GONE!
John William Stanley ‘Stan’ Flood
1942-2021
John William Stanley ‘Stan’ Flood
1942-2021
Well Dad, you wanted the shortest obituary ever – a single word, as promised (above), and we hope you’re enjoying it. So let’s call this one a tribute instead (you knew we’d find a way around it!). We couldn’t mark your 80 years with just a word.
Dad’s passing on December 3rd as the result of lung cancer has left a hole in our hearts and our lives. He joins our mother, Diane (deceased January 2020), likely enjoying again her roast turkey and butter tarts. His quick, sly humour, generous spirit and wisdom are already much missed by daughters Kimberly Flood and Michelle Flood; son-in-law Kelly Barnett; grandchildren Sara Barnett, Andreas Kyriakos and Hanna Barnett; brother Bruce Flood (Dianne) and family; uncle and brother-in-spirit, Roy Zinn (Carol); sister-in-law Jean Ferguson (Stan) and family, and nieces, nephews and cousins in the Flood, Therrien and Cannon families. He is predeceased by parents Stanley and Rhea (Sally) Flood of Ingersoll, brother Donald and daughter Sherri Lynne.
Dad enjoyed daily chats on his ‘patio’ with passing friends, neighbours and canines, even after Mom wasn’t alongside. His interests were varied over eight decades: destruction in the early years (“Butch”), phys ed, motorcycling, camping, fishing, hunting (“Swampfox”), boating, square dancing, curling, photography, country music, Optimists, cribbage, playing cards, theatre, aviation simulators, wild bird ‘tenants’ and every tool ever made. His professional experiences were also diverse: Farm hand, sea cadet, reservist, newspapers, commercial printing, advertising, by-law enforcement, bus driving. Homes were across Ontario including Ingersoll, Woodstock, Owen Sound, Paris, London, Lucan and Toronto.
Despite multiple health shocks these past two years, Dad felt fortunate thanks to the excellent care of Dr. Audra Duncan and her team; the staff of London Health Sciences Centre and Regional Cancer Program; the homecare team of South West LHIN, St. Elizabeth’s and VON; Lucan Pharmacy, and the incredible professionals and volunteers of St. Joseph’s Hospice who gave him the departure he wanted. Special thanks to the wonderful neighbours and friends who showed their love for Dad with their visits, food, emergency care, snow and grass removal.
Cremation has taken place and, COVID depending, a celebration of life will follow in spring 2022 for both our parents who would want to thank the Lucan community for the life they enjoyed there for 50 years. Dad would encourage donations to St. Joseph’s Hospice, cancer research or the charity of your choice.
We are always willing to go where called upon but this image shows a visual of the communities that our included in our initial transportation fee. We offer a 40km radius from any of our 5 locations (Arva (London), Exeter, Lucan, Seaforth, and Zurich). Any mileage beyond the included 40km will be charged a rate of $2.50/km (one way travel only).
Steve Gould
My condolences on the loss of Stan. He was always a pleasure to talk to whether walking by the property or when working on the house. His greeting phrase of “top of the morning” in his big voice will surely be missed by all who knew him. Steve Gould.
Bev Dayman
Kim and Michelle
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Dad.
Take comfort in knowing he’s been reunited with Diane
Thinking of you all
Bev and Shawn Dayman
Jean Ferguson
From brother-in-law Stan and sister in-law-Jean We miss Stan so much! Miss our frequent skip bo games every visit. Stan refused to take off shoes or socks while visiting ys at our cottage but loved people watching and joking with our friends, Miss him with love
Michelle Rummell
Kim, Michelle, and family,
We were all so sad to hear of the passing of Stan. We all have so many fun memories of Stan from when the girls were babysat at their house. He was always such a pleasure to be around. We are praying that your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Scott, Michelle, Kelsey and Taylor Rummell
Wayne & Julie Pryce
Deepest sympathy to all of Stan’s family. We always enjoyed our visits whether we were attending Optimists functions, in the grocery store with Diane or parking lot as Stan waiting so patiently for Diane or as we biked by their house always a big Hello. Thinking of all of you at this sad time.
Joyce Sovereign
Kim and Michelle
So sorry to hear of your Dads death ,l had not heard he was having health issues,so it was a surprise.Take some comfort that your Mom and Dad will be together again.
Sending my sincere sympathy to you girls and your families .
Walter and Jean Manning
To Kim and Michelle and families, We are so sorry for the passing of your father. Walter worked with Stan at the Woodstock Sentinel-Review for a number of years. He was a great guy to work with and we had a lot of fun. We miss both Stan and Diane and we’re sure you miss them very much. Our deepest condolences.
Ben Alton
We have missed the beauty of your Mom & Dad’s home, (since your Mom’s passing), at holiday times and especially Christmas it was always so wonderfully decorated and lit and we still have fond memories of passing by it all shining and bright with the tree front and centre in the window.
We will also remember your father questioning us with “Who is walking Who”, when we would be passing by the house, being pulled at the end of a very tight leash by our little 5 pound Toy Poodle / Chihuahua mix Moe desperate to get home to get his treat for going for a walk.
Having also lost my father to cancer this year I know how tough it is and how challenging celebrating them can be in this socially distancing time of Covid.
The neighbourhood will not be the same without them and the joy they brought it but they will be remembered in fond memories. Those memories bring us joy and we hope they do for all of you as well.
Ben, Melissa, Emily, & Luke Alton (and Moe) – Nicoline Ave
Jo Anne Trudgen
We are so saddened to hear of Stan’s passing! Stan was one of my favourite bus drivers and we enjoyed our social times with Stan and Diane! Lives well lived!
Paul and Jo Trudgen
Coreen and Bob Davis
Michelle and Kim, So very sorry to hear about your dad. Memories of him working the optimist bingos and being referred to as “ Stan the Man” come to mind. May you find comfort in knowing he is reunited with your mom. Coreen and Bob Davis
Sarah Ewald
Both your mom and dad were so kind to me and my partner as we would visit my parents in Lucan; they would ask about my two sons and chat about their adventures in the playground, and often end up with cookies or timbits in their hands. My eldest Felix loved running over to chat with Stan. And your father was so kind. All of my condolences to you and your family. A true loss for us all 💗
Hans and Marie Ewald
Kim Michelle and family
Our deepest sympathy to all of you at this sad time .Your Mom and Dad were the first neighbours we met when we moved to Lucan and were so kind to us .We so enjoyed every visit with them both and then with Stan after your Mom passed away We spent many a lovely hour chatting with him by the garage ..he had such a great sense of humour .He got to know our grandchildren as they ran by to the splash pad and they would call out “Hi Stan .”We will miss him and his smiles .
Sincere sympathy Hans and Marie
Nancy Vandergulik
Michelle and Kim
My condolences, Stan will be missed waving and smiling as people go by. Keep your memories close to your heart.
Jeff and Kelly McFalls
Kim and Michelle, sorry for your loss. Your Dad was a very nice and thoughtful person. Take care.
Helen MacFarlane
Many wonderful memories volunteering with your mom at the thrift shop and chats with your dad when he would pick her. Thinking of their family at this sad time. Helen MacFarlane
Angela and Randy Regier
Our neighbourhood has lost its permanent fixture. My daily walks will never be the same without Stan (and Diane before her passing) to stop and talk to. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Betty McIntyre
Wonderful guy! Once on a bus trip to Toronto he turned the bus around and drove back through 4 oclock Toronto traffic to the place where I had left my papers. Who else would have done that? I’ll never forget that kindness
Krista Mair
I have wonderful childhood memories of both your parents . My condolences to all of you- hard to say goodbye but thankful for a life well lived.
Terry Genttner
Our deepest condolences to the family. We lived next to Stan for many years. We will always remember his words of wisdom he shared from his ‘patio’! He will be missed.
Terry and Carrie Genttner & Family.
Marc Therrien
Kim & Michelle
My sincere condolences on the passing of Uncle Stan, always enjoyed the visits to Lucan as a youngster and most recently for visits and coffee when I had the chance. I will miss his sense of humour over a cup of coffee. Take care for now our thoughts are with you.
Joe & Marla Wilson
Kim & Michelle,
Sorry to hear about your dad. Always enjoyed our talks when we walked by your parents house. We enjoyed our years working with them at the Lucan Skating Club and Joe enjoyed his time with your dad at the Optimist Club.
Joe & Marla Wilson
Liz Jenkin
Your Dad will be deeply missed by all who received a friendly smile / wave as they drove / walked by. He was referred to by my husband as “Bro” and your mom was “Sis”. My deepest sympathies as you go through your loss and take comfort that they are sitting together again.
Sherry Bodkin
Kim and Michelle
I am so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. I have lately seen the odd thing of Facebook about your parents to know of your moms passing and your dads declining health. Immediately bringing me back in time to the time spent with you, Kim at your home, when we went to Western Fair and I got lost and in general every time from there forward to ever meeting your Dad on the street to his warm smile greeting. I am sure that you will miss him immensely but knowing he is with your Mom will give you
both some peace having the two of them together again. God speed to you Stan, to your Diane free of pain and now watching over your family from above, guiding them through life
Sherry Bodkin[Froats]
Wayne Hall
Kim, I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. I would always enjoy the conversations we would have wherever we met. My condolences to you and the rest of the family . Rest in peace Stan.
Jeanette Simpson
I am sorry to hear about Stan. Keith and I used to enjoy our visits with Stan and Diane when she was still here and we were able to walk that far. Like you said he is able to enjoy her turkey dinners and butter tarts now. You have my deepest sympathy.
Sheila Butchart
Kim , Michelle and extended family
My condolences to you all with your dad passing. Your parents were some of the first people we meet in Lucan when we moved here. They will both be so missed
Prayers and Love
Sheila
Aaron and cathy appleman
Lucky still pulls me to the head of the driveway for his daily pat on the head, not to be had. We will surely miss your father and his life stories and lessons .Our deepest condolences.
Don Lankin
Kimberly & Michael and family sorry to hear of dad’s passing he was a friend and customer.
Tom Hearn
I’m so sorry to hear of Stan’s passing. I always looked forward to our daily chats when I walked by his house. He will be greatly missed. You have my deepest condolences.