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DYKEMAN: Shane of Lucan

February 1, 2018 By Haskett Funeral Homes 38 Condolences

DYKEMAN: Shane of Lucan

Suddenly after a long and painful battle with mental health and addiction on February 1, 2018 of Lucan in his 60th yr. Dear father of Andrea and Drew Robertson of London. Much loved son of Mary Dykeman and the late Paul Dykeman (2016). Dear brother of Shannon and Paul Wheeler of London, Derek and Robin Dykeman of Francis Lake, Marj and Brad Cowan of London and Dalton and Jody Dykeman of Milgrove. Shane will be sadly missed by his several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Friends may call at the Haskett Funeral Home, 223 Main Street, Lucan on Friday evening from 7-9 PM where the funeral service will be held on Saturday, February 3, 2018 at 11 AM with Pastor Brad Sumner officiating. Cremation has taken place. Shane’s final resting place will be in his family’s favourite spot, Matachewan.

Donations to the Canadian Mental Health Association or Sunshine Foundation would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. Tracy Hayter

    February 8, 2018 at 5:58 PM

    Mary and Family

    I am very sorry to about Shane’s passing. My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.

  2. Ryan Milam

    February 8, 2018 at 4:16 AM

    I’m so sorry for your loss Mary & family! I spend 4 amazing years hanging out almost every day with Shane when I was living in Lucan . It was kind of hard not to sit within is company , as we lived beside each other and the laughs and the kindness he had to offer and his friendship. An amazing man he was! Always had a smile on no matter what he did! He will be missed very much !

  3. Ryan Campbell

    February 4, 2018 at 12:44 PM

    Growing up in Lucan, I have so many great memories with Shane. He was a wonderful man with a heart of gold who was able to put a genuine smile on anybodies face. I don’t think he should be defined by his struggles, but instead by his kindness and his generosity as he was in no shortage of those qualities. I am truly sad to hear of his passing, and I write this with a very heavy heart. My condolences go out to his family and the rest of his friends. He will be missed by many. Rest easy Bro! I know you’re in a better place now.

  4. Ed and Annelies Butler

    February 4, 2018 at 11:41 AM

    Mary and family,
    We pray that the God of all comfort will be with you during this difficult time.
    It was always pleasant to have a chat with Shane as we met on numerous occasions down town Lucan.
    0ur thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Ed and Annelies

  5. Tim & Joyce Blackburn

    February 4, 2018 at 11:21 AM

    So sorry Mary to hear of Shane’s passing. We offer our condolences and you are in our thoughts and prayers during such a sad and difficult time.

  6. Robin Bates

    February 3, 2018 at 9:38 PM

    My heart goes out to the whole family…

  7. Betty Bates and family

    February 3, 2018 at 8:35 PM

    Our deepest sympathy Mary and family. Your whole family has always held a special place in our hearts.

  8. Dale Purdy

    February 3, 2018 at 6:45 PM

    Mary
    Sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers go out for you and your family. May God hold you in his loving embrace and bring you peace in the difficult times ahead

  9. nancy hotson

    February 3, 2018 at 3:21 PM

    My sympathy to Mary and family. Thinking of you at this time and sending healing thoughts.

  10. Marg and April Tompson Jim and Andy Huffman

    February 3, 2018 at 12:56 PM

    So sorry to hear of shane passing ,we are going to miss not seeing him each day,Sorry for your loss Mary and family

  11. Ken and Dianne Girdler

    February 3, 2018 at 10:40 AM

    Mary and Family. We are very sorry to hear your loss of Shane. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time.

  12. Gisele and Scott Dickson

    February 2, 2018 at 7:39 PM

    We are sorry to hear about Shanes passing. He was a great friend. Treasure the memories, and they will see you through

  13. Jeannine and Bert Damen

    February 2, 2018 at 11:43 AM

    Mary and family, our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family; it is so sad to lose someone you love to mental illness.May Shane and your family find some peace .

    Bert and Jeannine Damen

  14. Gord Evans

    February 2, 2018 at 10:52 AM

    Uncle Shane you were truly an amazing man with a heart of gold and one of the hardest working people there was and I truly enjoyed all our time together and all those great fishing trips and family times we have had over the years ! We could always count on you for the biggest fish (even if it wasn’t you made sure we all knew it was ) you were always there to help out in any work or projects that needed to be done for anyone at all without hesitation ! I will miss the smile on your face after that great meal and you putting that gravy on the bread even after you were full and complimenting whoever was the cook that day on how excellent the food was !i hope you are at peace now we all love you very much and will miss you I hope you are there with Poppa at peace now together and continuing to argue over the biggest fish ! Shane may you Rest In Peace uncle I love you and miss you very much !
    Love Gord

  15. Martha Butler

    February 2, 2018 at 10:19 AM

    Dear Mary and family:
    We’re so sorry to hear of Shane’s passing. Doug was mentioning yesterday about the great chats he use to have with Shane in the past. Although we won’t be able to attend the funeral , as we are out of country, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you Mary and trust Fater God’s peace and love will be with you in these difficult days.
    Love and prayer Doug and Marti Butler

  16. Bill and Sue Sutton

    February 2, 2018 at 10:00 AM

    Dear Mary, Andrea and Dykeman family. We are very sad to hear of the passing of Shane. We always enjoyed his company out on the lake. Good fishing and memories there.

  17. Max Appleman

    February 2, 2018 at 9:58 AM

    So sorry to here of Shanes passing. Having growing up with Shane around was always good for a chuckle at times. We all know he struggled occasionally but did so with smile and a witty remark. He always had time to stop and say hello and share a quick story to make us laugh. He was a good kind hearted man. We will miss his short visits and comical sense of humor. Rest In Peace buddy.
    The Appleman family at the end of his street.

  18. Jean Deluce

    February 2, 2018 at 8:22 AM

    Very sorry to hear about Shane .He will be greatly missed for sure as I can remember he helped me many times clearing the snow from my driveway & was always willing to jump out of his comfortable chair & give me a push when I got stuck in the snow! Water Street won’t be the same without seeing him around. He will be missed by many . I am sorry for your loss Mary & the Dykeman family.

  19. Chris Nunns

    February 1, 2018 at 11:52 PM

    Shane always gave a big wave to me when I would drive by in my service truck. I really got to know him when he would come to the Wednesday night meetings at the church. When he spoke it was always from the heart . Shane would come to the fellowship for a couple months & then I wouldn’t see him for a while, but I admired him because he kept coming back. Addiction is a disease and like other diseases not everyone beats it . But Shane you kept on trying. Rest In Peace my friend .

  20. Hilda and Archie Appelman

    February 1, 2018 at 11:51 PM

    dear Mary-so sorry to hear about Shane- he always looked like he was on a mission of the utmost urgency walking throughout town. He always said hello to me and addressed me by name-he will be missed-take care

  21. Jim cook

    February 1, 2018 at 11:08 PM

    Shane you were a friend to so many people, you had love and admiration for your family and everyone who crossed your path. Your friendship was true and I will miss so much of who you were. It was always fun to fish with you Shane, and you caught many. Our sad hearts are with you Mary, and all of the Dykman family
    The Cooks

  22. Joanne and Dave Walzack

    February 1, 2018 at 9:59 PM

    Mary, Marg and family.
    We are so sorry to hear of Shane’s passing. I will miss seeing him around town and having him as a neighbour.

  23. Jeff & Laurie Nevin

    February 1, 2018 at 9:50 PM

    The Dykeman Family.

    Shane was a good soul. It was unfortunate he had to confront those struggles in life as some of us do. I will miss Shane’s smile and stories. Always left him feeling a little better about my day. I am sure Shane was greeted by an angel.

  24. Jeff & Teresa Young

    February 1, 2018 at 9:47 PM

    Mary and family so sorry to hear of Shanes passing Hard to believe so much time has passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all

  25. Michael Keyes

    February 1, 2018 at 9:28 PM

    I’m so sorry to hear of Shane’s passing . I lived on water street in Lucan for a long time and Shane was a fixture in the neighbourhood , he was always ready and willing to lend a hand or to sit a relax with a cold beer . I’m sure he’s finally at peace and sitting on the shore of his favorite lake , taking in the beauty of gods grace . Miss you bud , see you in the here after

  26. Juergens Family

    February 1, 2018 at 8:14 PM

    Many years and fond memories for our Water Street families. We are so sorry to hear the news but will keep our memories close and send our love and support to Mary, Shannon, Derek, Marjorie and Dalton and the extended family. Love, the Juergens family

  27. Matt & Amanda Regier

    February 1, 2018 at 6:37 PM

    It was with heavy hearts we learned of Shane’s passing.
    He always had a smile and was always eager to share stories about Lucan with me.
    We will truly miss seeing Shane around town and we’ve considered him a friend since moving to Lucan 18 years ago.

    Rest in peace Shane.

  28. Nancy Bieber

    February 1, 2018 at 6:25 PM

    Mary and family
    I am so sorry to hear about Shanes passing. I will miss seeing him in the hall when he’d come over and walk the dog and visit with Mary. Keep all your memories close during this difficult time.

  29. Ron and Dakota (Evans) Rompen

    February 1, 2018 at 5:48 PM

    We are so very sorry for your loss.

  30. Tom Hearn

    February 1, 2018 at 5:30 PM

    I am very sorry to hear of the loss of Shane. He always had a friendly hello for me whenever we met on the street. You have my best wishes and condolences.

  31. Joan and Dave Goddard

    February 1, 2018 at 5:29 PM

    Mary and family
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad and difficult time. Sending hugs to you Mary.

  32. fred and brenda smith

    February 1, 2018 at 4:04 PM

    Mary and Family
    Sorry to hear of Shane’s passing he was always a hard worker helping Fred with garbage or if Fred needed a hand doing anything . He will be missed, hope he is in a happier place now keep the good times close to your hearts .Hugs Mary Love The Smiths

  33. Amanda & Paul Damen

    February 1, 2018 at 3:48 PM

    When I think of Shane I think of someone always willing to lend a helping hand, regardless of what was needed. He was a very hard worker and always had a smile for me when we met. He is at peace now with God. Our thoughts are with you Mary and your family.

  34. Don Lankin

    February 1, 2018 at 3:24 PM

    Don and Dorothy Lankin

    Mary & Family

    So sad to read of Shane’s passing. We have many good memories of Shane on Water Street. Sorry we are unable to attend his funeral service. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

  35. Dayna Maki

    February 1, 2018 at 12:37 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Even tho I had only met him a few times, I am thankful for Shane because he brought one of my favourite people into this world. Sending love and strength to your entire family today. ~ <3 Dayna

  36. Anne Giesen and family

    February 1, 2018 at 12:04 PM

    Mary and Family,

    You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. We were very saddened to hear of your loss. Our deepest condolences to you.

    Anne Giesen and Family

  37. Doug Hotson

    February 1, 2018 at 11:58 AM

    What I remember most about Shane is work ethic. Working with Shane and Paul as a teenager is part of what help define for me what working hard (and having fun) looks like. At 2:00am while I was struggling to even be awake – Shane was constantly at full speed. Shane just made the work go easier and through his example made me work harder. I’m praying for you Mary…my deepest condolences and sympathies.
    Doug and Tara Hotson

  38. Frank Giesen

    February 1, 2018 at 10:50 AM

    So many great memories with Shane. May you have peace in the arms of our Lord. We will sadly miss you buddy. Be strong Mary. We love you.
    Frank & Lisa Giesen

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