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COOPER: Kathryn “Kay” (McNicol) of Exeter

November 3, 2019 By Haskett Funeral Homes 78 Condolences

COOPER: Kathryn “Kay” (McNicol) of Exeter

Peacefully at the Exeter Villa on Saturday, November 2, 2019 of Exeter, at the age of 98. Beloved wife of the late Ray Cooper (2001). Cherished mother of Pat and Jim Scott of Exeter, Gerry and Kathy Cooper of Egmondville, Donnie and Joanne Cooper of Exeter, John Cooper and his friend Janet Foster of Tillsonburg, and Dave and Deb Cooper of Varna. Adored grandma of 11 grandchildren, 11 great-grandchildren, and 2 great great-grandchildren. Dear sister-in-law of Jackie McNicol of London, and Doris McNicol of St. Marys.

A private family memorial service will be held. Haskett Funeral Home, Exeter entrusted with arrangements (519-235-1220). Cremation with interment Exeter Cemetery.

Donations to Exeter Villa or Alzheimer Society would be appreciated by the family.

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  1. DIANE EDWARDS ANGER

    January 28, 2020 at 4:48 PM

    So sorry to hear about your Mom. She and your Dad had been a great part of my family for a number of years while my Dad and Mom lived in Exeter and again after Dad was gone, and Mom moved back to Exeter. Great laughs, lots of music, that is what I remember from when I was a child. And your Mom’s smile and determination will always be recalled.

  2. Gerald, Cathy Morley & Family

    November 17, 2019 at 8:37 AM

    To The Cooper Family: Please know were thinking about all of you at this time. Your Mother was a very special person who left behind a lot of WONDERFUL memories for you to enjoy.

  3. George and Sue Wilson

    November 16, 2019 at 6:27 PM

    Pat, Jim and family, the Cooper family, you have our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mom and Grandma. Kay was a wonderful lady. Very friendly and kind. Cherish your precious memories. Hugs and prayers, George and Sue Wilson

  4. Dennis & Joan Duncan

    November 13, 2019 at 8:15 AM

    Sorry to read of the passing of your mother. She, and Ray, were very special friends of Mom & Dad.

    Our sympathy to all your families in her passing.

  5. Judy Nyilas

    November 10, 2019 at 2:17 PM

    We Campbell cousins will always have fond memories of Auntie Kay. She was so kind, fun-loving and always had a big smile on her face. A genuinely sweet and caring person….our condolences to all of you on her passing.

    Love, Linda, Diane and Judy

  6. Elaine Ford

    November 8, 2019 at 12:03 PM

    Dear Pat and families, my sincere condolence in the passing of Kay. The lady that always had a SMILE. It was great fun helping and being with her in her home. She will be missed. ????

  7. Jim & Verla Russell

    November 7, 2019 at 7:37 PM

    To the Cooper Family:
    Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother Kay.
    Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time.

  8. Yvonne/ Jim Barnetson

    November 7, 2019 at 7:29 PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with all the Cooper family.
    Kay was a wonderful lady inside and out.
    RIP Kay. ????????
    I am sure all of you have wonderful memories!

  9. John and Mary Ann Harness

    November 7, 2019 at 9:40 AM

    Our sincere condolences to Donny Ray and the whole Cooper family on the passing of your mom.

  10. Connie & Bill Devereaux

    November 7, 2019 at 8:39 AM

    Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you at this sad time.

  11. Pete and Gloria McFalls

    November 7, 2019 at 7:53 AM

    Sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. What a great, long life she had.

    Peter and Gloria McFalls

  12. Evelyn Vincent

    November 6, 2019 at 12:42 PM

    Sincere sympathy. Loosing a mother is not easy. Wishing you peace and comfort.

  13. Jim and Marilyn Skinner

    November 6, 2019 at 10:58 AM

    Thinking of you during this sad time, in the loss of your Mother!

  14. Brenda Murray

    November 6, 2019 at 10:50 AM

    To the Cooper Family
    I am sorry to hear of Kay’s passing. I have many memories of kind neighbours in Kay and Ray. They would always let me come into their home and listen to CCR, “doo doo doo lookin’ out my door”. As Mom reminded me, they always called me “Brenda Lee”. She was a very kind and great lady.

    Brenda (Thompson) Murray

  15. Michel and Lucianne Abouatallah

    November 6, 2019 at 9:41 AM

    Lucianne and I are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Auntie Kay.
    Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
    Michel and Lucianne

  16. Jackie and Steve McNicol

    November 6, 2019 at 9:33 AM

    Steve and I are very sorry to hear of Kay’s passing.
    She will be missed dearly.
    Our deepest sympathies to the family
    Jackie and Steve McNicol

  17. BRIAN TAYLOR

    November 6, 2019 at 9:04 AM

    To the Cooper Family
    We will always remember Kay as one one of the happiest and kindist people to have touched our life’s,we will all cherish her memories .R.I.P.

    Brian Taylor and Heather Dougherty

  18. Dave Frayne and Cathy Cade

    November 6, 2019 at 8:46 AM

    To Pat, Jim and families:
    Sorry to learn of Kay’s passing. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

  19. Judy Hayward

    November 6, 2019 at 7:38 AM

    As another chapter closes on the McNichol story, we have the most precious memories to cling to. What a sweet lady Auntie Kay was. Her smile, her kindness, just a dear sweet woman. Just imagine the reunion they are all having. As Judy said, the music, the step dancing, the fun and laughter and of course that amazing McNichol spread of food. Those were great times. Auntie was such in important part of all that. A matriarch has passed. We all loved her. As ever, whether near or apart, your cousin Judy (Jory) & Dan Hayward

  20. lori Cook

    November 5, 2019 at 9:17 PM

    Dave and Deb Pat and Jim and family sorry for your loss of your dear mother cherish the moments of the life she had with all of you our prayers are with you Lori and Gerald

  21. Barbara McNicol

    November 5, 2019 at 8:16 PM

    So sorry for your loss,Aunty Kay was a very special lady,John and I will truly miss her. She made everyone feel special.

  22. Doris McNicol

    November 5, 2019 at 4:21 PM

    Sorry for your loss She will be missed dearly

    Doris McNicol

  23. Marsha Taylor

    November 5, 2019 at 3:46 PM

    The residents and staff of the Exeter Villa send their heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

  24. Lloyd and Carol Moore

    November 5, 2019 at 3:39 PM

    Our deepest sympathy to the Cooper family. Since we are in Florida we are unable to pass these on personally!!

    Lloyd and Carol Moore

  25. Gordon & Laura Hoggart

    November 5, 2019 at 1:28 PM

    Our deepest sympathy to the Cooper family on the loss of your mother.

  26. Dan and Janet Coward

    November 5, 2019 at 1:09 PM

    To the Cooper family..we are sorry to hear of the passing of your mom..a lovely lady who raised a great family…hold onto the memories…Rest in peace Kay…

  27. Shirley Barnes

    November 5, 2019 at 12:04 PM

    My Deepest Sympathy to all the Cooper Family.

  28. Judy Damjanov

    November 5, 2019 at 11:43 AM

    Dear cousins Jim and Pat, Gerry and Kathy, Donnie and Joanne, John and Janet, Dave and Deb and families we have many memories of our special Auntie Kay Sunday visits with Mom and Dad, lots of music and fun euchre. Our deepest condolences Judy, Norma and John, Dale, Kelly and Dan, Todd and Karen, Adam and Devon and Riley.
    The next time you hear thunder think of this all of the McNicol siblings are now together step dancing once again,

  29. Theresa Somerville

    November 5, 2019 at 11:40 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you Gerry, Kathy and Derek and the rest of the Cooper family.

  30. Ray and Judy Mills

    November 5, 2019 at 8:33 AM

    To the Cooper Family – Please accept our very deepest sympathy at your loss. I remember Kay because she lived next to our grandmother, Lillian Blair. We would see Kay when we visited with grandma, especially in the spring, summer and autumn months,. She would be outside sweeping, doing some garden work, hanging out clothing or gathering them, supervising one or more of the children, or visiting with grandma. She was a wonderful neighbour and friend. She would always chat with us grandchildren. We missed seeing her after my grandmother passed . She has left a wonderful legacy for her family. God Bless .

  31. Norma Khan/ Judy Damjanov

    November 5, 2019 at 8:14 AM

    Dear Cousins. Pat and Jim, Gerry and Kathy, Donnie and Joanne, John and Janet, Dave and Deb, and families. We have many memories of our special Auntie Kay. Always a smile, a lilt in her laughter, and never an angry word. Weekly Sunday visits with Mom and Dad, lots of music and fun euchre. Our condolences. Judy, Norma and John. Dale, Dan and Kelly, Todd and Karen, Adam, Devon and Riley

  32. Milt & Barb Dietrich

    November 5, 2019 at 8:05 AM

    Pat, Jim & Family; All of Kay’ Family,

    Sincere condolences on Kay’s passing. We remember her spending time with Milt’s Mom, Ada, at the Villa. They enjoyed each other’s company. She was such a gentle lady!
    May memories of happy times together, be comforting to you always.
    Thinking of you at this time.

  33. Glenda Chaput

    November 4, 2019 at 10:43 PM

    Thinking of you at this time , Kay was a special lady to you all ???? cherish the great memories you had with her . We will always remember her beautiful smile and her great sense of humour, she was a special lady . Sincerely, mark and Glenda Chaput

  34. Dan and Janet Coward

    November 4, 2019 at 10:35 PM

    So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom….a lovely lady who will surely be missed by each of you….rest in peace Kay..

  35. Debbie (McNicol) Turner

    November 4, 2019 at 8:19 PM

    My thoughts are with the Cooper and McNicol family during this time.
    I will always cherish my fond memories with this lovely lady. RIP Kay
    Debbie (McNicol) Turner

  36. Karen McLellan

    November 4, 2019 at 7:41 PM

    Pat and Jim, and family,

    Kay was a wonderful Lady I always enjoyed her company and am proud to have known her. I send my sincere sympathy to all.

    Karen McLellan

  37. Kelly Morrison

    November 4, 2019 at 7:34 PM

    Dearest Cousins,
    Auntie Kay was a huge part of our lives for many years. Most every gathering at Gramma and Grampa’s on a Saturday or Sunday she would be there. She was always so happy to be there and always had a beautiful smile and a sparkle in her eye. She was a regular at the family dinners, and if there was an occasion she wasn’t there, she was missed. (We would all ask upon our arrivals” is Auntie Kay coming?”..)
    I know having her there made Gramma and Grampa happy too. She was good company for them . She always asked how we were doing, how our work was etc. She was a real Gem and we were blessed to have had such a wonderful Auntie in our lives…Many many memories that we will forever hold in our hearts. Sending hearfelt condolences and warm hugs to all of you.xo
    Rest in Peace Auntie Kay. ❤️
    Kelly and Dan Morrison

  38. Kim Mckay

    November 4, 2019 at 5:42 PM

    Pat and Jim and family my deepest condolences in the loss of your mom, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

  39. Marg Prout

    November 4, 2019 at 5:18 PM

    Sincere sympathy to all the Cooper family.

  40. Lynne Dobson

    November 4, 2019 at 5:07 PM

    Dear Pat, Jim, Paul, Doug & Vicki,
    My sincere condolences on the passing of your Mom and Grandma. Thinking of you all.

    Lynne

  41. Margaret A. Brintnell

    November 4, 2019 at 4:14 PM

    Donnie, Joanne & All the Cooper Family.
    I extend my sympathy to all of you on the loss of your precious mother. Enjoy all your memories. When you look at her picture you see so much kindness.
    Margaret Brintnell

  42. Sherri masschelein

    November 4, 2019 at 3:49 PM

    To the Cooper family, so sorry to hear of the passing of Aunt Kay. I will always remember her kindness & big smile. May she Rest In Peace now❤️
    Brian & Sherri(Harkness)Masschelein

  43. Carolyn Rose

    November 4, 2019 at 3:20 PM

    My sincere condolences to the Cooper Family; Another beautiful angel with the most beautiful smile will be shining down on all you. Kay and I shared a very special friendship that started with being her support worker while she was in her home and continued into the retirement home. Upon her moving to the long term care side I continued to visit with and she always could light up a room with her smile and even enjoyed dancing with her and Santa. RIP dear Kay

  44. Barry and Brenna Vincent

    November 4, 2019 at 3:04 PM

    We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our sincere condolences to the entire Cooper family.

  45. Joan Martin

    November 4, 2019 at 2:40 PM

    John and Janet,
    Sorry for you loss. Thinking of you

  46. NormaKhan, Judy Damjanov and families

    November 4, 2019 at 1:47 PM

    Dear Cousins; Pat and Jim, Gerry and Kathy, Donnie and Joanne, John and Janet, Dave and Deb.
    Auntie Kay was so special to us all. Always a smile, a lilt in her laugh, a beautiful lady, never an angry word. Many memories of Sunday visits, lots of music and fun euchre. We have been blessed knowing her. Our condolences. Norma and Judy, John, Dale, Kelly and Dan, Todd and Karen, Adam, Devon and Riley.

  47. Tom Hartai

    November 4, 2019 at 1:08 PM

    Dear Pat ,Paul Jim and family.
    Please accept all my deepest condolences at this time.
    Celebrate Gramma Cooper’s long beautiful life. You are all so blessed to have her with into her late 90’s .
    Heartfelt sympathies to you all.
    Tom Hartai

  48. Ron and Marlene Moore

    November 4, 2019 at 12:46 PM

    Our Sympathy to all the Cooper Family , We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers Your Long time Friends Ron and Mar

  49. Sharon Campbell

    November 4, 2019 at 12:43 PM

    My DEEPESY SYMPATHY TO ALL OF YOU SHE WAS A GREAT LADY

  50. Fran Ritchie

    November 4, 2019 at 11:19 AM

    Rest in peace Kay. I missed her when she left the street. Love to all the family from the Ritchie family

  51. Lawrie Carter

    November 4, 2019 at 11:09 AM

    Pat,Jim and Family,

    Please accept our condolences on the passing of your Mother and Grandmother.

    Lawrie and June.s

  52. Gary &Louise Heywood

    November 4, 2019 at 10:55 AM

    It’s sad to hear another Dear Lady has passed away and please accept our condolences and may she Rest In Peace now that she’s in a much better place

  53. Laurie (Harkness)Franze

    November 4, 2019 at 10:42 AM

    My condolences to the Cooper family, I remember Aunt Kay with her sweet smile, always cheerful and friendly. Laurie (Harkness) Franze

  54. Sandra Harkness

    November 4, 2019 at 10:22 AM

    I’m so sorry to here of Aunt Kay’s passing. I have many fond memories of our family visits. She was a very kind soul. My thoughts are with all of you at this time. Sandra❤️

  55. Ken and Shirley (Heywood ) Simpson

    November 4, 2019 at 9:40 AM

    Our deepest sympathy to Don and Joanne and all the Cooper family. Kay was a special lady, with a beautiful personality. Your in our thoughts at this difficult time.Hugs❤

  56. Dan Heywood

    November 4, 2019 at 9:00 AM

    To the entire Cooper Family Sorry to hear of Kay’s passing. She was a wonderful lady and her and Ray were always good to me in my youth. She lived a long life and touched many people.

  57. Wayne and Cindy Shaddock

    November 4, 2019 at 8:51 AM

    Our deepest condolences to the entire family

  58. Bernice Thompson

    November 4, 2019 at 8:50 AM

    To the Family Of Kay Cooper
    My sincere condolences to all of you.I have many memories of Kay as a great neighbour and we often had many chats and laughs over the years.
    It was a privilege to have known Kay.

  59. Vera Armstrong

    November 4, 2019 at 8:47 AM

    Pat. Jim and family
    Sympathy to the family. Treasure your memories
    Vera

  60. Doug and Judy Dalrymple

    November 4, 2019 at 8:24 AM

    Our deepest condolences to the Cooper family for the loss of your Mother.

  61. Ted & Lois Wilbee

    November 4, 2019 at 8:00 AM

    Although we did not know Mrs, Cooper personally she must have been one special lady to raise such a kind & compassionate son such as Gerry. Kathy always spoke fondly of Mrs, Cooper having such a sweet & unwavering spirit. Knowing your dear Mother is free & at peace we hope will ease the sadness left in all your hearts. Your entire family have our deepest condolences.

  62. Harold And Sharon Chappel

    November 4, 2019 at 7:42 AM

    Our sympathies to all the family. She was such a lovely kind lady.
    Hold tight to the loving memories.

  63. Reg & Dorothy Morrison

    November 4, 2019 at 6:28 AM

    Our sincere sympathy to all the Cooper families on the passing of your Mom, Gramma, Kay. We Remember her well. R.I.P. Kay.

  64. Angela Vandeworp

    November 4, 2019 at 5:33 AM

    Dear Donnie and family please except my deepest condolences for the loss of you dear Mother . May God comfort you at this time

  65. Joan Cleave

    November 3, 2019 at 10:23 PM

    Extending my sincere condolances to all of the Cooper Family on the loss of your Mother. Kay was an awesome “Lady” . May all your memories of her keep her in your heart forever .

  66. Russ Neathway

    November 3, 2019 at 10:00 PM

    Sorry your loss she was a beautiful person

  67. Scot Morgan and Judy Parsons

    November 3, 2019 at 8:01 PM

    John, Janet and all the Cooper family – We are so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing, but feel she will be at peace now. Thinking of you at this sad time.

  68. Bev and Arnie

    November 3, 2019 at 7:58 PM

    Our sympathies to the family. We have many good memories of our years living next door to Kay and Ray on Wiliam St. They were great neighbours to have.
    Arnie and Bev Martin

  69. Cy & Eleanor Blommaert

    November 3, 2019 at 6:49 PM

    Our deepest sympathy to the Cooper Family …
    Kay was a very kind lady,..and will be truly missed by her family
    Cy & Eleanor

  70. Joyce Fischer

    November 3, 2019 at 6:44 PM

    Sorry for your loss she will always be in our hearts forever Le Roy, Norma, Kay Joyce Jean June and Glen

  71. Doug and Joyce McBeath

    November 3, 2019 at 5:58 PM

    Our prayers and sympathy to Donnie and Joanne and the Cooper family

  72. Janice Preszcator

    November 3, 2019 at 5:24 PM

    To the Cooper family; my deepest condolences to all the Cooper Family on Kay’s passing. May all your memories bring smiles and laughs as you gather as a family. I am sure there are lots of memories.

  73. Marion McCarter

    November 3, 2019 at 4:56 PM

    Pat and Jim and the Cooper families
    Sorry for your loss. All of those wonderful memories she has blessed you with will all become treasures you will carry
    in your hears forever. Deepest sympathy.
    Marion McCarter, Teresa, Diane, Cheryl and families

  74. Donna Perry

    November 3, 2019 at 4:03 PM

    Deepest Sympathy to the Cooper family. Kay was always very special to Bill. I remember her laugh and smile. Cherish all the wonderful memories.
    With Deepest Sympathy Donna Perry

  75. Marilyn Waldeck

    November 3, 2019 at 2:58 PM

    Pat and Jim , Paul & family -I am sorry to hear of your loss of Kay, a loving Mother and caring Grandmother and a special lady. I trust that all the good memories you all shared with her over the years will make the coming months and years help you through the sadness and remain stronger.

  76. Katherine Ens

    November 3, 2019 at 2:47 PM

    My deepest sympathy to the Cooper family. Kay was an amazing person and always so happy. I have a lot of fond memories of her. She will be missed.
    Katherine (MacGregor) Ens

  77. Kendra Craig

    November 3, 2019 at 2:42 PM

    My sympathies to the entire Cooper family …..????????

  78. Tom and Carol Arthur

    November 3, 2019 at 2:26 PM

    Our sincere sympathy to all the Cooper family. We will always remember her loving and kind heart as well as her big smile.

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