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DETTMER: Steven James of Exeter

August 30, 2018 By Haskett Funeral Homes 52 Condolences

DETTMER: Steven James of Exeter

Steven James Dettmer in his 65th year passed away in his home in Exeter on Monday, August 27, 2018.  He is survived by his daughter Sara Jane Haines, his son Steven Jacob Haines and his granddaughter Isabella Haines all of Owen Sound.  Also survived by his sisters Joan (Peter) Karstens of St. Joseph, Jane (Sam) Brady of Centralia, his brother David ‘String’ Dettmer of Centralia, his nephew Anthony (Jennifer) Humphreys, and great nieces Avigail and Adelaide of Etobicoke. 

A celebration of Steve’s life will be held at the Exeter Legion, 316 William Street, Exeter, on Saturday, September 15 at 1 PM, service will begin at 2 PM.  A private family interment at the Exeter Cemetery will be held at a later date.  Haskett Funeral Homes, Exeter (519-235-1220) entrusted with arrangements. 

Donations to the Heart and Stroke Foundation, the R.C.L. – R.E. Pooley – Branch #167 (Exeter Legion), or St. Joseph’s Health Care Foundation – Operational Stress Injury Clinic (For individuals struggling with PTSD) would be appreciated by the family. 

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  1. Carol Windsor(Eric Campbell Ford)

    September 17, 2018 at 11:04 AM

    Joan & Peter
    So very sorry to hear of your brother’s passing. Extending my sympathies to your entire family at this difficult time.
    Please know you are in my thoughts.

  2. Penny Preszcator

    September 14, 2018 at 12:57 PM

    My condolences to Steve’s family. May your good memories sustain you all through this sad time.

    Penny Preszcator

  3. Louise Giffin

    September 14, 2018 at 7:07 AM

    To Dave and all his family. I am sorry to hear of Steve’s passing.
    My sincere condolences at this difficult time of your loss.
    Louise Giffin

  4. Mark Jeffery

    September 12, 2018 at 12:45 PM

    To all of Steve’s family .
    Steve and i had many fishing trips down the Saugeen river back when Steve moved to the Hanover area back in the
    mid eighty’s. He enjoyed getting out in nature and relaxing with all its surroundings. He will be missed.
    Mark and Sheila Jeffery . Hanover.

  5. Donna Perry

    September 11, 2018 at 4:27 PM

    To the Dettmer family – So sorry for your loss. The pictures are wonderful and you will be able to remember all the happy times. With deepest sympathy.
    Donna Perry

  6. Gary and Kathy Simpson

    September 10, 2018 at 2:57 PM

    To String and all of Steve’s family. We were so sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. He was always sitting at his table with a big smile waiting on his meal to be delivered. Lots of good conversations and laughs.

  7. Brenda&Doug Wood

    September 7, 2018 at 6:27 PM

    Jane&Sam, Joan&Peter, and David, please accept our condolences at the loss of Steve. Please try to take some comfort from knowing he is at peace. Our hearts are with you at this difficult time.

  8. Bob & Marleen .Hodge

    September 6, 2018 at 3:42 PM

    To Dave and family our sincere condolences.

  9. Norm and Kay Tripp

    September 6, 2018 at 11:21 AM

    To the Dettmer Family…We offer our condolences at this difficult time of your loss..Norm and Kay

  10. Inge Mowat

    September 6, 2018 at 6:43 AM

    To all of Steve’s family
    Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your brother, Steve. The beautiful pictorial tribute that you assembled suggests that you will all have wonderful memories to comfort you in the days ahead. Although he has left you physically, he will always be with you in spirit. Remember him with love.

  11. Dave Frayne

    September 6, 2018 at 6:06 AM

    To Joan, Jane, Dave and families:
    Sorry to learn of Steve’s passing. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

    Dave Frayne

  12. Christine & George Schiestel

    September 5, 2018 at 11:06 PM

    Dear “Dettmer” Cousins,
    Since hearing the news about Steve I have been reminiscing fondly of our times spent together, especially those wonderful times we had as children. The car rallies, impromptu visits and the Dettmer “goodbye” have come to mind.
    A man named Marcel Proust once wrote “memories nourish the heart, and grief abates.” I hope this will be true for all of you – Joan, Peter, Jane, Sam and Dave.
    Love, Christine & George

  13. Richard & Wendy Jennison

    September 5, 2018 at 9:34 PM

    Very sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers to all.

  14. Donna O 'Brien

    September 5, 2018 at 11:05 AM

    Dear Joan and Peter,my special tho’ts are with you during this sad time .

  15. Karen Heather

    September 4, 2018 at 10:38 AM

    Jane, Sam, String and family,

    My heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of your brother. Cherish the memories. Thinking of you during this very difficult time. Hugs!

    Karen

  16. Gary Bryant

    September 3, 2018 at 10:36 PM

    My condolences to Jane and family.

  17. Anna Marie Cook

    September 3, 2018 at 9:38 PM

    So sorry to hear about your loss. We will miss our chats with Steve when we met on our walks.
    Casey and Anna Marie Cook

  18. Sheila Stevenson

    September 3, 2018 at 2:16 PM

    Jane and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Know that I will hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.

  19. Beth Cook

    September 3, 2018 at 12:11 PM

    Wonderful photos of Steve’s life. I so enjoyed looking at them.
    My deepest sympathies to you all.

  20. Harold and Sharon Chappel

    September 3, 2018 at 11:16 AM

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Our condolences to all his family.
    Harold and Sharon Chappel

  21. Katharine McEwen

    September 3, 2018 at 10:20 AM

    To Jane, Joan and Dave and the rest of the family. I’m very sorry to hear of the passing of Steve. My thoughts are with you at this time.

  22. Bill and Norma Exley

    September 3, 2018 at 10:14 AM

    Dear Joan and family,

    Sorry to hear about your brother. We met him once at Brentwood. We miss you and would love to meet up with you for coffee and a chat. Thinking of you at this sad time.

    Love from Bill, Norma, and girls.

  23. Laura Dixon

    September 3, 2018 at 10:13 AM

    Our thoughts and sympathy are with you Joan, Jane , Dave and families
    Don and Laura Dixon

  24. Vera Armstrong

    September 2, 2018 at 6:40 PM

    Jane, Joan and Dave, Thinking of you with sympathy
    Steve is at rest now, Vera Armstrong

  25. Jen. Arter

    September 1, 2018 at 4:56 PM

    Joan, Jane and David and your families,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Steve’s passing will leave a hole in your lives. My thoughts are with you.
    Jen and Ken

  26. Natalie Lockie

    September 1, 2018 at 4:31 PM

    My sincerest condolences, I will miss our chats at the mail box.

  27. Fran Ritchie

    September 1, 2018 at 1:08 PM

    To the family very sorry for your loss.

  28. Penny Douglas

    September 1, 2018 at 1:00 PM

    Happy memories of my cousin, Steven. You will always be in my heart. I am thinking of Joan, Jane and David at this very sad time.

  29. Dave and Karen (McArthur) Hill

    September 1, 2018 at 12:43 PM

    Dave(String) Joan and Jane
    We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Your brother Steve. Our sympathy to you at this sad time.

  30. Brenda Rooseboom

    September 1, 2018 at 11:42 AM

    String, sending my condolences. Hugs

  31. George and Sue Wilson

    September 1, 2018 at 9:24 AM

    Jane and Sam, Joan and Peter, Dave and Steven’s family, We are very sorry to hear of Steven’s passing. Cherish your wonderful memories. May you find peace and comfort from your childhood memories, and your family and friends. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson

  32. Vera Armstrong

    September 1, 2018 at 8:21 AM

    Jane, Joan and Dave; Thinking of you with sympathy at this sad time
    Vera

  33. Glen Cockwill

    September 1, 2018 at 8:12 AM

    Our deepest sympathy. Sorry to hear of your loss.

  34. Kim Pinder

    September 1, 2018 at 8:04 AM

    Dear Joan and Peter
    Very sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. I got to know him while delivering meals. He was always very friendly and appreciative. Thinking of you

  35. Bonnie & Larry Gould

    September 1, 2018 at 2:39 AM

    To Steve’s loved ones,sorry for your loss.

  36. Ron & Glenda Lindenfield

    August 31, 2018 at 9:05 PM

    Joan, Jane, David

    Our sincere condolences, to young very sad…….

  37. Pat and Heather Joynt

    August 31, 2018 at 8:30 PM

    Our condolences to all at this difficult time. Pat enjoyed working with Steve at Tuckey Beverages, many moons ago.

  38. Pam Sittler

    August 31, 2018 at 8:00 PM

    Thinking of you cousins. See you Saturday.

  39. Bob and Helen Coates

    August 31, 2018 at 7:44 PM

    Our sympathy to Joan Jane and Dave. We are sorry for your loss. He was always so friendly and had a warm smile. Bob and Helen

  40. tammy sarrazin

    August 31, 2018 at 7:07 PM

    im so sorry for the loss you all have had ……… im having a hard time with him being gone hugssssssss to all family and friends his last few years have been mixed of great and sad but the best was the great ………im going to miss him but i have great memories from the years of knowing him rip steve i luv buddy

  41. Yvonne/ Jim Barnetson

    August 31, 2018 at 7:05 PM

    Our thoughts and prayers are with Joan,Jane ,Dave and family..
    RIP Steven.
    From Yvonne (Fisher) Barnetson and Jim Barnetson

  42. John and Sandy Ulch

    August 31, 2018 at 5:54 PM

    String

    We are sorry to hear your brother Steve has passed away. Sincere sympathy to you and your family.

    John and Sandy

  43. Margaret Brintnell

    August 31, 2018 at 4:46 PM

    Dave, Jane, Joan and all the family
    Our condolences at this sad time. We are thinking of you all.
    Margaret Brintnell & Brad Wright

  44. Sue Riley

    August 31, 2018 at 8:37 AM

    String……..thoughts and prayers go out to you and family during this difficult time.

  45. Judy Hayward

    August 30, 2018 at 10:25 PM

    Dear Dave, Jane,and Joan,
    So very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you folks at this sad time. Most sincerely, Judy (Jory) and Dan Hayward

  46. Jacqui & Charlie Regier

    August 30, 2018 at 9:34 PM

    Dear Joan , Jane and String ,so sorry to hear about the passing of your brother , you and your families are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Jacqui & Charlie Regier

  47. Tom and Carol Arthur

    August 30, 2018 at 9:26 PM

    Joan, Jane and Dave
    Our sincere sympathy is extended to all of you during this difficult time.

  48. Doug and Joyce McBeath

    August 30, 2018 at 8:41 PM

    Our sympathy to Joan and Peter. We are sorry for your loss

  49. Michael Higgins

    August 30, 2018 at 7:19 PM

    Steve was a good man. It seems so long ago we grew up together in Exeter and had many good times together. RIP my friend, till we meet again! Mike

  50. Elaine and Jim Tomlinson

    August 30, 2018 at 5:36 PM

    To Jane, Joan, David and Steve’s family, please know you have our heartfelt condolences.

  51. Karen Jones

    August 30, 2018 at 4:58 PM

    My condolence to Steve family. He will be miss.

  52. Jeff and Martha O'Brien

    August 30, 2018 at 4:16 PM

    Joan and Peter,
    Sorry to hear of your recent loss.
    Jeff and Martha O’Brien

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