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DYKEMAN: Paul “Dyke” of Lucan

January 13, 2016 By Haskett Funeral Homes 60 Condolences

DYKEMAN: Paul “Dyke” of Lucan

At South Huron Hospital, Exeter on Tuesday, January 12, 2016, of Lucan in his 81st year. Beloved husband of Mary Dykeman. Dear father of Shannon and Paul Wheeler of London, Derek and Robin Dykeman of Francis Lake, Shane Dykeman of Lucan, Marj and Brad Cowan of London and Dalton and Jody Dykeman of Milgrove. Missed by his canine companion Sassy. Dear “Papa” of Gord and Chris; Daniel, Lisa, Ryan, and Nicole; Andrea; Shawn and Cayley; and Jessica; and 7 great-grandchildren. Dear brother and brother-in-law of Jane Dearing of Exeter, Roy Dykeman of Lucan, Ruthanne and Don McIntyre of Denfield, Lynda Hokansson of Stratford, Bruce Dykeman and Caren of Carlisle, Gwen Dykeman of Lucan, Emily and Wes Brown of Hyde Park, Dave and Lois Dykeman of Denfield; and remembered by several nieces and nephews. Predeceased by a granddaughter Sonja (1983) and a brother Les (2002).

Friends may gather on Saturday, January 16th at 1:30 PM for a 2 PM combined Lion’s Service, Memorial Service and Celebration of Paul’s life at the Lucan Memorial Community Centre, 263 Main Street. Cremation has taken place. Paul’s final resting place will be in his favourite spot, Matachewan.

Donations to the Sunshine Foundation or South Huron Hospital Foundation would be appreciated by the family.

 

DYKEMAN: Paul “Dyke” of Lucan

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  1. Marjorie & Brad Cowan, on behalf of the Dykeman Clan

    January 17, 2016 at 1:21 PM

    We would like to thank everyone for their support, kindness, condolences and attendance in both body and spirit. Thank you to Haskett Funeral Homes; Colin wore many hats well. Thank you to Pastors Brad and Daryl. Sincere thanks to the Lucan Lions Club for the special Remembrance Service, and to the many neighbours and friends from Lucan and area. Lastly, a special thank you to the extended family for their incredible love and support.
    Salt of the Earth !

  2. Pete and Paula Sereda

    January 17, 2016 at 1:10 PM

    Dykeman family,
    So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
    Pete and Paula Sereda

  3. Leo and Sharon Medd

    January 17, 2016 at 7:39 AM

    Mary and family, our sincere condolences for you loss, Paul touched many hearts, with endless work on the car draws for the kids, our thoughts and prayers to you all.

  4. Janet Bumstead (Goddard)

    January 16, 2016 at 3:21 PM

    Mary and Family,

    My sincere condolences on Paul’s passing. He has certainly left a legacy in Lucan… he was an inspiration to all with his commitment to everything he was involved in.

    As Arena Manager, he greeted us many an early morning for a lot of years when my daughter’s Precision team had their morning skating practices.

    Lucan Fair days bring back great memories as well – life on Water Street would pick up in those days when Paul was involved with the fair.

    May your memories help you move forward in the days to come …

  5. Bobbye VanPraet

    January 16, 2016 at 1:38 PM

    Sorry to hear of Pauls Passing, he will be missed by many

  6. Earl and Marilyn Miller

    January 16, 2016 at 9:21 AM

    To the Dykeman families,
    Our deepest sympathy to you in the passing of Paul. We know he will be greatly missed. I, Earl, have fond memories of various members of your family when attending Zion School many years ago.

  7. Ken Whiting & Jackie Arnold

    January 16, 2016 at 8:51 AM

    We are so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He did so much for the community. He will be sorely missed. Your family are in our prayers.

  8. Steve and. Kim. Bowman

    January 15, 2016 at 9:07 PM

    Ruthann and Don

    Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your brother.

  9. Guido & Carol Coolman

    January 15, 2016 at 7:15 PM

    We were saddened to hear of your loss. We wish the Dykeman family sympathy and comfort during this time.

  10. Jessica Campbell

    January 15, 2016 at 6:43 PM

    Mary, you’re in our thoughts and prayers…try to get some rest!
    All our love to you and your family!

  11. Don and Diane Williams

    January 15, 2016 at 6:13 PM

    Mary and Family, We were so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. We know he will truly be missed by you and your entire Family as well as a great many Friends and Neighbours who knew him so well. Our condolences to your entire family during this difficult time

    Don and Diane Williams

  12. Carole Nunns

    January 15, 2016 at 6:00 PM

    Mary, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. carole Nunns

  13. Maryellen

    January 15, 2016 at 5:57 PM

    My dearest Mary and family, my heart felt condolences and prayers are with you at this time of loss. May our Lord wrap His arms around you and give you comfort.
    Maryellen

  14. Lorraine & John Armitage

    January 15, 2016 at 4:45 PM

    Dear Mary and Family,
    Paul will be greatly missed by you and your family and the residents of Lucan…He was always there for everyone ..we are sorry to hear of his passing.. he is now at peace and no more pain & suffering ..

    We will think of him when we see The Lions car for sale..he was so faithful to sell those tickets..

    Our Thoughts and Prayers are with all of you at this sad & difficult time..God be with you & give you His peace !

    Lorraine & John Armitage

  15. Judy & Harry Bond

    January 15, 2016 at 2:26 PM

    Mary, Harry and I will never see a Lions Club car raffle that we won’t think of Paul. He was always there with a smile. Emily, we are so sorry for your loss of a brother.
    Harry & Judy Bond

  16. Jean Deluce

    January 15, 2016 at 1:48 PM

    Sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. I would like to give my condolence to the Dykeman family. He will be missed by the community and also as a wonderful neighbour .

  17. Amanda and Paul Damen and family

    January 15, 2016 at 12:43 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Mary and your family at this time. At least we know that Paul is now pain free and at peace. We are sorry we could not be there in person to help celebrate the life of such a great person who has always been a phone call away if I needed him.

  18. Kathy, Kasie and Kyle DaSilva

    January 15, 2016 at 12:41 PM

    To the Dykeman Family

    So sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

  19. Gord "Skip"

    January 15, 2016 at 12:25 PM

    My Poppa My Hero!
    I just want you to know i am who i am because of you. You taught me how to be a man ,a hard worker,a father,a husband.I will forever cherish the memories i had with you from riding around with you at a very young age doing sales calls to working on the farm and our many trips to the cottage as well as other fishing trips or just sitting at the house playing cards or games.You are truly one of the kindest most generous people that has graced this earth,you have touched many lives in many ways in your time here whether it be family,friends,animals or strangers you always had time. You have to be the strongest man i know as we all saw as you fought this terrible illness.I know your at peace now and i know you will watch over all of us, there won’t be a single day go by that i wont think about you i already miss you so much! The only person as strong and kind as you is the women you loved more then life itself your beautiful wife Mary and my Nana i want you to know we will take care of her for you don’t worry .Poppa thank you for everything you shared and gave, your heart is huge if the world had more Paul Dykemans in it we sure would all be better off!!! Poppa it pains me to say goodbye to you but i know you will be there everyday so i will say fairwell for now until we are together again one day Poppa thank you i love you and may you rest in peace

    Love forever and always
    your Grandson Skip

  20. James S McCann

    January 15, 2016 at 7:22 AM

    Saddened to hear of your passing, but would like to say thank for your guidance and compassion in that moment of my life! I’d like to say you were always fair and reasonable with me, and respect was mutual. If it had not been for you Marys care and concern, i would not be where i am today! You were a good man. Have a safe and wonderful journey, my friend! My condolences to all your family. JSMc.

  21. Dan and Carol Sloetjes and family

    January 14, 2016 at 11:17 PM

    Sad for your loss and pray the blessing of GODs peace and love surround your family as you celebrate and cherish all the memories.

  22. brenda & fred smith

    January 14, 2016 at 11:00 PM

    sorry to hear about Paul he will be missed by everyone he did so much for Lucan Mary my heart goes out to you ,he was a great man .to the family so sorry for your loss .love the smiths

  23. Tom & Mary Ann McLaughlin

    January 14, 2016 at 9:54 PM

    Dear Mary and family, we were saddened by the news of Paul’s passing. He was a very dedicated husband, father and friend. He served the community of Lucan-Biddulph for years and he will be greatly missed by many. Know that our prayers and thoughts are with all of you during this very difficult time.

  24. Rose & Keith Brittain

    January 14, 2016 at 9:04 PM

    To the Dykeman family our condolences to the Dykeman family hoping your memories will help you through this very sad time.

  25. Teresa & Jeff Young

    January 14, 2016 at 8:14 PM

    Mary and Family we are sorry to hear of Pauls passing. He was a fixture in Lucan for many years and a memorable character to be sure. he will be missed by all who knew him, our thoughts go out to you at this time

  26. David & Bonnie Hotson

    January 14, 2016 at 6:31 PM

    A kind and gentle soul is now at peace. Paul was one of the truly great men in life that will be sorely missed by many. our love and prayers are with you Mary and family.

  27. Ralph Needham. Joan Robson

    January 14, 2016 at 5:10 PM

    Our thoughts are with you…especially Mary and Ruth Ann.

  28. nancy hotson

    January 14, 2016 at 5:02 PM

    Sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. My thoughts are with you at this time as you say goodbye to your loved one.

  29. Donna & Pete Shipley

    January 14, 2016 at 3:35 PM

    Mary,her family and best friends.He prepared many Mansions, he finally prepared Paul’s,He is with many others who gave selfless to his family and to the town of Lucan,God bless.DS.

  30. The Smyth family

    January 14, 2016 at 3:24 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this difficult time.

  31. Yvonne Elliott

    January 14, 2016 at 1:41 PM

    To all the Dykeman Family
    My deepest sympathy at your loss of Paul. May you find comfort knowing others care and treasure our memories.
    Thinking of you at this time.
    Sincerely, Yvonne (Jaques) Elliott

  32. Laura Smith

    January 14, 2016 at 12:44 PM

    Thoughts and prayers go out to all of Paul’s loved ones at this diffucult time.

  33. jim Handy

    January 14, 2016 at 12:28 PM

    I would to give my condences to Mary and her family sorry for your loss

  34. Tom Hearn

    January 14, 2016 at 12:09 PM

    My sincere sympathy to the Dykeman family. Paul certainly contributed a lot to the betterment of Lucan. He will be missed.

  35. Max Appleman & Family

    January 14, 2016 at 11:53 AM

    Our deepest condolences. Paul has always held a special place in my heart. He helped us out when we needed it most probably 23 years ago. He taught us the gift of compassion and caring and most of all how to pay it forward and be caring to others. Made me a better man and for that I will never forget. Thankyou Paul Rest in Peace

  36. Frank And Lisa Giesen

    January 14, 2016 at 10:43 AM

    Paul was like a second father to me. God bless you Paul and Mary, Shane and the rest of the family. You are all in our prayers.

  37. Doug and Denise Marshall

    January 14, 2016 at 10:41 AM

    sorry for your loss

  38. Jeff & Laurie Nevin

    January 14, 2016 at 10:29 AM

    Paul will be missed by many. He was an important figure in the Lucan community. May God comfort you.

  39. The Juergens Family

    January 14, 2016 at 10:18 AM

    Dear Mary, Shannon, Derek, Shane, Marjorie and Dalton:

    Our entire family sends our sincere condolences on Paul’s passing. Although it was so many years ago that we lived across the street, it doesn’t lessen the sadness we feel today and in days to come. Please know we are thinking about you all at this difficult time and send our thoughts and prayers your way!

  40. Margaret Brintnell

    January 14, 2016 at 9:21 AM

    To All Paul’s family
    I extend my sincere sympathy to all of you. I worked with Jud for many years at ODC. So I knew some of the family. It is never
    easy to loose a loved one.
    Margaret Brintnell

  41. Don and Dorothy Leitch

    January 14, 2016 at 8:55 AM

    We are saddened to hear of Paul’s passing. He has been a great active member of our community and a long time neighbour. He will be sorely missed by many. Mary, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers ( carry his smile in your heart )

  42. Joan & Dave Goddard

    January 14, 2016 at 8:53 AM

    Mary and Family
    We were very sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He was a great person and did a lot for our community. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad and difficult time.

  43. Dianne Gerstenkorn Weber

    January 14, 2016 at 8:40 AM

    Dave & Lois. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Remember Paul will always walk beside you, unheard, and unseen. Dianne

  44. Leon and Helen Coolman

    January 14, 2016 at 8:38 AM

    To the Dykeman Family – Leon and I pass our condolences to you all, especially to Mary. We know that Paul put on a courageous battle. Your memories will help guide you through this difficult time.

  45. Leslie McEathron

    January 14, 2016 at 8:17 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are for you at this time.
    Leslie
    (Friend to Brad and Marj Cowan)

  46. Brian & Anne Jones

    January 14, 2016 at 8:09 AM

    Dear Mary: We are saddened by the news that Paul has passed away. We will always remember the great times we had together in the Lions Club and the many Lucan Fairs we worked together. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May Paul rest in peace. With love, Brian & Anne.

  47. Dave & Nancy Preston and family

    January 14, 2016 at 6:59 AM

    Dave & Lois, Emily & Wes and Families

    So sorry to hear of the passing of your brother. We will be thinking of you all in the coming days. Great memories will bring you comfort..

  48. Pete & Pat Van Geleuken

    January 14, 2016 at 5:24 AM

    So very sad to hear of Paul’s passing.
    Paul touched my life (Pat) when I was a volunteer for Sunshine Foundation and when he told me his very personal reason why the Lucan Lions were so generous in their donations to this organization. One of my treasured memories was when Paul and I delivered a Sunshine dream to a young woman recovering from cancer: her first year of college tuition. Paul was truly a kind man & a great & dedicated Lion’s club member.
    Please accept our deepest condolences to Mary & the Dykeman family.

  49. Pam Gibbs

    January 14, 2016 at 3:32 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time.

  50. Art Hodgins

    January 13, 2016 at 9:56 PM

    My love and prayers are with you all he was a great man friend and neighbor will be missed

  51. Bob & Wanda Reynolds

    January 13, 2016 at 9:14 PM

    To The Dykeman Family

    Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow.

    Bob and Wanda Reynolds

  52. Nancy Bieber

    January 13, 2016 at 7:52 PM

    I am so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. All the wonderful memories you have of him will help you through this difficult time.

  53. Frank and Dianne Dietrich

    January 13, 2016 at 7:21 PM

    Our deepest sympathy to the Dykeman family, Paul was a very generous and kind man and an inspiration to many people in Lucan, he inspired everyone to volunteer and take pride in their community, Our condolences Frank and Dianne Dietrich

  54. Gord Moon

    January 13, 2016 at 6:02 PM

    My condolences to Mary, Derek and the whole Dykeman clan. I have many memories of fishing and hunting trips that I was lucky enough to be included in due to Paul’s generosity. I think in my early teens I spent as much time in Paul and Mary’s home as I did my own and those years are a part of who I am today.
    Our thoughts are with you all.

    Gord and Brenda Moon

  55. Scott Dickson

    January 13, 2016 at 5:33 PM

    Mary, Shannon, Derek, Shane, Marj and Dalton:

    Words cannot express the sorrow of learning of Pauls passing. HE had a style all his own, and will be sorely missed. Remember the good times, they will see you through. I have so many good memories, I’ll never run out.

  56. Tracy Harrison

    January 13, 2016 at 5:24 PM

    Marjorie and family, truly sorry to hear of your dads passing. I know you will celebrate and cherish your memories.
    You are in my thoughts
    Share your laughter Marj!

  57. Keith and Kathy McFarland

    January 13, 2016 at 4:52 PM

    are thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  58. Dave & Joanne Walzack

    January 13, 2016 at 4:35 PM

    Mary and your family.

    I am so sorry to read of Paul’s passing. Paul was very well known and will be missed by many. Goodbye neighbor. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone.

  59. Brenda Feeney ( Gaynor)

    January 13, 2016 at 3:41 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mary and the family.

  60. Tim & Joyce Blackburn

    January 13, 2016 at 3:28 PM

    We are very saddened to hear that Paul has passed away. Paul will be greatly missed. Paul was the very first person to welcome me into the Lucan District Lions Club. He was also one of my Zone Chairs during my year as Governor. I will miss his friendship dearly. He taught us so much mainly that we exist to help others. Our condolences to you Mary and your family. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    Tim & Joyce Blackburn

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