 11:11 AM

    Hodgert Family

    My thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.

    Wanda Reynolds

  61. Evelyn Vincent & Sim

    January 24, 2024 at 10:40 AM

    Diane, Alan & Michelle
    Sincere sympathy. You had a great mother but she was ready to go. Trusting all the good memories help bring peace and comfort

  62. Elaine Ford

    January 24, 2024 at 10:22 AM

    So sorry to learn of Kathleen’s passing. She was always a very active lady. Star hugs 🤗

  63. Alice and Jerry MacLean

    January 24, 2024 at 9:28 AM

    My goodness… 92years of age… what a long wonderful life she had. How fortunate for the family to have had her for all their lives.
    Kay and Ross were always together when we saw them out and about the last few years, and now… together again. May they be blessed in their eternal home.
    Family… we send our sympathies your way, knowing it’s hard to loose someone you love

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