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NEILANDS: Kathleen Anne (Henderson) of Hensall

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NEILANDS: Kathleen Anne (Henderson) of Hensall

“Sleep pretty darling, do not cry. And I will sing a lullaby.” – Paul McCartney

Our beautiful mama is at peace, and while our hearts are filled with an extraordinary sadness, we express a deep gratitude for the life of Kathleen Anne Neilands. Kathleen was born to the late Margaret and John Henderson in Hensall, where she later married her best friend and love of her life, Tom Neilands. Together they raised five children who mourn her loss with their partners, Amy and George Zoethout, Jeremy and Luanne Neilands, Kelly and Ryan Oesch, Regan Neilands and Mackenzie McClinchey, and Jill and Jeremy Muir. She was the beloved Ringo Gramma to Nathan, Finn, Jackson, Ella, Aaron, Blake, Chloe, Cassidy, Drew, Thomas, Harper, Hadley, Cooper, and Londyn. She will be deeply missed by her sisters and their husbands, Lois and Keith Lindsay, Jean and Bryan Underwood, and Sylvia and Richard Packham. Kathleen will also be missed by the extended Neilands clan, Sheila Regier, Rosemarie Hibbert, Norman and Tina Neilands, John and JoAnn Neilands, Gerry and Diane Neilands, Michael Neilands, Kathy and Terry Luther, and Suzette Neilands and Alf VanLuven. She will be remembered by many nieces, nephews and a wonderful community of friends. Kathleen is pre-deceased by her parents, her mother and father-in-law Alice and Paul Neilands, her brother Jack Henderson, and brother-in-law Ron Hibbert.

Visitation will be held at Haskett Funeral Home, 49 Goshen Street North, ZURICH on Friday, September 16th from 6 – 8 PM. Registration for visitaiton is required and appreciated. Please click “Register Now” below to register

Kathleen’s Funeral Mass will be held at St. Boniface Catholic Church, 22 Mary Street, Zurich on Saturday, September 17th at 11 AM with Father Vince Gulikers presiding. Interment St. Bonfiace Catholic Cemetery on the Bronson Line. (Registration not required).

For those unable to attend the Funeral Mass, you may join online by visiting https://www.youtube.com/c/LakeHuronCatholicFamilyOfParishes

A special thank you to Dr. Nanda, South Huron Hospital, Charlene from Saint Elizabeth’s, and Tina from Care Partners for your support and care.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in honour of Kathleen to the Royal Canadian Legion, Branch 468 (Hensall Legion) or the Tanner Steffler Foundation.

Condolence Messages

  1. Joyce and Dan McGlinchey

    Tom and family : Joyce and I just today were made aware of your loss. We cherish our seven years in Hensall when Kathy babysat Evan and Diana. Tom, you were always a better hockey player than Lanny MacDonald!! RIP Kathy 😇❤️🙏

  4. Sherri Tessier

    Tom & family, my deepest condolences to you on the passing of Kathleen. I pray her presence may be felt near you, her spirit is still with you.

  5. Karen Buckley Vansteelandt

    Dear Tom, Amy, Jeremy, Kelly, Regan, Jill and family.
    I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. She had a flare for life and was always warm and welcoming. I am grateful to have had our paths cross along life’s journey.
    My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

    Karen Buckley Vansteelandt

  7. McAllister family

    Tom – we are so sorry for your loss. May all of your good times together as a family and time spent with good friends over the years – help you in the days ahead. Our sympathy to all — Tim, Peter, Bryan & Sarah McAllister

  8. Liz Campbell

    Tom and Family
    So sorry to hear of Kathies passing. My deepest sympathy to you all.
    Rest in Peace Kathy
    Sincerely
    Liz Campbell

  9. Linda (Reid) Charrette

    So very sorry to hear about Kathy. She was a lovely person and dedicated to her family and community. My thoughts and prayers are with the Neilands’ and Henderson families.

  10. Ray and Karen Mathonia

    Our condolences to Kathies family.. she was a faithful follower in our Parish… may your memories of good times surround you with her love.

  11. Laura Overholt

    Tom, Kelly and entire Neilands Family,
    My Deepest Sympathy with
    Kathy’s passing. Looking at the photos she so loved her family.
    I will miss seeing her coming
    to Sunday Mass.
    Thoughts and prays for all of you in the month ahead.
    RIP Kathy 🙏

  13. Karen Insley Windsor and family

    Dear Tom and family. Our deepest sympathy for your family’s loss. I had the pleasure of working with Kathy for many years and she was a great lady! May you find peace in your wonderful memories.

  14. Paul & Betty Southgate

    Please except our deepest sympathy Tom and family. We are sorry for your loss. May your memories sustain and bring you comfort during this sad time.

  15. Tom and Julia Dickins

    Deepest condolences to the entire Neilands family and extended family. May you find comfort in the days ahead.

  16. Jen Taylor

    Amy and the Neilands family,
    So sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. May you hold her memories close to your heart. Thinking of you all.

  17. Charlotte Elliott

    Tom and family, we are so very sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. Thinking of you all at this time and sending Love and Prayers. Love to all Dan and Char Elliott

  18. Jamie & Barb Caldwell

    Dear Tom & Family, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Kathy. She will be sorely missed, treasure your memories.

  20. Chuck and Barb Dalrymple

    We were so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. We will remember all the good times spent with Kathy and Tom at Kinette/Kinsmen and Legion functions. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Barb and Chuck Dalrymple

  21. Pat & Evelyn Regier

    We were so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. Our Sincere Sympathy to Tom and all the family.

  24. Marilyn Taylor

    Tom and family
    So sorry to read of Kathie’s passing. May happy memories help you through this difficult time.

  25. John Skea

    My deepest sympathies to Tom and family. I recall Kathy as kind and gentle soul who weaves in and out of memories of my teenage years. We were part of the group that established the first Teen Town dances in Hensall and served on the executive together.

  27. Jacqui & Charlie Regier

    Dear Tom & Neilands Family , sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Kathy, she will be missed by many who knew and loved her, you are in out thought and prayers at this very sad time… Jacqui & Charlie Regier

  28. Jim and Mary Lou Hyde

    Tom and family, we offer our condolences on your loss of Kathy. She will be remembered. Rest In Peace Kathy!

  29. Greg & Brenda Dayman

    Tom & family…So sorry to hear of Kathie’s passing. Have had some good times with her thru both The legion & Kinsmen functions. Sending our Deepest Condolences. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead.
    Sincerely Greg & Brenda

  30. Bill and Linda Soldan

    Tom and family..We are so saddened to hear the news of Kathie passing.
    We remember the fun times on our trips together, the fun parties and the laughs and memories we shared.
    Thinking of all at this time. R.I.P. Kathie..hugs

  31. Shirley Flynn Avery

    CondI wish to extend my condolences to all of the family! So many remembrances of the Henderson family! May our Lord Jesus comfort you all in this time of loss!

  32. Rob & Brenda

    Ryan , Kelly, Aaron, Blake and Chloe
    So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you mourn and celebrate your mom and grandma.
    Rob & Brenda

  34. Linda Fahner

    Tom and family, so sorry for your loss. Kathie will be missed by so many. Sincere condolences to all of her family.

  35. Rob Taylor

    Tom and family sending our condolences on the passing of Kathy. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

    Rob & Christina Taylor

  37. Marion McCarter

    Kelly and Ryan and all of the Neilands and Henderson families:
    So sorry for the loss of your mother, grandmother and your Dad”s wife. May her wonderful memories become treasures you will carry in your hearts forever. Deepest Sympathy.
    Marion McCarter, Teresa and Joe, Diane and Dave, Cheryl and Ernie and families

  39. Doug and Judy Dalrymple

    Tom and family,Sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing.Thinking of all of you at this sad time.
    Our sincere condolences.
    Doug and Judy

  41. Gary & Judy Kyle

    So sorry for your loss Tom and family! Kat will be playing euchre with the Queen right now and I know she won/t be letting her win! Luv you lots Tommy.
    Gary & Judy Kyle

  42. Bev. O’Neil

    Tom and family, so sorry to hear of your wife and mother’s passing.She will be greatly missed by all of you.Take care of each other.

  44. Chuck Mallette

    We extend to Tom and the family our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Kathy. She will be missed so greatly by so many. Cherish the memories and the stories of her life. We offer our deepest sympathy and prayers for the difficult days ahead. Warmest regards, Chuck and Judy Mallette

  45. Marc Clausius

    My deepest sympathies Tom to you and your family. Kathy was an amazing woman who treated me with kindness and respect for all the years we worked together. She will be deeply missed.

  46. Joan Goddard

    I grew up at the corner of Nelson Street , partway between the Neilands house and the Henderson house. I remember vividly Tom and Kathy walking back and forth along the street during their courtship. That is a love stood the test of time.
    My sympathy to Tom and their children, as well as the extended Neilands and Henderson families. May the good memories persevere and the pain fade away.
    Joan Goddard

  50. Joan Finkbeiner

    Tom and family. So sorry to read of Kathy’s passing. My condolences to all you. Cherish all of your memories.

    Joan Finkbeiner

  52. Mike & Colleen Cyr

    Loosing a loved one is so hard, we are saddened to hear of the passing of your Wife, Mother and Grandmother and we are thinking of you all at this very difficult time. Our sincere sympathy! Hugs
    Mike and Colleen (Overholt) Cyr

  53. Caroline Peterson

    We are so sorry for your loss. May your memories give you comfort.
    Caroline, Malcolm and Anna Peterson

  54. Angela (Erb) & Mike Treanor

    We are very sorry to hear of the loss of Kathy. Sending warm thoughts and prayers to the whole family through this difficult time.

  56. Kate Farwell

    To Kelly & family –
    My most sincere condolences to you on your Mom’s passing. I’m thinking of you and hope that your memories and love help you through this difficult time.

  58. Bill and Cheryl Tong

    Tom and family,
    We are very sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing
    Our deepest sympathies to all of you.
    Hugs 🤗

  59. Patti Hunt

    Kelly, Ryan and extended families.
    Please accept our sympathies on the passing of your mother.
    Cherish the good🙏

  61. Dale & Dianne Peck

    Tom & Family
    Our sincere condolences to you all on the passing of your dear & beloved Kathy.
    Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
    May you find comfort, in your many loving memories of Kathy.

    Dale & Dianne Peck

  63. Evelyn Vincent

    Tom and family
    Sincere sympathy in your great loss. May God grant peace and comfort. Keep the good memories close

  64. Tim & Carole Alce

    Dear Neilands Family,
    We send you our deepest condolences on the death of your loved one, Kathleen. Although we didn’t know her personally, we are friends of her sister Jean and, knowing how dear Kathleen was to Jean, it is apparent that Kathleen was a beautiful person. She will be missed by many.
    We are Tanner Steffler’s grandparents. Thank you for choosing Tanner Steffler Foundation as one of the charities where people may make donations in Kathleen’s name. Through those donations, you will be helping to save the lives of young people in Huron/Perth.

  65. Jaclyn Rader & Wes Brown

    Kelly & Family,
    We are so sorry for your loss. Wrapping you in love and prayer during this difficult time.

  69. Parrish Balm

    Dearest Neilands family-my deepest condolences to you all. I know how deeply Kathie will be missed. Kathie always made me feel so welcome and I will cherish so many lovely memories of her at different Neilands events. My heart and prayers go out to you all. Much love.

  70. Brenda McCormick

    My deepest condolences and sympathies to Tom and Kathy’s family. Kathy was a beautiful soul and my dearest friend for years. May God bless you with your wonderful memories of Kathy and please know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers.

  71. Cathi Clausius

    Tom , My deepest sympathy to you and your family . Im so sorry to hear . Kathy always made me feel welcomed and comfortable . She so loved her family ,cherish the memories and love you all shared . Hugs may she RIP

  72. Elaine Corbett

    Our deepest sympathies to Tom and family! Cherish your memories to help you through this difficult time and the days ahead!

    Sincerely,
    Elaine, Jason, Dawn & Jeff

  74. Brad & Anne Mousseau

    Heartfelt condolences to Tom & family & all who loved Kathy, now at peace.
    Cherish your precious memories for comfort in the days ahead.

  75. Brad & Anne Mousseau

    Heartfelt condolences to Tom & family & all who loved Kathy, now at peace.
    Cherish your precious memories.

  77. J & J Ferris

    We’re so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing she always had a smile on her face may she rest in peace. Heaven has gained another angel. Condolences to the entire Neilands and Henderson families.

  79. Jason and Julie Clarke

    We are truly saddened by the loss of Kathy. She was such an amazing lady. Our condolences to Tom and the entire family

  80. Arlene [Chipchase] Styles

    Tom & family, I’m so deeply sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. I wish I had seen her more since I moved back to Hensall. My thoughts and prayers are with you all

  81. Victoria Bisback

    Dear Tom, Amy, Jeremy, Kelly, Regan, Jill and extended family,
    Our deepest sympathies. May the prayers and love from others give you some comfort at this difficult time. The beautiful memories you all share and cherish of Kathy will keep her alive and present in your hearts always.
    Our condolences, Victoria, Clayton, Lauren & Olivia ❤️🕊

  82. Karen & Randy Stanlake

    Tom and family,
    We were sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. Let the stories told in the coming days help you through this difficult time. She is no longer suffering and is at peace. She lives on in the hearts of you all.

  83. Shawn and Deb Vanstone

    Tom and family. We are deeply saddened to hear of Kathy’s passing. May Gods peace be with you all. We shared so many good times and will keep those memories close to our heart forever.

  84. Sue Riley

    So many wonderful memories of card games/Kathy & Neil’s musical debates/touring to see shows and more than I can recall. RIP, Kathy! You will have many angels with you.

  85. Janis and Peter Bisback

    Words cannot express our sadness in the passing of a dear friend. She loved her children immensely. Sending hugs to all of the Neilands family.

  88. Scott & Darlene Bell

    So very sorry for your Family’s loss.
    Sending our love and condolences to everyone.
    Kathy was a beautiful soul and will be missed by many
    RIP Kathy
    Scott & Dar

  89. Karen Dickins

    Tom and family, Sylvia and Richard and extended family, my deepest condolences, May your wonderful memories help ease the pain. Thinking of you.

  90. Larry & Bonnie Gould

    Dear Tom & Family, Sorry Kathy has passed away. You were all blessed to have her in your lives. She made the best Carrot Cake ever. She will be missed by so many. Sincerely Larry & Bonnie Gould.

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